Feeling cheated vs Feeling Jealous

Firebolt

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I think Dhruv is right in his own way to feel insecure. But I don't think Aliya is necessarily playing with his emotions.

Finding out your boyfriend, ex or not, of 7 years loved another while he was with you, that's got to hurt. More than jealously, I think it's the fact that someone could disregard her feelings, disregard her as a person even, so completely.

Dhruv on the other hand never had to go through that. Nandini was clear that she could never love him. So he sees Aliya as a girl pining. While she sees him as someone who's being obtuse.

Cvs imma loving what you're doing with Dhruv/Aliya so far. Enough for me to write about them even! Keep doing your thang. <3

So what do you guys think? How do Dhruv and Aliya go forward from here?

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TheFaerieQueen

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I think What Alya hasn't realised yet is that the reason for breakup was not his feelings for Nandini, it was her lack of trust in Manik. Also that she could have stooped so low to send goons for Nandini (which is a subtler version of what Soha is doing right now), things could have really spiralled out of her hands with the goons then.

Here on, I think Alya has to learn to communicate really well with Dhruv and Dhruv will learn a thing or two about relationships.

Communication is a big gap between these people, whether FAB5 or MaNan or for that matter Navya-Nandini. They will learn their lessons slowly.

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Priyanka Agrawal

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Posted: 10 years ago

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they need to talk it out.

aliya need to let go and dhruv should support manik and nandini

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cutie345

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I guess the best solution is. ...dhruv nd aliya should have a talk with manik ; of course after nandini is alright. ..nd manik should tell thm each and every thing. ...probably it vl wrk out fr both dhrulya nd manan

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fan145

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I think aliya's thought of nandini being reason for their break up is wrong .lit isnt the reason ..he wud have given chance to her if she had assured him tht she trustEd him vthout second thought ..but she didnt ..soo thrs no point in blaming ..and she is giving wrong signals to dhruv ..she should convey her feelings to him ina way he understand ..she is lacking it ..and dhruv ..i think he will only explode when he comes to knw about sacrifice till then it wud be aliya in his mind..

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Firebolt

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: TheFaerieQueen
I think What Alya hasn't realised yet is that the reason for breakup was not his feelings for Nandini, it was her lack of trust in Manik. Also that she could have stooped so low to send goons for Nandini (which is a subtler version of what Soha is doing right now), things could have really spiralled out of her hands with the goons then.
Here on, I think Alya has to learn to communicate really well with Dhruv and Dhruv will learn a thing or two about relationships.

Communication is a big gap between these people, whether FAB5 or MaNan or for that matter Navya-Nandini. They will learn their lessons slowly.

I think that bit was justified. But her horrendous act after certainly isn't.

Oh yeah communication and lots of it. Sit down and talk about what's bothering each other.

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charminggenie

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I love this conflict way too much , hope it's executed well. And I like it more that Bolt wrote on this.

Both are right and wrong, from Dhruv's perspective he is watching Alya feel powerfully about her past relationship .That disturbs him and he is bound to question her on it while she is taking him as a friend first who always understood her dilemma and her POV, which is why she cannot understand his reaction. They need communication first as a unit and then need to realize that while as friends they will always be there but if they want their relationship to work then they will need to live through these disagreements which means more communication.

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Angelic-Catty

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I find Aliya totally wrong.. She had lack of trust for Manik n here she says Dhruv n her r in a relationship but she isnt even making herself or even Dhuruv believe dat its a relationship

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Firebolt

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: priyanka3677
they need to talk it out.

aliya need to let go and dhruv should support manik and nandini

They're both right and they're both wrong. They need to analyse their own feelings first and foremost.

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Firebolt

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Angelic-Catty
I find Aliya totally wrong.. She had lack of trust for Manik n here she says Dhruv n her r in a relationship but she isnt even making herself or even Dhuruv believe dat its a relationship

I must disagree here.

Her mistrust was justified, I think. For seven years she didn't have a problem with Manik or the female attention he got (presumably ofc since they stayed together for 7 years)

She sensed the attraction MaNan had long before they did.

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