Enough is Enough! - Page 4

Was out for four days and couldnt log on as often as I could and wanted. What has IF turned out to be in these four days is a question I would like to ask each and every member here..IF is what it is because of its members, it you members who make this forum a special place but what do we have here, fights over fictional characters, IQ-Neha-Amit battleground. Have we for once appluaded the people behind the scenes, have we for once appreciated the performances of other actors on a scene they did well. Have we for once thought as to where our life is heading and where as humans are we going?

Raksha, I tend to disagree with you a bit.If people dont discuss their views and what they feel , IF will not be IF!!I'm sure there are others in the balaji or KYPH or even the media camp who would like to know the aam janta ki awaz.... People should be free to voice their views and discuss as long as the discussion is a healthy one and not malign other - actors (be it any one) or then your fellow members. Criticism is good too but it should be healthy and constructive.

To all members in the forum - If you have a problem with any one, please sort out your problems outside IF and pls dont bring your personal issues out here in the forum.

Misty

i totally agree with u raksha. i got carried away and everyone was sharing their strong opinioons so i got all mixed up in that. and u didn't come in strong at all

Mishtoo,

I agree with you completely!!! 👏 👏 👏

Originally posted by: mistyeyed_25

Raksha, I tend to disagree with you a bit.If people dont discuss their views and what they feel , IF will not be IF!!I'm sure there are others in the balaji or KYPH or even the media camp who would like to know the aam janta ki awaz.... People should be free to voice their views and discuss as long as the discussion is a healthy one and not malign other - actors (be it any one) or then your fellow members. Criticism is good too but it should be healthy and constructive.

To all members in the forum - If you have a problem with any one, please sort out your problems outside IF and pls dont bring your personal issues out here in the forum.

Misty

I wholeheartedly agree with you Misty. People should:

a.) stop taking this show so personally and getting offended AND offensive in their comments.

b.) what is the purpose of IF if all we will do is form into groups? The way I see it if no one even bothers to comment or disagree then everyone will just simply form little cliques and there will NO LONGER be any healthy debates. I have read that that wasnt the intention of your post Raksha, but from the way it comes off it sounds that you dont want anyone to disagree with anyone because that is the only way to keep a healthy forumn. We cant have a consensus in views Raksha. There will always be one dissenter and by creating such an atmosphere we will be isolating members. Things get discussed THAT is what a debate is, but the one thing I want to stress is people need to stop taking things so personally. They need to STOP insulting people for their opinions and STOP getting offended when others dont agree with them.

Issues come up to try and express our opinions. There is nothing wrong with that, Human rights is a part of life, whether fiction or non-fiction. The only thing that needs to be censored is to make sure we dont offend others in the way we express our opinions.

I have said it before and ill say it again, ignoring DOES NOT solve anything. It will simply increase the problem until it gets to a point where enough will be enough. That is my stance on it and that is what my stance will remain. The only thing that should get censored are offensive posts...NOTHING else.

Originally posted by: sadia_iqbal

WHAT THE HECK !!! WE JUST POST OUR VIEWS AND WHATS WRONG IN THAT... WHAT IS THIS FORUM FOR? ONLY UPDATES... WHEN SUCH THINGS ARE SHOWN IN THE SERIAL... PEOPLE ARE BOUND TO DISSCUSS AND DEBATE, I DONT FIND ANYTHING WRONG IN THAT.

She's not saying that. No body's saying that! Y would we say discussions are not allowed? Then whts the reason for the forum? ..

Raksha di was just saying that don't start/support debates were the other member's feelings are bound to get hurt. Wht's more important the ppls on I-F or ANGAD and KRIPA? (I hope u guys, say "ppls on I-F", cuz like Raksha di said Angad and Kripa are JUST CHARACTERS)

And …there's a nicer way to ask if u are confused about something "Wht the heck?" isn't one of them!

All we're trying to do is make this a forum/section where EVERYONE can come share their view, not get bashed, and then leave (I mean for the day ..like logout)

Originally posted by: mistyeyed_25

Raksha, I tend to disagree with you a bit.If people dont discuss their views and what they feel , IF will not be IF!!I'm sure there are others in the balaji or KYPH or even the media camp who would like to know the aam janta ki awaz.... People should be free to voice their views and discuss as long as the discussion is a healthy one and not malign other - actors (be it any one) or then your fellow members. Criticism is good too but it should be healthy and constructive.

Misty...isn't that wht Raksha di is saying?^ As long as its constrictive it's ok!

Originally posted by: mistyeyed_25

Raksha, I tend to disagree with you a bit.If people dont discuss their views and what they feel , IF will not be IF!!I'm sure there are others in the balaji or KYPH or even the media camp who would like to know the aam janta ki awaz.... People should be free to voice their views and discuss as long as the discussion is a healthy one and not malign other - actors (be it any one) or then your fellow members. Criticism is good too but it should be healthy and constructive.



Misty

Misty, what is it that you disagreed with me???And then you stated everything that I mentioned...May be my English needs a little brush up, that I was not able to convey it properly, that you had to jump in and clarify...Anyways, thanks for doing the translation...

Yes, people this is what even I was trying to say...I'm all for healthy discussions and constructive criticism..As long as you dont try to step on others shoes....A lot of members had to leave cos of that, that's why I request/warn/suggest/advice to you all...

Originally posted by: queenkumar

I really don't want any debates on this post, if you don't agree, steer clear from it please...

I did not expect everyone to agree with what I said...I guess that;s the beauty of these forums, where different people with different ideologies and opinions, try to co-exist...But I hope people understand the bottom line of my post...

Originally posted by: galpal

Hi Raksha,
Dont get upset,Dear! its just debates---after all thats what public forums are for---u should check out some of the political debate forums here---its all-out warfare!
I think debating is fine as long as people dont lose their cool and present their views logically and to the point and DONT DISTORT THE TRUTH!
Everybody has their own opinions and we like to share our views and argue with others as well on how they perceive a certain situation!
Yes, I believe the scriptwriters are to blame for everything thats going on in KYPH now---ask any actor,director,producer whats the most important thing in any movie or serial---its the STORY---as long as the story makes logical sense and satisfies viewers expectations, everyone is happy and content! Lately KYPH writers have given up on logic and making the characters behave in an unpalatable way--thats why everybody is upset!
I'm sure they have their reasons---perhaps shock value to increase trps's or whatever---so everybody is hotly debating the fictional angad's and kripa's actions!
However I wish Dinky21 would not come and give us advance views of future scenes in a confusing and untrue manner! that really upsets everyone and creates a lot of tension! We want to enjoy kyph without her two-cents abt future scenes! Of course I avoid her posts but many people get upset because of the way she portrays these scenes---totally warped and negative manner!
I hope you understand what I'm trying to say and will please take some action abt this! Otherwise we do have fun on the forum with healthy discussions and debates and everybody's takes on how characters are behaving and man-woman relationships,etc. as pertaining to our fav.serial KYPH!
luv,
pallavi

Pallavi, I'm all for healthy debates dear...BTW, please do not mention other member's names, specially when you do not agree with them...If it becomes into a give and take thing, then we will have a mess here...I hope you see my point...

Luv,
Raksha