And she mistrusts him again!!!!

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diva82

@diva82

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Posted: 10 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: thesaint148

Diva, there are things people say ad things people do. manik says he wants to hurt her, but has he done that once. infact last night he went to her house and told her it hurts to hurt you. what more do we expect from him yar. kuch unsaid baatain Nandani ko bhi samajhni hoon gi na. sab kuch us ki convenience say tu nahi ho ga na. thats not fair.

How does she know, he won't do it again? He didn't say that to her yesterday, all he said it hurts to hurt you. Yes she takes things at face value, so yes, it will take her time to learn how this difficult man operates.

and about the concert thing, yes, she wanted to rpotect him from the TK thing, well, could she have used a better way to communicate. locking him in a room and shouting wont work with Manik. Manik was running away from her, and was about to walk away again so she had to force him in the room, and she said herself today, she has learnt this locking from Manik, remember, when Manik locked her in the room for the sorrys. And yes, she could have been calmer, but she needed to bang in some hard truths to him, much needed that don't use music to hurt her. Cuz, Manik only listens when Nandini either shouts or punches him.

not at all. can she be a little reasonable with that, than saying, i know you want to join the concert to get back to me. yes, manik didnt tell her about nyoneka plan, but didnt he tell her the other day about nyoneka and her intentions. now how many times do you want him to repeat that story. if she choses to forget it at her convinience than thats awful. the person you love, you dont forget his hurt and things that hurt him so easily. When Nandini ran back to him, after her explusion got cancelled, what was the first thing Manik said "I brought you back because I want you to feel the pain, and it will be painful, trust me". Has he retracted those words? No, and that was after his story with Nyonika. His own actions causes her to think this way.

instead, she chose to shout and let him down. she could have said, i dont know why you are doing this, but please dont do this if it hurts you more. how difficult was that? She just saw him arrogantly taunt the Pandit "talk to my mom, nyonika"

i wont talk about shahid scene, i had no problems with that one. that was a different scenario and a different nandini. It's the same situation, this is how Manik always functions, if he is hurt, he leashes out. Like that V-day instance, where he broke the heart.

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vidhi_1998

@vidhi_1998

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Posted: 10 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: thesaint148

Chill is an understatement here. with Manik crying every second and nandini playing the mommy role all the time or a fighting silly girl all the time, Chill cannot happen ... not with me atleast.

ok, so she thinks TK will not make it easy for manik. well manik is a grown up, and mommy nandini needs to let him make his decisions. infact this was a chance to spend more time with manik and strengthen the bond.

Jab aap kisi se pyaar karte ho, aap unke bhale ke liye hi sochte ho. Maybe Nandini was just thinking about what will be the best for Manik. And as for the "mommying," we have seen what happens when Nandini ignores him, he's a wreck, gets violent, and makes rash decisions. And in no way am I saying that Nandini cannot be wrong, she has been wrong many a time. In fact, she is one of the most flawed characters, but nonetheless, Manik is not perfect. And the time spending thing, Nandini (probably) doesn't wanna be stuck spending time with Manik when the Pandit's watching them...

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sandy_111

@sandy_111

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Posted: 10 years ago

#43

sorry to disagree dear...she dnt mistrust manik i thnk she gt him r8...manik is doing ds concert to hurt nandini r8?? nandini dusnt want manik to make music d weapon to gt on hr...wen did she say u r nt fit fr d cncert??... nandini knows hw imp music is to manik...i thnk nandini is r8 on hr side manik only is confused lyk while singing ye dooriyan he was gettng emsnl.. on d odr hand he says i wl make ur lyf hell...

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Felicity_Khushi

@Felicity_Khushi

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+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: thesaint148

Manik doesnt need to be elecated in anyones eyes. he is much taller in respect and love than Nandini, who can only cry and hurt manik over and over again.

Manik gave her his trust. he trusted her with his secrets. before blaming manik you have to understand where he comes from. what are his past dark shadows, which has scarred him so much that trusting someone was never a word in dis dictionary. and he said that night to nandini, fab 5 came together because we all were alone, we all were fighting for ourselves and so we got together. and we bully people so no one else can bully us. didn't that make any impression on you. its not easy for people with scarred background to trust people so easily. but he gave her a chance, over and over. he poured out his heart in front of her, yes he didn't tell her about Soha, but nandini didn't tell him about leaving town as well. so both were at fault, not just manik.

So before we praise the goddess nandini and degrade Manik, we need to get our facts straight.

Do you seriously think this is a game of hide and seek. done you feel for that guy who is crying ever since he has fallen in love with this so called goddess. first she betrays his trust in the court room, then she acts like, manik will come to me, i dont have to do anything special to get his trust back.

she lost his trust, PERIOD. why should he trust her again. and about manik, yes he made a huge mistake by leaving her for Dhruv, and for that i was the first person standing against him. but then for the next 75 episodes, he did his best to get her trust back. he did everything for that. and finally he got it back in the last few episodes before the court room drama.

So now its nandini's turn to earn his trust which she so easily broke in the court room. and now she is behaving as if nothing happened ... good for her, she doesn't deserve Manik at all.

You are concerned if Manik would elevate in your eyes, i am concerned, if nandini could ever get that respect in my eyes which she lost that day and keeps losing everyday by her selfish attitude.

Really? Manik told her the truth? Shared his secrets? Unless we are watching a different ky2 I didn't see such scenes! What he said when drunk can hardly be termed as sharing his "secrets!" sorry but nandini gave manik her trust as a gift, he never earned it!

You may justify all actions by saying the kid had a broken childhood! But these are just reasons to prove him right!

You may glorify that he even drank that vinegar for her, what I saw was his helplessness to really hurt her!

You may glorify his reasons to hurt her, but the truth is there's no reason why she even should let herself be insulted like this!

If you think manik is a great lover, then sorry to point you out that Manik once promised that he'd never hurt her ever again! If I should go by your logic then Manik doesn't love her but just want to take revenge!

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mimi07

@mimi07

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Posted: 10 years ago

#45

I am sorry to say...bt i don't agree wid u here...fr wat i thought she did ws right!!

First thing...manik told pandit that watever happens in the college...the decisions r taken by nyonika...with arrogance all over his face...so ny preson..who knows manik...n wat his current state of mind is...will think that he only has nyonika to make him her partner...n not the other way round...so nandini was nt wrong here!!!

Secondly she din ever thnk that he doesnt have the potential to perform in a concert...y wud she even thnk that...wen she ws ready to go away from his life...jst so he can get the album...bcos she at every point thought that HE deserved it...and rest of Fab5 needed it!! Wat she wants is that manik should not concentrtate on something that is nt his field...nw wen his carrer is about to begin(I mean he s jst a clg student nw...we cant ignore that!!!)

N if u guys remember wen raghav had asked Fab5 to perform a fusion song...evryone of Fab5 including Manik...were dead against it!!! So wen nandini wants the same for Manik...how can we say she is wrong!!! Just beacuse they are going through a rough patch in their relationship!!!

N wat she did in the music room...as in cut the guitar strap...was also to stop manik go into the path which is gonna affect his carrer in a negative way...if u see it from a normal person's view...may b in the show they will deal it in a positive way...bt if we think in reality...it will make the person go down a bit...if he changes his forte( dont we see it in reality shows also if contestants move from their forte...their perforamnces detoriorate!!!)

So nandini being the true well wisher of manik...how can she let that happen to him!!!

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mysti

@mysti

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#46

Post against Nandini?? You have got guts girl. Wait till the forum eats you alive

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Kashish

@thesaint148

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+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: mysti
Post against Nandini?? You have got guts girl. Wait till the forum eats you alive

haahhahahahah 😆 thankyou the forum has already eaten me alive!!!!

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Nupur

@Nupur9

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#48

K, I had written this on another post:-

Badass Manik is AWE-some Manik.

And his At-It-Dude...today blew my mind.

The walk...the talk and the air.

Everything was stinking of Manik DA Malhotra.

And yet the humility in the end when TK ask him if you think I will make you my student based on this song, he nailed it right there when he replied " Yes! If you will judge just the song, and not Manik Malhotra..."

Pure At-It-Dude.

Pure arrogance.

But,

Arrogance here is not a vice.

Sometimes it's a virtue.

A virtue because you never know the person behind the arrogance.

It is a 'protected' life behind the cold eyes, the snobbish nose and the tightened jaw. Arrogance is not always a vice.

Nope.

Not as we are witnessing here.

Its a cover up.

From his vulnerability.

Sometimes, vulnerability knows only one garment to cover itself and that is Sass and Bad-Ass!

Edited by Nupur9 - 10 years ago

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ashmitaa

@ashmitaa

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Posted: 10 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: thesaint148

<font size="3">finally someone agrees that the Goddess Nandini can be wrong as well. pheww ... i thought the forum will start throwing stones at me😆</font>

for me, nandu is wrong..I never supported anyone blindly dr..what u said was true and meaningful..and why u think forum will disagree..,,u just kept ur point..and u hv the right to do it..!!!!

if nandu really want to get her love back,she has to change her attitude..!!
every time she just can't hurt manik more with her words and stubbornness..she has to stop being mulish ..!!
If she really want to make it right..she should stop the unnecessary argument sessions first..coz its unbearable both for manik as well as for us..and if she thinks she can make manik agree to whatever she says(what she always does,)..its immature..!!
she should know that manik too want to come back to her ..what is required is realisation and an initiative from her side..she has to make strong efforts this tym..or else things are not going to work..it will never..!!!!