Whats with the hypocrisy? - Page 3

Originally posted by: reeps

Once again we are at logheads. Come on people...we won't ever end up agreeing with each other unless we just learn to disagree or agree that both need your sympathies. Why are we so divided over this issue?

Women, have a heart for the man!
Women, have a double heart for the woman!

Pity both and be kind to both. If you can't manage to blame both, don't blame either one. Cause none deserve what they have or got.

Naina, you are asking the same question I was asking for the past few months...infact, I only stopped asking this question when you mentioned that I was trying to be krips super-hero...read my siggie now. I am just satisfied knowing that I respect her as a woman and that is all that matters to me for now. 😛

Reepsie you are too cute. Don't worry you arent alone in your battle, this isnt about what is right and wrong its about what is just and injust. Hypocrisy can be blinding and if we FOR ONCE look at this perspective through a feminists eyes there isnt anything that Kripa has done that I wouldnt dare justify. Well...maybe sending Angu to jail that was a bit *wee* too much.😉

Originally posted by: koolgirl88

What about everytime Angad twists Kripa's arms, makes her cry, and practically abuses her everytime he sees that she's alone? If Kripa did that to your Angad, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

What about when Angad ditched Kripa when she was pregnant? And that was all because he misunderstood her, EXACTLY how Kripa is misunderstanding Angad right now. If Kripa did that to your Angad, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

And most importantly, what about the tons of girls that Angad slept with before? If Kripa did that, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

Love,
Suinta aka Protector of Kripa

1. Kripa SLAPS him--remember or do I have to remind you about the lean mean slapping machine that she is!!

2. Well as SOON as MY Angad learned that he was wrong he DESTROYED himself; his career everything for her and he to this day has NOT forgotten the baby he could have had!!She did ditch him--weren't you around when she SENT him to jail because she REFUSED to listen to him and believed that he would in his true senses cheat on her with Simone??What was she thinking then?She sent him to jail for 14 years?how long is that?

3. the key word being BEFORE--BEFORE he loooweeeeddddd Kripa with ALLLLLLLLLLLLL he had!!!EVERYTHING!!!

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Protector of My Angad

Originally posted by: legallyblonde21

1. Kripa SLAPS him--remember or do I have to remind you about the lean mean slapping machine that she is!!

2. Well as SOON as MY Angad learned that he was wrong he DESTROYED himself; his career everything for her and he to this day has NOT forgotten the baby he could have had!!She did ditch him--weren't you around when she SENT him to jail because she REFUSED to listen to him and believed that he would in his true senses cheat on her with Simone??What was she thinking then?She sent him to jail for 14 years?how long is that?

3. the key word being BEFORE--BEFORE he loooweeeeddddd Kripa with ALLLLLLLLLLLLL he had!!!EVERYTHING!!!

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Protector of My Angad

Arghhh Sheena do you really want to compare who did what to whom?

1.) Kripa slaps Angad just for kicks? She slaps him after he does or SAYS something offensive to her. Angad grabs Kripa why? Shoves her out of doors, why? To express his emotions, since when is that an applausable action?

2.) Dont sentence Kripa because she has YET to learn her error, realize that she is in the dark and ACCEPT that she can not repent for her error until she learns she has erred to begin with.

3.) Kripa loved Angad with all she had too. Tell me, TRUTHFULLY, if the man you loved told you that he slept with another woman, the woman AS WELL said she slept with your boyfriend, would you believe that man after you had given damning testimony to his case, that he did NOT sleep with that woman? If that is the case, then I commend you for your ability to so easily forgive and forget. Because I know for a fact that if I was in Kripa's place and Angad had betrayed me once before, I would have probably an even bigger time of believing his justification.

Originally posted by: Kismet_19

Reepsie you are too cute. Don't worry you arent alone in your battle, this isnt about what is right and wrong its about what is just and injust. Hypocrisy can be blinding and if we FOR ONCE look at this perspective through a feminists eyes there isnt anything that Kripa has done that I wouldnt dare justify. Well...maybe sending Angu to jail that was a bit *wee* too much.😉

First you make me a super-hero; now you call me cute😆😆think of something else for next time😆...Naina, I completely agree with what you said in the post above to LB. We are being blind to a woman's pain inspite of the fact that we are women. Seeing her in constant torture has made us sideline her and angad, who gets put in sprodic pain, gets all attention. To some extent, it is the fault of script-writers, too.

Yep, if we do look at the character from the chracter's perspective, none is doing anything wrong. They think right cause they dont' know the truth.

I do think that people are being hypocrits when A-K are judged on two different levels. Sigh! What to do? I tried to fight! But like always, I fight a defeated battle and winning it is next to impossible. Maybe, someday...women will understand women...all we can do is hope!

Hey, maybe we are ahead of our times😆😆! Nah, I think IQ's good looks blind some; others are just too centered on the idea or right vs. wrong and therefore, can't seem to understand the opposite pole. I hope they learn to tread the middle path soon.

Originally posted by: Kismet_19

A-K are such polar opposites yet their actions are so very similiar. I dont see how it is possible to distinguish the greater victim in all of this if you consider the points of view of each character.

[quote]Yes I know. People still discriminate towards the female gender and it can be seen right here on this forum. And the sad part is, even women show hatred towards other women.. which can be seen in the real world. Does anyone have a grandma that hates you because you're a girl, but loves your boy cousins, despite the fact that she herself is a girl? Well, for those of you girls who hate Kripa for what she did today, you're turning into that same kind of grandma.

I truly apologize in advance if anyone felt offended because my comments do have a hint of anger in them, but it really is my opinion, and everyone has the right to express their opinions.. right?

Thanks for listening!!

Love,
Sunita

I know what you mean Sunita. I too was a bit angry at reading the posts. Not for the opinions that were posited but for the hypocrisy behind those opinions. When will women escape the shadow of the past? What Angad can do, Kripa can do better, and today she demonstrated just that. Whereas tomorrow the cycle will simply start all over again.

No one is the criminal among the two, they are both victims in their own right.

The points of both the characters??Everyone seems to be considering ONLY Kripa and pointing fingers at Angad and when I am on Angad's side because VERY FEW people are then I am NOT looking at women and men equally--

oh and by the way I am suppossed to see it from a woman's point of view regardless of anything the woman does just because I am a woman---this has nothing to do with who's better than who--it just has to do with a character and how twisted the character is--send me a PM if you wish and I will give you an example of where I will stand by a female character regardless because i know that character will NOT go to the extent that Kripa went to in the name of revenge!!

Since when is this a feminism and who is better --girls or guys show??

that was a gd one wether people think kripa is rogn or not i will alwayz b wiv angad coz i no shes done rong and wen she finds out prithvis truth wot she gonna do kill herself. well i don't think so we no the truth that prithvi split them up then y takin side of kripa wen she is wiv prithvi legallyblone u r right and i'm agreeing wiv u 10000%!

Originally posted by: legallyblonde21

1)He took Mishti behind the pillar BUT he did NOT do anything!!He did NOT do anything--BIG difference between what he did and what K did!!He could have done anything but he did NOTHING!!Why can't people see that!!he did N_O_T_H_I_N_G!The wild cat scratches were meant to make her jealous!!That's it--the wild cat did NOT give them to him!!Why won't people understand that it is NOT the same thing!!!

2)There are OTHER ways she could have done that!She could have told him afterwards; did she have to do it at HIS house?did she have to call him then and THERE??What was that??

3)NOBODY is questioning the legal authority by which she has a right to do whatever she pleases with Prithvi!However the questions fall on what Kripa did that made Angad humiliate her!Where were you when she pretended to still love him to get his confession??

4)Has he done anything other than flirt?And what did she do before he LAUGHED at her--hire someone to lie about being his girlfriend--what was that??

5)She can sleep with her husband alllll she wants BUT the reason people are calling her evil is because of how she called Angad before she did it to PROVE what point again??; and we SAW Angad's pain--we literally SAW it!!!

P.S-->Angad believed that they were husband and wife in the real sense when he came back as Zaib; it was only later that he found out it wasn't true!!

Sheena aka Blondie aka Protector of my poor Angad baby!!

Originally posted by: reeps

First you make me a super-hero; now you call me cute😆😆think of something else for next time😆...Naina, I completely agree with what you said in the post above to LB. We are being blind to a woman's pain inspite of the fact that we are women. Seeing her in constant torture has made us sideline her and angad, who gets put in sprodic pain, gets all attention. To some extent, it is the fault of script-writers, too.

Yep, if we do look at the character from the chracter's perspective, none is doing anything wrong. They think right cause they dont' know the truth.

I do think that people are being hypocrits when A-K are judged on two different levels. Sigh! What to do? I tried to fight! But like always, I fight a defeated battle and winning it is next to impossible. Maybe, someday...women will understand women...all we can do is hope!

Hey, maybe we are ahead of our times😆😆! Nah, I think IQ's good looks blind some; others are just too centered on the idea or right vs. wrong and therefore, can't seem to understand the opposite pole. I hope they learn to tread the middle path soon.

Arrrrreeeee am I the reason for the super-hero comment you have in your siggy? I didnt mean to offend sweetie! I just meant that sometimes you cant fight a battle if no one wants to listen, but sometimes you just need to try and speak up until you are heard.😉

You are VERY right on the fact that:

a.) it is Angad's pain that we get to see in MASSES. Angad talking to Dadi. Angad talking to Shabbir. Angad being tortured etc etc.

b.) IQ's hotness plays a major factor to why few sympathize with Kripa's actions. I guess some just want to be the ones to wipe away Bad Boy Angu's tears. Romance is but a subjective illusion.

c.) I think most have short-term interests in regards to Angad. Angad does something one day, we may or may not take offense but it will be soon forgotten. The more often the past is drudged up on the show, the more often we will remember. Otherwise we will simply comment on what is seen, nothing more and nothing less.

d.) Those who sympathize with both A-K are the ones considering both character's perspectives. If Kripa knew the truth, let me be the first to say I would absolutely ABHOR the character. But she doesn't so I cant. She is just as tortured and defeated as Angad is. Both strangling their own hearts with their own bare hands. Seriously how can you not but sympathize with these fools?

Originally posted by: legallyblonde21

I know what you mean Sunita. I too was a bit angry at reading the posts. Not for the opinions that were posited but for the hypocrisy behind those opinions. When will women escape the shadow of the past? What Angad can do, Kripa can do better, and today she demonstrated just that. Whereas tomorrow the cycle will simply start all over again.

No one is the criminal among the two, they are both victims in their own right.

The points of both the characters??Everyone seems to be considering ONLY Kripa and pointing fingers at Angad and when I am on Angad's side because VERY FEW people are then I am NOT looking at women and men equally--

oh and by the way I am suppossed to see it from a woman's point of view regardless of anything the woman does just because I am a woman---this has nothing to do with who's better than who--it just has to do with a character and how twisted the character is--send me a PM if you wish and I will give you an example of where I will stand by a female character regardless because i know that character will NOT go to the extent that Kripa went to in the name of revenge!!

Since when is this a feminism and who is better --girls or guys show??

Come on LB. She isn't pointing a finger at Angad. In fact, she pities him. She feels for both, but I am sure she can speak for herself.

I will say on my own...agreed feminism isn't about 'guys' vs. 'girls'. But to my understanding, it sure is about standing for other women. If you can't stand, the least tha can be done is understand the woman...

NO point playing the blame game!

Neither angad is wrong nor is krips.

*reeps😛

Originally posted by: legallyblonde21

I know what you mean Sunita. I too was a bit angry at reading the posts. Not for the opinions that were posited but for the hypocrisy behind those opinions. When will women escape the shadow of the past? What Angad can do, Kripa can do better, and today she demonstrated just that. Whereas tomorrow the cycle will simply start all over again.

No one is the criminal among the two, they are both victims in their own right.

The points of both the characters??Everyone seems to be considering ONLY Kripa and pointing fingers at Angad and when I am on Angad's side because VERY FEW people are then I am NOT looking at women and men equally--

oh and by the way I am suppossed to see it from a woman's point of view regardless of anything the woman does just because I am a woman---this has nothing to do with who's better than who--it just has to do with a character and how twisted the character is--send me a PM if you wish and I will give you an example of where I will stand by a female character regardless because i know that character will NOT go to the extent that Kripa went to in the name of revenge!!

Since when is this a feminism and who is better --girls or guys show??

Sheena you seriously arent getting what I am saying. I will talk to you about this on msn.

Originally posted by: reeps

The points of both the characters??Everyone seems to be considering ONLY Kripa and pointing fingers at Angad and when I am on Angad's side because VERY FEW people are then I am NOT looking at women and men equally--

oh and by the way I am suppossed to see it from a woman's point of view regardless of anything the woman does just because I am a woman---this has nothing to do with who's better than who--it just has to do with a character and how twisted the character is--send me a PM if you wish and I will give you an example of where I will stand by a female character regardless because i know that character will NOT go to the extent that Kripa went to in the name of revenge!!

Since when is this a feminism and who is better --girls or guys show??

Come on LB. She isn't pointing a finger at Angad. In fact, she pities him. She feels for both, but I am sure she can speak for herself.

I will say on my own...agreed feminism isn't about 'guys' vs. 'girls'. But to my understanding, it sure is about standing for other women. If you can't stand, the least tha can be done is understand the woman...

NO point playing the blame game!

Neither angad is wrong nor is krips.

*reeps😛

Reepsie you shall be my spokesperson from now on.😳