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I miss nandini murthy have come a long way today from being an ordinary homemaker and today carrying this 'celebrity' status.
No, i never wanted to be one. All I wanted, was to create an indentity for my self. I dont believe that our great indian housewives do not have an identity but something that i have failed to understand is why even today they are under-rated. who apart from them can do this 24*7 unpaid job without any complaints.
Right since the day I had fallen for Manik and afterwards when we got hitched, all i was busy in was loving him..worrying for his friends..his concerts..important events of his life.
Yes, thats good..thats what all do for their loved one's right.
I never really explored myself..what were my goals, my ambitions..i had basically forgotten who i was..i was just a directionless ship...i had to rediscover my self all over again..fall in love with my own self
And thats what i exactly did. Manik was besides me throughout this wonderful journey. Today, I am one of the most renowned classical singers and Manik is this proud hubby and i know no one else is happier for me then him.
This journey was not about ambitions . I learnt that when you get lost in love..never lose yourelf...rather, with your loved one besides you , you can discover the best in you.
Today, our bond has grown to be much stronger, stronger then before because we have realised that love is not about completing each other because if you feel that your incomplete, no one can actually fill up that space for you.
Its about being besides your partner till eternity. Love can never make you aimless in life but it gives you your aim.
Ps : in all our movies and daily soaps why are the girls clueless about themselves? such potrayals aren't really helping. No its not wrong in loving someone more then you love yourself and its ok if you are not ambitious in nature..but never forget who u are
Ganesh Kartikeya
