ANGAD:Unstable but Loveable!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hi there,

Before you guys start reading this post, do try and understand the following quotes................

"Don't judge me, you could be me in another life"

"Before you feel like criticizing someone, just remember that not everybody in their lives have had the advantages that you have had."

This is in response to the replies to my post "What if Angad saw Prithvi and Kripa?".

I don't blame Angad for what he is.....he is just another human-being with his share of vices and virtues.Just because he is practical, believes in living his life in the fast lane....is loaded with attitude, aggression and arrogance...but at the same time he is a sensitive and vulnerable human-being underneath that casanova shell.Kripa has helped him discover that he too has a heart and like everybody else...he too is capable of love.

Why do we always want perfect life partners like Prithvi,Purab, Kkavya and all? If love is a package deal, why can't you accept a person the way he is?Why can't you help someone like Angad,Sujal or Armaan discover their good side?'

Does the reality that Angad is possessive, envious and overtly sentimental about Kripa stain his true feelings for her?We can see that Angad is possessive and has a streak of jealousy ...but why don't we see that he has underlying insecurities about Kripa....that there's a subconscious fear of losing her..that she is one person who has taught him to live all over again? He is a brat with a heart..is it so difficult to see this?

Angad is a human-being and his family has alot to do with the kind of person that he is.......his immaturity, his boyish stupidity, his insecurity...everyone and everything around him has contributed to it.Angad is human....Angad is falliable.

We all are ready with brickbats for Angad for ditching and hurting Kripa..........but have you ever thought..if everything and everyone around you plots against you...no matter how hard you try, you get caught in the flow!

Kripa is the only reason that Angad has discovered his positive side...is madly in love..and if that very girl is proven to be a farce in front of him, what is he going to do?

Angad hugs Mishty in good faith and slight playfullness...he has never given Mishty any wild ideas! Even my male friends hug me...so, does that mean they all are standing in line to marry me?

Guys, it's very easy to sermonize, make judgements on ppl but you don't know what it feels like to be in their shoes!

Angad is not losing his sheen.........till now we have seen him as Angad-the rockstar..is it so difficult to accept Angad-the falliable human-being?

If I was in Kripa's place and Angad didn't trust me, I would still wish him all the very best wherever he is.Love is not hateful, it can never be...at least my love is true and my conscience would be clear.Love not only gives..it also forgives.

I would never go running to Prithvi....no matter how much he loved me 'coz the truth is that I don't see him beyond a friend.

It's true that only those ppl can keep you happy who love you but there's a bigger reality...the only one you can keep happy is the one you love!

Some of you may think, that it's my youth-frenzy and rose-tinted glasses which give me this view...but no, it's a divine reality...divinity of love...which lies in our basic human-connection with each other..in the self-lessness and non-demanding nature of love...which comes from the soul of universe..the same soul from where we all came.

Am glad that you all girls got so feminist...but before that just remember.............we are human-beings first.😛

My post is not about charming or possessive men...it's about love...about following your heart....be it a man like Angad or a man like Prithvi.

Edited by nitica_82 - 20 years ago

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Posted: 20 years ago
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hey nitz ur a genious man!

where do u get this mastermind from yaar!

luv tia

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Posted: 20 years ago
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I am not agenius darling.I am just a human-being trying to be human.All i want to say is that under everybody's hard and glossy shell, there's a vulnerable human-being who wants to be loved and appreciated.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Nitica, you wrote Why do we always want perfect life partners like Prithvi,Purab, Kkavya and all? If love is a package deal, why can't you accept a person the way he is?Why can't you help someone like Angad,Sujal or Armaan discover their good side?'

I just wanted to share that I don't look for the perfect guy. I want someone like Angad. I understand that he is possessive, he is different but he loves kripa with just intensity that it makes you be in love with such a person. Armaan is another example of this. I think that when one falls in love witn a person after they have made mistakes and realized the intensity of their love, they love you more than you can probably think.

sorry if it does't make sense. i am dozing away.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: happe

Nitica, you wrote Why do we always want perfect life partners like Prithvi,Purab, Kkavya and all? If love is a package deal, why can't you accept a person the way he is?Why can't you help someone like Angad,Sujal or Armaan discover their good side?'

I just wanted to share that I don't look for the perfect guy. I want someone like Angad. I understand that he is possessive, he is different but he loves kripa with just intensity that it makes you be in love with such a person. Armaan is another example of this. I think that when one falls in love witn a person after they have made mistakes and realized the intensity of their love, they love you more than you can probably think.

sorry if it does't make sense. i am dozing away.

Don't say that darling.you made perfect sense to me.It's just that you need a loving heart, a lot of guts and a spirit of steel to love people like Angad..and if you have them...........take the plunge! You may get hurt...but what the heck..love is some glorious madness!😉

After the initial spurt like that of awater-fall..you both can be like the sea.....calm, placid and together...and even if u rn't....it's ok..love's labour is never lost.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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same here happe....

even i dont want a perfect guy .... cuz noone is perfect !!!! even if there r its really really hard to get one.... i wont mind a guy like angad in my life.. cuz i think if i really love a guy like angad deeply then i should accept him with his vices ... & i think if my love is true then i could try & make him a better human being & i dont mean perfect by that

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Oh wow.Anjali and happe, you girls are girls after my heart.👏

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Posted: 20 years ago
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ur rite nitica..it does take a heart of steal to love someone like Angad...but it takes an even bigger heart to be able to extract the goodness out of him like Kripa did...she saw both sides of his character and was strong enuf to accept his virtues and vices alike...The strength in Kripa's love is what I think Angad fell for...her resilience and her guts to admit her love for him even before he technically did...kudos to Kripa for being a trooper and a high five to Angad for overcoming his ego and admitting his feelings for Kripa!!!
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Its every girl's ultimate desire to transform a man like Angad. 😆But in reality possessive guys are very sensitive and have a low tolerance level. They can get abusive too!!😕 But, I am not talking about angad here, just about possessive men in general who have a wild streak. Remember Sharukh Khan in "Darr". They are not all Mr. Charming Hunks!! Yeah, they might fool U in thinking they are!!

Those are the guys mothers warn their girls to stay away from!!!!😉

NItica, I think lately mine and Ur stars are in opposite houses. lWe are having a hard time agreeing on something lately!!!!😆

Edited by KYPH_fan - 20 years ago
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Posted: 20 years ago
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I was thinking the same way... You are quite modest though!😉

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