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Posted: 19 years ago
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i don't hate her, just the scene 🤢 🤢 🤢
if i were in her place, i wud prollie.........i don't know.........maybe do the same thing, but without s**.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I completely agree with you!!!!!! I'm glad there are still a few open-minded people left in this world who look at women and men equally!!!!! 👏

Originally posted by: dadhich

Kismet people dont remeber what angad did...They only rember what Kripa did and what she is doing.Even though its the same situation.

I guess the world still thinks that men are allowed to do these things but not woman...



Yes I know. People still discriminate towards the female gender and it can be seen right here on this forum. And the sad part is, even women show hatred towards other women.. which can be seen in the real world. Does anyone have a grandma that hates you because you're a girl, but loves your boy cousins, despite the fact that she herself is a girl? Well, for those of you girls who hate Kripa for what she did today, you're turning into that same kind of grandma.

I truly apologize in advance if anyone felt offended because my comments do have a hint of anger in them, but it really is my opinion, and everyone has the right to express their opinions.. right?

Thanks for listening!!

Love,
Sunita
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kismet_19

I am seeing the various reasons for why people are hating Kripa, and that is fine it is there prerogative but what is boggling my mind is the following:

1.) Why are people saying they hate Kripa for calling Angad? Didnt Angad do the SAME thing with Kripa? Is everyone forgetting how he took Mishty behind the pillar and subsequently told Kripa that the scratches on his body from a night with a wild cat??

What exactly did Kripa DO? Let Angad know that he hadnt broken up her marriage? How in the world is that a bad thing? Shes married to Prithvi and by LEGAL authority she did nothing wrong. He humiliated her in front of everyone, and proceeded to stand by smirking as everyone ostracized her for something that was his fault. Why no comments then?

My biggest pet peeve right now is that I am SURE that had Angad slept with Mishty before marriage, everyone would call him a Cassanova, but when Kripa sleeps with her husband everyone says she betrayed her love. They BOTH betrayed each other, so please guys explain to me how and why Angad can flrity openly with Mishty and accuse Kripa of being not woman enough to satisfy him while LAUGHING in her face, but when Kripa gets humiliated by everyone she is trying to protect and in a last ditch effort to save her marriage sleeps with her husband she is suddenly the evil banshee.

Please guys do explain, I will be out for a bit but I will come back and look at the replies.

1)He took Mishti behind the pillar BUT he did NOT do anything!!He did NOT do anything--BIG difference between what he did and what K did!!He could have done anything but he did NOTHING!!Why can't people see that!!he did N_O_T_H_I_N_G!The wild cat scratches were meant to make her jealous!!That's it--the wild cat did NOT give them to him!!Why won't people understand that it is NOT the same thing!!!

2)There are OTHER ways she could have done that!She could have told him afterwards; did she have to do it at HIS house?did she have to call him then and THERE??What was that??

3)NOBODY is questioning the legal authority by which she has a right to do whatever she pleases with Prithvi!However the questions fall on what Kripa did that made Angad humiliate her!Where were you when she pretended to still love him to get his confession??

4)Has he done anything other than flirt?And what did she do before he LAUGHED at her--hire someone to lie about being his girlfriend--what was that??

5)She can sleep with her husband alllll she wants BUT the reason people are calling her evil is because of how she called Angad before she did it to PROVE what point again??; and we SAW Angad's pain--we literally SAW it!!!

P.S-->Angad believed that they were husband and wife in the real sense when he came back as Zaib; it was only later that he found out it wasn't true!!

Sheena aka Blondie aka Protector of my poor Angad baby!!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i'm sorry but kripa isnt exactly a saint either. she does things for the wrong reasons aka the consumation. just because her and prithvi are husband and wife, it doesnt mean anything. at least not in kyph..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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very well said sheena!!! totally agree!! 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: legallyblonde21

1)He took Mishti behind the pillar BUT he did NOT do anything!!He did NOT do anything--BIG difference between what he did and what K did!!He could have done anything but he did NOTHING!!Why can't people see that!!he did N_O_T_H_I_N_G!The wild cat scratches were meant to make her jealous!!That's it--the wild cat did NOT give them to him!!Why won't people understand that it is NOT the same thing!!!

2)There are OTHER ways she could have done that!She could have told him afterwards; did she have to do it at HIS house?did she have to call him then and THERE??What was that??

3)NOBODY is questioning the legal authority by which she has a right to do whatever she pleases with Prithvi!However the questions fall on what Kripa did that made Angad humiliate her!Where were you when she pretended to still love him to get his confession??

4)Has he done anything other than flirt?And what did she do before he LAUGHED at her--hire someone to lie about being his girlfriend--what was that??

5)She can sleep with her husband alllll she wants BUT the reason people are calling her evil is because of how she called Angad before she did it to PROVE what point again??; and we SAW Angad's pain--we literally SAW it!!!

P.S-->Angad believed that they were husband and wife in the real sense when he came back as Zaib; it was only later that he found out it wasn't true!!

Sheena aka Blondie aka Protector of my poor Angad baby!!



What about everytime Angad twists Kripa's arms, makes her cry, and practically abuses her everytime he sees that she's alone? If Kripa did that to your Angad, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

What about when Angad ditched Kripa when she was pregnant? And that was all because he misunderstood her, EXACTLY how Kripa is misunderstanding Angad right now. If Kripa did that to your Angad, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

And most importantly, what about the tons of girls that Angad slept with before? If Kripa did that, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

Love,
Suinta aka Protector of Kripa
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolgirl88



What about everytime Angad twists Kripa's arms, makes her cry, and practically abuses her everytime he sees that she's alone? If Kripa did that to your Angad, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

What about when Angad ditched Kripa when she was pregnant? And that was all because he misunderstood her, EXACTLY how Kripa is misunderstanding Angad right now. If Kripa did that to your Angad, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

And most importantly, what about the tons of girls that Angad slept with before? If Kripa did that, would you support Kripa nevertheless? I don't think so.

Love,
Suinta aka Protector of Kripa

when angad ditched kripa, it was because of a misunderstanding. after that, angad lost his family and carrier to make up to kripa for what he did.

when angad was a rockstar, he didnt KNOW kripa. she didnt even exist! but after their relationship, angad didnt sleep with anyone and stayed true to his love for kripa!

what about all the times that kripa slapped angad!! sometimes he didnt even deserve it! she deserves a lot of slaps but angad never even layed a hand on her or even physically hurt her intentially!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Once again we are at logheads. Come on people...we won't ever end up agreeing with each other unless we just learn to disagree or agree that both need your sympathies. Why are we so divided over this issue?

Women, have a heart for the man!
Women, have a double heart for the woman!

Pity both and be kind to both. If you can't manage to blame both, don't blame either one. Cause none deserve what they have or got.

Naina, you are asking the same question I was asking for the past few months...infact, I only stopped asking this question when you mentioned that I was trying to be krips super-hero...read my siggie now. I am just satisfied knowing that I respect her as a woman and that is all that matters to me for now. 😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: legallyblonde21

1)He took Mishti behind the pillar BUT he did NOT do anything!!He did NOT do anything--BIG difference between what he did and what K did!!He could have done anything but he did NOTHING!!Why can't people see that!!he did N_O_T_H_I_N_G!The wild cat scratches were meant to make her jealous!!That's it--the wild cat did NOT give them to him!!Why won't people understand that it is NOT the same thing!!!

2)There are OTHER ways she could have done that!She could have told him afterwards; did she have to do it at HIS house?did she have to call him then and THERE??What was that??

3)NOBODY is questioning the legal authority by which she has a right to do whatever she pleases with Prithvi!However the questions fall on what Kripa did that made Angad humiliate her!Where were you when she pretended to still love him to get his confession??

4)Has he done anything other than flirt?And what did she do before he LAUGHED at her--hire someone to lie about being his girlfriend--what was that??

5)She can sleep with her husband alllll she wants BUT the reason people are calling her evil is because of how she called Angad before she did it to PROVE what point again??; and we SAW Angad's pain--we literally SAW it!!!

P.S-->Angad believed that they were husband and wife in the real sense when he came back as Zaib; it was only later that he found out it wasn't true!!

Sheena aka Blondie aka Protector of my poor Angad baby!!



You arent getting my point Sheena. Re-read my post. This isnt to compare who is the greater victim, you were already doing that in your post. My point is on principle alone. MANY times we have seen Angad manhandle Kripa, but we overlook it simply as being chemistry. But when Kripa slaps Angad we get upset that she dared slap him.

We have seen Angad make Kripa think he is going to rape her, RIP HER DRESS, but the fact that he managed to cover her with a coat okays the entire matter?

Neither is evil, but I find it to be a consistent pattern among some to constantly overlook Angad's actions and criticize Kripa from standing up for herself.

1.) You are looking at it from the audience's perspective. I AM talking about it from a character persepctive. Angad on PRINCIPLE led Kripa to believe that he and Mishty had spent the night together. Why should we expect Kripa to remain sober and numb and not live her life despite the threats that Angad throws in her face.

WHY are we forgetting all the times that Angad humiliated Kripa and refused to even give her a chance to explain? What is happening now is the SAME EXACT THING that happened before, only the positions are switched and unlike Angad, Kripa approached Angad and asked him about the truth. Angad refused to claim his own child. Angad made sure that Kripa had NO WHERE to go, and even knew her own family had disowned her. It was then that Prithvi stood by her, so why is it so strange to grasp the concept that Kripa feels grateful to him? Why is it so strange to grasp that Kripa DOES NOT KNOW that he killed Josh. We seem to want to be her judge, jury and executioner for a crime she doesnt know she has committed (in regards to sleeping with a man who killed Josh).

2.) Why should Kripa try and change her actions to try and make Angad feel better? From A-K's point of view BOTH feel the other betrayed the other. One is victim of a misunderstsanding but that doenst mean she should be blamed for it. Angad doesnt care that Kripa sees him fondling Mishty. Angad doesnt care that he humiliates Kripa in front of her own family so why in the WORLD should Kripa be loyal to him. HIM the man she believes cheated on her?

3.) Are you telling me Kripa doenst love Angad? Go back to the posts you have posted before and look at all the times you have told us that you know Kripa still loves Angad. She didnt lie to him, who knows what would have happened had Angad not said he was still going to exact revenge on her. We all know she still loves him. That wasnt a lie.

4.) Kripa is married to Prithvi. What kind of husband and wife do not consummate their marriage? She had a right to do what she did. As far as Kripa hiring someone to pose as his gf, um so why is it okay for Angad to use Mishty? SHe is trying to save Mishty from Angads LIES. He doesnt love Mishty, so why should she regret trying to save him?

5.) Who is saying Angad was not hurt? I pity him beyond limits but how is it a big deal that she called him to let him know what was going on? She didnt have him listen in to the action she simply had him LISTEN to the words she said. He mocked her relationship with Prithvi. He mocked that she would never move on. Why must she continue to be victim to it just to make him feel better?

we can go back and forth discussing who did what to whom, my POINT is that Kripa is a victim too. As a woman I find the hypocrisy people have in regards to A-K quite comical as well as being quite perverse.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolgirl88

I completely agree with you!!!!!! I'm glad there are still a few open-minded people left in this world who look at women and men equally!!!!! 👏



A-K are such polar opposites yet their actions are so very similiar. I dont see how it is possible to distinguish the greater victim in all of this if you consider the points of view of each character.

[quote]Yes I know. People still discriminate towards the female gender and it can be seen right here on this forum. And the sad part is, even women show hatred towards other women.. which can be seen in the real world. Does anyone have a grandma that hates you because you're a girl, but loves your boy cousins, despite the fact that she herself is a girl? Well, for those of you girls who hate Kripa for what she did today, you're turning into that same kind of grandma.

I truly apologize in advance if anyone felt offended because my comments do have a hint of anger in them, but it really is my opinion, and everyone has the right to express their opinions.. right?

Thanks for listening!!

Love,
Sunita


I know what you mean Sunita. I too was a bit angry at reading the posts. Not for the opinions that were posited but for the hypocrisy behind those opinions. When will women escape the shadow of the past? What Angad can do, Kripa can do better, and today she demonstrated just that. Whereas tomorrow the cycle will simply start all over again.

No one is the criminal among the two, they are both victims in their own right.

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