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Posted: 10 years ago
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I somewhat disagree with you, I believe that every Indian women be it 16yrs or 65yrs can bring up a child on her own... There is no need to kill a life because of career etc
N no one knows about the future of any unborn child... Be the parents rich or poor
So u mean that if an 18yr old married women is preg n loses her husband during pregnancy she should abort her child if her husband has left no financial means!!! Or should she become independent and self dependent and raise the child !!
U believe it or not that's what's going to happen after 10-15 years in India .. Less marriages n more single parents especially in metro cities!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Stella324

I'm pretty a silent reader in this forum.

I'm actually confused . As for now Navya should focus for a better career . But I'm quite confused about how will she manage it with her pregnancy ?. Even if she gives birth to the child , how will she afford to give a good future to the child ? . She is doing her first year in college , she is practically having three to four years to complete with her college , by that time her child will be three years old .she will have to take care of her child as well as complete with her education . It will be quite complicated . It is not only about her career but also about the child's future . There can be several problems for Navya in future .
Pregnancy brings an emotional state to the person who is carrying the child .Aborting the child can affect Navya psychologically or may be her she wont allow to abort the child also .
My very close cousin sister went through miscarriage due to her health complications , her condition was even more worse after that incident . (sorry for ranting)


Its really is confusing no?you wrote beautifully and I agree with you wholeheartedly...the cvs can go for a miscarriage but that would be a chicken way out to weasel out of the problem...and as you said the mother's condition can get worse after the incident!


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Opti

I think Navya may have to abort the baby because of medical complications. During Soha track, she also inhaled the white powder which hospitalised Nandu. She did not see any doctor but assumed the symptoms were related to her pregnancy. I think the foetus could have been poisoned and hence may not develop properly necessitating an abortion later. Maybe she may be advised it when she has her sonography done at 16 weeks pregnancy.


yes Orpi this might happen too!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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After all killing an unborn innocent sole for worldly things is illogical n immoral... That soul who has come into existence has the right to live... It is illegal n if they show such a thing on TV n try to justify it. - I will personally file a PIL against them..
If a women is given the power to bring life into the world, she also has to power to nurture it on her own!!
If ur father dint provide u means for livelihood ur mum wouldn't just throw u, she wouldn't have killed u in her womb .. She would have fought for u,cared for u .. Coz she loves u...I will find her a ruthless lady if she kills the child for her future n career ... Don't tell me about the future of the child - there is no such thing, no one knows the future of anybody
If she can bring the child in the world... She can also provide it with the means
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dushturain


Its really is confusing no?you wrote beautifully and I agree with you wholeheartedly...the cvs can go for a miscarriage but that would be a chicken way out to weasel out of the problem...and as you said the mother's condition can get worse after the incident!


You are right .
But the question is how will the Cvs deal this thing ?.Because both the cases can cause major problem's for Navya .
I practically like Cabir and Navya . But not their marriage as they both are very different personalities when it comes to heart .
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Supneet,
Out of all the discussions above you only understood this??? aborting because of career...

If you are not willing to understand there is nothing we can say or do that can make you understand.

Thank you for your input and wise and worldly opinions... Because of people like you countries like ours are over populated with no family planning and more than 50 % of people living under poverty lines with no education...

All the very best to you!! I bow to your superior intelligence and morality...
Edited by dushturain - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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to me abortion is wrong its same like murder so no mater what the situation one is abortion should not be allowed unless some medical reason.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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You r absolutely right she should not deliver the baby



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dushturain


I understand Tina.. the mother will offcourse think with heart...but in situations like this, someone should talk to the mother and show her all the pros and cons of giving birth...and no matter what, the final decision should be the mother's


I want Navya to decide that!

she should think about the child's future..



outside of society norms and what people expect from an unmarried mother, i'd also like to point out that abortion can scar a girl till the day she dies and also there have also been many cases where due to their young age abortions had have very bad effects on their bodies, and if abortion was done in a very unhuman way(which is done a lot given the cost and stigma associated to such issues) many girls have also lost the possibility to be mothers in futures
and at last i've seen people yearning for a child.
good or bad, Navya was big enough to have sex with someone, she was big enough to know what is right or wrong, having sex/love despite using protection, there's always a 1% chance of getting pregnant..., it's our body and our choice.
same it's her call, frankly i know her life would be very difficult with a baby but i'd still add that i cant seem to decide at all😕
for me the pros and cons vary from one person to another because our views arent same at all
but i know whatever she decides i will accept without any judgement.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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dhustu ...i think navya should keep the baby! coz the baby is not at fault...navya should have taken all precautions ! i dont know about the future of the baby ..i cant give justify about navya giving the baby proper life or not...but abortion should never be an option. ppl have to figure out the financial needs some how!!! taking parents help or friends...social organizations ...there has to be a way...😊 just my point of view!

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