Originally posted by: princess1_43
Congrats Rinku di
Here is myyyy longg list of questions 😳sorry di... 😆😆 but i would love to hear ur view on this.... dont have to answer all of themmm.... 😳....
How can u find purpose in my life? - Well... I know we all have a purpose of making god's dream come true...after all he created us with so much love…shouldn't we give him with some happiness?... "Pray as if everything depended on God and work as if everything depended on man."
How can u find peace?- search within and you will find it. There is an abundance of peace of mind, because there is no demand for it. ..we can gain peace when we are happy…we are happy when we live to love.
How can u deal with past mistakes? - By learning from them. We all make mistakes, its human nature, but those mistakes teach us as well.
How can u really change? – People don't really change, but their point of view does. If you have become something else that's because you saw things differently…not that they became different. Perception depends on our thoughts and our thoughts make our life. To change your thinking looking at the bright side of things and you will gain happiness at every point. Try to see beauty and love in all, and your eyes will be amazed at what mind perceives and heart believes.
ere is my long list of q's
*Tell me uus hobbies?—listening to music, painting, writing, reading inspiring books
*After ur study what r ur plans in life?—to do something that makes me happy. Love what I do, and do what I love…something where I would be able to help others (hoping on being a doctor)
*What is one thing you would wany to chage about your self?—anything that contributes towards being a human being. (Now, we are men/women…but are we human beings?...that depends on human kind…how kind are we towards humans?). But according to my mom...I should consume less coffee and get more sleep.
*what is more imp to u after ur family ... love/money/friends – well I give love high priority because only with love can I have my family and friends close to me. Money was never in list coz it can never buy love or true happiness.
*if u had 3 wishes wht would they be—to be good human being, love all I ever can, make my parents proud, and at least once in my life visit a place where the view leaves me speechless and takes my breath away (with family or friends)..Sorry that's 4!
* what does friendship and love mean to u—friendship means people who are with us even when they are not, whose presence has changed our life for better...who reflect our image back. Love means Everything..love is life and life is there to love.
* What do u value in life most – Love (people I very dearly love)
*Do you believe in destiny? n y ?I don't move around saying that it didn't happen coz of destiny…we change our life according to our attitude, but some things are written for us up there and we shall meet that "destiny" someday.
*fav song/singer – hmm…I loads of love songs (too many to name) …and love the ones sung by Lata Mangeshkar.
*fav quote – oh wow. I can't tell you how many favorites I have. You should see my room-I have so many posters and words that are in form of quotes. Few ones that I believe in are:
"Life is not measured by the breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away."
"The heart has reasons that reason does not understand."
"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
"Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of this faith is to see what you believe."
"We can do no great things, only small things with great love."
fav motto – Embrace life, give love, and relish moments as they come along.
the one thing that makes u look forward for a next day – a smile on my face and heart full of love
*how imp r ur friends to u?.. y – The word importance would fall short to describe friends. Just like family, they mean teh world...coz family and true freinds are our support for life.
* ur fav book – too many
* Who's ur fav charachter in kyph ... I like characters depending on roles they portray. Like Angad's acting and expression are awesome, Kripa's innocence and Dadi wisdom are highlights.
* three things we dont know about you – hmm…should I tell??? – My stubbornness, my coffee consumption (when anyone knows...they wonder what runs in my system…blood or coffee😉), and vascular physical disability
*5 things u hate about kyph/ 5 things u love about it
Love:
A-K's chemistry on screen
The whole idea of how two people so different can come together
The friendship portrayed by both Josh and Shabir
The extent to which one can love another (no matter what happens)
Wisdom Dadi provides in the show
Well, personally I don't hate (in my opinion, that word should be erased from dictionary) anything...but I was not so fond of the whole misunderstanding created because since we know it's a show—the way A-K kept building tower of illusions rather than knowing reality. (Its like few things were obvious yet they chose to be oblivious)
Another thing was when they turned Prithvi's bright, positive character so negative by making his love turn into obsession.
*3 things u love about IF. .Countless friends forming bonds in an imaginable ways, innovative thoughts shared, and amazing ways entertainment can be received (IF is my source of watching shows that I like).
*What is one thing you are afarid of losing ? – If we lose ourselves…we lose it all. When we lose the capacity to love (everyone loves in one way or another, some people either don't agree to it or don't realize it)...we enter into realms of losing ourselves.
*Who is your fav actor and actress in bollywood/Hollywod/Tv Soaps – no one. Don't have fav. There are some whose acting I think is better than others, but nothing otherwise.
*who are u r more attached to ... i.e dad/mom/sister/any friend? My parents and sister all are the love of my life…can never separate anyone of them and chose one string when my hearts sings on the tunes of togetherness.
is there any inspiration from any book that has moved you or changed ur view about life... a lot of them. I just don't like reading, but rather when I read I try understanding what it says. I try working on things that I find motivating…and if I feel as if it was wonderfully teaching something then I sure tell others as well. Latest one I read with a deep meaning with lesson hidden for each one of us is…Prescriptions for Living. This books highlights how every individual has problems in life at different points, but how we can make our life better by doing little things. The writer, Dr. Siegel, shares his experiences and allows us to have an insight into ourselves.
What is ur fav color and does it reflect ur personality... Black and white. Black can incorporate all shades of life and white reflects those shades back at us. However, do not think that my life is dull…for with shades of "self" I fill colors each day and make it vibrant and colorful.
Soni asked me this question i would like to get ur view on this
How do you perceive a persona? Do you think it is right for people to wear personas? Do you wear a persona in front of people, to hide your true feelings? People act differently with different people—that's ok. Lets see say you are someone who is studious and so when you meet with people from your class or of similar personality…the tendency is you will talk about that stuff with them. You will study with people or talk about something relating. Now, if you meet a very outgoing person…chances are you will speak less of studying related topics. Or at work, you will associate with your co-workers in more formal ways than with your friends. We meet different/ similar people all the time and it's natural to act different with each—those personas are acceptable, however, wearing a persona that doesn't bring yourself out and changing on those terms would not be a good thing. As in, if you believe in one thing, but agree with something opposite for sake of the group or something...then that I would not encourage. Why wear a persona..be yourself at all times..if you don't like yourself…then make change your thoughts…but don't just do it for the society or public…do it only for yourself. I have always said, people don't change, only their perception do…if you wear a persona then that means you wish to create a personality or image which isn't really you...why do it??? Act different, but only by being yourself…
I don't really like wearing personas...I might be able to relate myself more with some than others, but that doesn't mean I act in front of them different from my actual self. I act differently with different natured people, yet share the same facet of revealing myself by loving them in different ways. Whether it be being childish with my lil cousins or formal with co-workers or studious kind with someone...I be myself highlighting different sides of my own nature...not the society or other's person's nature in me.
How does inclusion and isolation differ in your life?— I answered on Soni's post, but will answer here as well: Isolation is peace when I want time alone for myself. Isolation is loneliness when I am alone being myself. OR
Isolation is peace when we want to spend some quality time in presence of our conscience – when conscience speaks and our soul listens. Isolation is loneliness when we try closing our soul's ears when conscience wishes to speak.
Now, loneliness depends also. Loneliness from the world (people) is not bad as far as we are in touch with ourselves. However, loneliness from ourselves faces several consequences.
Zainu di asked all my other questions 😆😆😆 and soni just awesome questions ..😳..
hope u have funn...🤗... hmm i havent seen u on msn .... but hope to talk to u soon 😊
di... Best of luck with ur studies and InshAllah u wlll be very successful. our Best wishes with u ....
luv ya di
take care
Samia
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