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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: crazygirl4RD



trust me!! i have not watched that part till date.. i only watched the next day episodes

you should then ...
they were really intense 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: crazygirl4RD

i still cannot get over the Valentine Break up episodes! watched them rare.. but feels so bad for MaNan and Nandini there..
this is just me personal view and feeling, that manik just went over board there.. being angry to her was fine! but literally breaking up and saying she betrayed him was too much for me..😭
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this was like the third time nandini was hurt by manik..
first musicana, then when he ignored her totally after the hospital track (though it was nandini who told to be away😆 )and then V-day..

i knw i must not be talking abt those sad things now,but what to do, this morning i happend to read one FF where this was mentioned.. so could not help abt saying it out😆


I agree. I failed to understand his POV there.. I have discussed this here before also. I agree he was hurt.. But he knew what Nyonika is capable of.. Infact he also got manipulated by her.. He also knew how naive and innocent Nandini was.. He witnessed that in Harshad's case as well.. Still blaming Nandini and going to the extent of saying I hate u was too much for me..
Though that break-up helped them to grow as a couple, break-up itself did not make much sense to me..
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: drnidsur

you should then ...
they were really intense 😳


It was really intense in terms of acting. But build up for the break-up did not work for me. I was okay, with break-up.. but I still find something missing in the reason for that break-up😕
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved


I agree. I failed to understand his POV there.. I have discussed this here before also. I agree he was hurt.. But he knew what Nyonika is capable of.. Infact he also got manipulated by her.. He also knew how naive and innocent Nandini was.. He witnessed that in Harshad's case as well.. Still blaming Nandini and going to the extent of saying I hate u was too much for me..
Though that break-up helped them to grow as a couple, break-up itself did not make much sense to me..

although i myself felt this ...but i think it was justified for thats how manik is and nandini knows that that why she accpeted it . manik is very very impulsive in such matters esp when it comes to someone he has loved and in this case he has fallen in love for the first time ever. he has never given anyone wat he has given nandini . hence his usual way comes out ie -lashing out just like he did in storeroom saying "why does everyone think its me "
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved


It was really intense in terms of acting. But build up for the break-up did not work for me. I was okay, with break-up.. but I still find something missing in the reason for that break-up😕

well it wasnt any break up ...it was just pain or rather some healing manik needed inorder to get over his impulsive self . but it worked and now he controls his anger .
break up is possible in their case only if one is wrong but these two cant ever be disloyal or hurt each other . hence a hardcore break up isnt possible ever imo 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: drnidsur

although i myself felt this ...but i think it was justified for thats how manik is and nandini knows that that why she accpeted it . manik is very very impulsive in such matters esp when it comes to someone he has loved and in this case he has fallen in love for the first time ever. he has never given anyone wat he has given nandini . hence his usual way comes out ie -lashing out just like he did in storeroom saying "why does everyone think its me "


If u go by Manik's character traits and his broken past, somehow his actions can be justified.. He did the same with Alya too.. Trust was something very important for him.. But according to me his definition of trust itself was wrong.. He kinda placed her on pedestal.. And when she err'd it was hard for him to accept.. But I still feel he took it too far.


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved


If u go by Manik's character traits and his broken past, somehow his actions can be justified.. He did the same with Alya too.. Trust was something very important for him.. But according to me his definition of trust itself was wrong.. He kinda placed her on pedestal.. And when she err'd it was hard for him to accept.. But I still feel he took it too far.


he took it far when he asked her to drink the vinegar
their date lashing was expected altho
but even in vineagr , he himself suffered a lot still he nursed her
and admitted that he had taken it far , but its hurts to hurt her ...but yes ! as a person he was helpless n his trust was broken soo he cudnt just leave that matter
but i agree ...the buildup shud have been better ...n i dont belive this blind trsut concept was so good , but then manik as a charac is such ..so prob have to accept that
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: drnidsur

well it wasnt any break up ...it was just pain or rather some healing manik needed inorder to get over his impulsive self . but it worked and now he controls his anger .

break up is possible in their case only if one is wrong but these two cant ever be disloyal or hurt each other . hence a hardcore break up isnt possible ever imo 😳


Hardcore break-up toh kabi nahi hoga.. They are like each others oxygen.. Hate, Love or whatever it is they found their way back to each other.. Hamesha😳

Manik trolled sacrifice too😆

As far as their growth is considered it definitely did its work. But if u start reasoning the things u find lot of faults, why's and how's.. and because of these questions doing rounds in my head I failed to empathize with Manik.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: LovesToBeLoved


Hardcore break-up toh kabi nahi hoga.. They are like each others oxygen.. Hate, Love or whatever it is they found their way back to each other.. Hamesha😳

Manik trolled sacrifice too😆

As far as their growth is considered it definitely did its work. But if u start reasoning the things u find lot of faults, why's and how's.. and because of these questions doing rounds in my head I failed to empathize with Manik.

i know what u meant abt the latter ...thats why i said u gotta accept that blind trust thing the way it is . cant do more
but i didnt mind cause i got that ice cream scene ...which was too cute ❤️
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: drnidsur

he took it far when he asked her to drink the vinegar
their date lashing was expected altho
but even in vineagr , he himself suffered a lot still he nursed her
and admitted that he had taken it far , but its hurts to hurt her ...but yes ! as a person he was helpless n his trust was broken soo he cudnt just leave that matter
but i agree ...the buildup shud have been better ...n i dont belive this blind trsut concept was so good , but then manik as a charac is such ..so prob have to accept that


Even that lash-out, was too much for me(Only my POV). But that's how Manik was.. Impulsive and extreme.. Other than that any explanation or justification dint work for me.

Even the vinegar thing- Though he suffered with her and bought Ice-cream shop for her later, It wont erase the fact that things like that were wrong and it was toxic. For me what stood out in the whole scene was that, Nandini saying his ways are completely wrong even when she was on Mission Manik manao.

It was like everything or Nothing for Manik.. So that growth was much needed. But if u think about the things Nandini had to go through u cant help but feel bad for her.

Its always about Growth in their relationship and growth as individuals. There are lot of "WRONGS" which did the "RIGHT" things for them. so that's okay😳. Our babies are imperfectly perfect😃

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