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Posted: 10 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: charminggenie


sorry but i can't relate here may be b/c i don't take my friends for granted.if my friend has love type of feelings for me i would not do it...abt manik-alya scene yesterday i felt uncomfortable and similarly in this case i'm feeling discomfort

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Posted: 10 years ago
#42
@pikachu - Commendable you don't take your friends for granted. So does Nandini , one moment where she thinks about herself, her pain, all she sees is that after whatever happened with Manik drove her to that point. She has told Dhruv that he is her friend, and for that weak moment , she is using their friendship to support her emotions.
Friendship allows her to be selfish too , which is so uncommon for her. But so human.

I doubt there exists a human or an emotion which is not selfish. It doesn't changes her character or who she is as a person.
Edited by charminggenie - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: charminggenie


I don't see what is so un-relatable , we all at times take our friends for granted , she is doing the same. She is friends with Dhruv and can hug. Manik consoled Alya yesterday, side-hugged her, even though she could have taken it in a different angle considering their history. So why cannot Nandini seek comfort in her friend. When I say err is for that moment, not her finding comfort in Dhruv.



I am not so sure about this...maybe Nandini is really considering him...the precap is so vague...we can just assume anything at the moment...
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Posted: 10 years ago
#44
KY2 has a history of showing misleading precaps- this could well be one of them. All the more reason for me to ask you guys to chill. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: shelly_08

KY2 has a history of showing misleading precaps- this could well be one of them. All the more reason for me to ask you guys to chill. 😆

exactly!!
I was about to make this topic...There is no one episode that went according to our assumptions...especially this type of precaps are totally misleading😊👍🏼

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Posted: 10 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: pickachu


Now that you mentioned feeling uncomfortable watching the precap, lemme ask you this- how come you're not mentioning DhruLya hug tonight?

If Nandini leaning on Dhruv's shoulder didn't sit right with you, what about Dhruv announcing to the whole Fab 5 that he's in love with Nandu and then making out with Alya two days from then, what about him indirectly stating to Alya that him and Nandu are 'just friends'? and then crying about the very 'friend' for her lack of reciprocation on the same day?

Is that right?

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Posted: 10 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake


Let me start with saying its a damn PRECAP. As evidenced in this show, multiple times, people on this forum love jumping to conclusions, the Jungle Seduction Trap- Nandu is going to get pregnant, this is what Vikku's tweet meant.
Harshad track- Manik, Nandini memory loss. God forbid we leave any character on the show without a memory loss. Let all of them have a memory loss and pair everyone with everyone.

My point being for starters, lets not jump to conclusions

Scenario : Nandini is upset after her talk with Manik. Her emotions are still raw from the breakup and she cannot forget how easily Manik gave up on their relationship without even taking her feelings into consideration. She is upset, Dhruv passes by and as her friend offers a shoulder to cry on similarly to how Manik offered Alya a shoulder to cry on yday. Nandini thinks this guy is so sweet and understanding, Why couldnt I have fallen for him? Note she didnt say it out, its in her mind, a thought that we all go through when our relationship with our significant other is struggling, why couldnt I have just fallen for that sweet guy who is always there.
Nandini needs a friend.

But who else is there who can offer her comfort other than Dhruv? She needs comfort because of Manik and he's being an arrogant ass, she doesnt know or have a relationship with the rest of the Fab5. And as much as we want CaBini, thats only starting out. Navya is so far up Harshad's ass she has no sense of reality. In all this, Dhruv is the only friend Nandu has.Can we really blame her? She has noone to hold her hand or comfort her.

She is being selfish, but she is probably very upset and Dhruv probably sees her like that and comforts her. Why do we forget that Dhruv probably is also moving on? He just needed Nandu to tell him that for him to see Alya in a new light. I am sure its closure for all of them, for Dhruv on his crush for Nandu, for Alya on her pushing Dhruv towards Nandu and maybe accepting her own feelings, for Manik to once and for all forget sacrificing for Dhruv and to go and fight for his own love and for Nandu to probably have some time off from Manik to realise, that she loves Monster Manik, with his negatives and positives.

Why did Nandu fall for Manik despite forming an earlier bond with Dhruv, they could have easily started a relationship, especially Nandu could have been open about her feelings for Dhruv, there was nothing to restrict her.

Its Manik she loves, his positives and negatives and this is the assurance Manik will get. Manik does not need to be Dhruv for Nandu to love him, just Manik. She loves Manik.

Lets not forget she clearly told Dhruv that he has to have no hopes and in the precap too she hasn't told him, come lets date. Its her inner turmoil, she is questioning why she fell for Manik and not Dhruv? Will Dhruv really have hopes from a hug?, because she did tell him she wants him to be her friend always. And friends hug, all the time,friends offer comfort.

Lets not forget Nandini is not a goddess, she is a teenage girl of 17 with wisdom and maturity far more than her age. But teenage girls at times however mature they are behave like teenage girls.
There is a reason why teenagers are the hardest to deal with. Because its a time of life, when emotions and feelings are heightened.

Allow Nandini Murthy to make mistakes. She is not a goddess or a diva, she is just a teenager dealing with more on her plate than she should.

And stop jumping to conclusions from precaps, promos and random rumours.

I am rambling, will write more later.


Sense and sensibility!!😳😆

Now that I read this , makes me more peaceful. CC🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago
#48

Sense and sensibility!!😳😆

Now that I read this , makes me more peaceful. CC🤗

🤗, people on this forum are hell-bent on me ranting😆, I am so lazy to post and here I am rambling😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49
I agree! She is trying to find solace. She is restless and alone after so much drama that has happened in her life. She wants to be happy. So what's wrong if she is trying to find a lover in Dhruv. She is hurt because of Manik and very badly hurt. As she said, she is not a toy. And Manik has to change his ways of apologizing to her cuz it will not work like this. He needs to understand that he has to give in. He has to give in his bloody ego and show her how much he wants her. How much desperate he is for her. And then after give her time. If she comes back to him (which I'm sure she will) she will be his! He has to mend his ways now. Its high time!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I just posted this in the AT and am going to repeat it everywhere I see "OMG why is Nandini leading Dhruv on?" today. All based on a five-second precap. *facepalm*

There's a reason we got the 'Ummeed hai?' scene before all this. Nandini and Dhruv are always going to be friends. And Alya and Manik, the jealous insecure souls in this love-quadrangle, are going to have to make peace with it.

In fact I think Nandini inadvertently hurting Dhruv a bit will be good for him in the long run, make him (and the audience) realise she's human after all. Dhruv has a pattern when it comes to his 'louu' for Nandini. He thinks she is 'perfect', 'pure' and 'delicate'. And every time she does something to re-inforce this belief, his feelings come tumbling back a bit. He saw her worrying for Navya and Manik and thought, "Wow this girl be so perfect because she cares for everyone." And so he feels hurt again when she firmly friend-zones him.

Her rejection of him has been super-sweet, she is the one who has been comforting him even though her own love life is a mess; basically Nandini is that one person for Dhruv who can do no wrong. And it's high time this delusion was broken. It might hurt him, but it will also make him bring her down from that pedestal where he has put her. Until that happens, no number of kisses and hugs from Alya is going to match up to the Goddess Nandini who exists in Dhruv's head.

Edited by BoxedIn - 10 years ago

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