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Originally posted by: charminggenie

Here's what I think of it!

I have no problems with Nandu deliberating about why she didn't fall for Dhruv , considering he was the text-book Prince. This is the question which has been on the minds of few and specially needed for her to understand what is it about Manik that makes her feel all these emotions . Also perhaps when time comes she can answer Manik and tell him why it was always him for her.

Dhruv has been her friend , so it's natural that when she is surrounded by nobody she feels like letting go and be all vulnerable and he is the safe place too for her. There is nothing wrong till here.

But what messes it for me and probably where Nandu errs is that she takes Dhruv's feelings for granted. She is dictating their friendship and expects him to let all he felt go. Which is sort of unfair to Dhruv- especially when she busted his bubble not an hour before. So yeah , as far as sensitivity is concerned it sucks.

But here I will like Dhruv and Nandu to notice this and realize that perhaps space is needed for them too. Dhruv needs to say that although he is her friend but right now he might not be the right person for her to understand her turmoil. Nandu should realize that it's not easy to yo-yo back to status quo.

I hate when people related this to character assassination. No dearies, it's not, weak moment, wrong judgement and just the emotional turmoil is messing them all. She has categorically defined her lines with Dhruv , reading anything beyond will be his fault.

Phew, I just wanted Nandu to reflect on Dhruv too , i guess, the guy did put himself out . Her indifference to his heart-break is what makes me feel that it needs to be brought out too.

Originally posted by: charminggenie

Here's what I think of it!

I have no problems with Nandu deliberating about why she didn't fall for Dhruv , considering he was the text-book Prince. This is the question which has been on the minds of few and specially needed for her to understand what is it about Manik that makes her feel all these emotions . Also perhaps when time comes she can answer Manik and tell him why it was always him for her.

Dhruv has been her friend , so it's natural that when she is surrounded by nobody she feels like letting go and be all vulnerable and he is the safe place too for her. There is nothing wrong till here.

But what messes it for me and probably where Nandu errs is that she takes Dhruv's feelings for granted. She is dictating their friendship and expects him to let all he felt go. Which is sort of unfair to Dhruv- especially when she busted his bubble not an hour before. So yeah , as far as sensitivity is concerned it sucks.

But here I will like Dhruv and Nandu to notice this and realize that perhaps space is needed for them too. Dhruv needs to say that although he is her friend but right now he might not be the right person for her to understand her turmoil. Nandu should realize that it's not easy to yo-yo back to status quo.

I hate when people related this to character assassination. No dearies, it's not, weak moment, wrong judgement and just the emotional turmoil is messing them all. She has categorically defined her lines with Dhruv , reading anything beyond will be his fault.

Phew, I just wanted Nandu to reflect on Dhruv too , i guess, the guy did put himself out . Her indifference to his heart-break is what makes me feel that it needs to be brought out too.

Originally posted by: charminggenie

Here's what I think of it!

I have no problems with Nandu deliberating about why she didn't fall for Dhruv , considering he was the text-book Prince. This is the question which has been on the minds of few and specially needed for her to understand what is it about Manik that makes her feel all these emotions . Also perhaps when time comes she can answer Manik and tell him why it was always him for her.

Dhruv has been her friend , so it's natural that when she is surrounded by nobody she feels like letting go and be all vulnerable and he is the safe place too for her. There is nothing wrong till here.

But what messes it for me and probably where Nandu errs is that she takes Dhruv's feelings for granted.

Originally posted by: pickachu

@bold: exactly that's why i can't relate to her character now..i really like nandu's character but i'm not liking abt this track is this thing only..i don't have any prob with her abt anything except this..i hope tomorrow they will show something sensible so that i can relate to her this type of gesture

Originally posted by: pickachu

@bold: exactly that's why i can't relate to her character now..i really like nandu's character but i'm not liking abt this track is this thing only..i don't have any prob with her abt anything except this..i hope tomorrow they will show something sensible so that i can relate to her this type of gesture

Originally posted by: Medha.S

She wasn't questioning her feelings -- she was just simply wondering how it happened that she fell for the boy who was trouble and why she didn't love the guy who was simple and straight forward and just simply told her 'I LOVE YOU NANDINI'

While baba keeps goig on and on about sorry, you know, I know -- ARRRE Just Tell her if you know and if she knows too .. Instead of forcing her to accept your apology as if it is a thing you can just give her.

It is all because she has no friend -- everyone has a friend.

She keeps on holding to this one person who has told her that they are friends.

Why can't she be selfish and thing about HERSELF for a change?

Why is that only she read between the lines, she looks at dhruv and sees that he is not fine -- why is that only she has to be truthful and right all the time and ask Dhruv, if he is fine, if he is good even tohugh she said no -- if they are still friends after that? Can they be friends?

If Dhruv is so uncomfortable being her friend after she said No! Then he needs to be truthful too, like her and tel her that he needs space from her.

Nandiin, if she knew that Dhruv is confused, isn't comfortable, is still so hurt over it -- She would have given him the space he wants happily. Because she worries about them all. She might feel hurt but it doesnt mean that she won't back out.

And she is not the only girl, in fact so many girls, everyday think the same thing -- Why not the simple guy who had no complications for her -- why couldn't she just love him? -- Why the one who makes her go crazy?

When people need her to be strong, when people need her in their hour of need -- She pushes back everything -- all her hurt, her pain, her mistrust, her anger -- and just stays there for the people who need her. It has always been like that.

Dhruv can deal with this -- He has called her a friend na? Either man up and tell her that he is not comfortable being her friend right now, they should take a break or be their for her even when she is not saying anything because she needs a friend --- if he can't be her friend right now then he should just tell her.

That girl we go home and cry in her pillow. She won't ask for anyones support.