what justifies angad being horrible?

when anyone posts saying that angad/zaib is being horrible to mishty, people post back saying that anyway he's got to be with kripa. does that mean you are saying it's okay for him to be a pervert to her? would you tolerate being friends with anyone if you knew they were so horrible to anyone in the past? would you tolerate prithvi for having murdered josh (which is the only bad thing prithvi has ever done)?

to posts that angad/zaib is being horrible to kripa, people post back that they are meant to be together. does that justify his being a unthinkable creep to her just now? for so long? so consistently?

if angad/zaib says i love you to kripa and holds her close to his heart three weeks later, does that justify his horrible behaviour today?

i ask this because i'm unaware of what it's like to be with someone, outside of my imagination, of course. i ask especially to the people who've been with partners before. could any of you visualise a lovely life ahead if you remember your partner abusing you like angad's abusing kripa right now? 😕

i'm having a tough time thinking that anyone can tell each other "oh it's true love, so i have to bear it" and be with someone who treated them like dirt at any point. that sounds like rationalising an abusive partner.

i've heard married middle and lower class women who are certainly mentally, and a lot physically, abused by their partners. these are silent cases. a lot of these women look prosperous and content. but when they talk, they talk of their husbands being consistently mean to them. without laying a finger on them. sometimes they use love as a weapon. some of them remind me of angad and kripa.

what do you think? can kripa live with an angad who is doing this? can angad ever live with a kripa who has done what she did in the past to him? what is true love that has been shattered to the extent that kripa has put angad in jail and he knows it? i keep thinking of those abused married women, and think angad-kripa are hopeless as partners for life. even if they are still desperate for each other (as daadi said). -esther

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Ester, very interesting topic!

I am sure nobody agrees with angad's behavior or can tolerate it..maybe people don't wanna think deep and just end up saying otherwise. As far as angad & krips are concerned, both abuse each other..it's just not one abusing the other...and if you have noticed, they only resort to abuse when they are apart from each other and want the other back no matter what. In love and when together, they don't even think of giving the other pain at all.😛 They are just weirdos, crazy in love. So, I don't think that Angad & krips come under your normal definition of 'abusive-relationship'. At least I would like to think otherwise.

I don't want to say more. All I wish is for their suffering to end, both pine & jalapenos'.

*reeps 😛

I totally agree on thi with reeps. Well in reality it is just a show after all. People who like Iqbal Khan/Angad/Zaib will always support him and they have reasonable reasons too and same with Mishty, Prithvi (our respected Komal di 😛 😉), Karthik (Butter di 😉 😛) fans... I hope you get my point. Theek kaha na?

Lots of luv
Rav

I agree with you 105%. Angad is in a dangerous mode right now and he could seriously bring harm to Kripa. Reeps, I agree with you, crazed lovers can do anything.. but even harm each other?

Love,
Sunita

No comment. My Prince is doing good.

Originally posted by: reeps

I am sure nobody agrees with angad's behavior or can tolerate it..maybe people don't wanna think deep and just end up saying otherwise.

maybe. i just can't too many reasons for people watching an episode that ends with kripa crying brutally after an encounter with angad, and they say "oh well, they're going to end up with each other. don't worry." don't worry??! it makes little sense. 😕

Originally posted by: reeps

As far as angad & krips are concerned, both abuse each other..it's just not one abusing the other...and if you have noticed, they only resort to abuse when they are apart from each other and want the other back no matter what. In love and when together, they don't even think of giving the other pain at all.😛 They are just weirdos, crazy in love.

well, we on the forum think they are in love all the time. or is the sentiment that hate and love are the same emotion, except that they switch poles occassionally?? what state are angad/kripa in just now - in love? love is besmirched when lovers behave the way that kripa is behaving towards angad right now. and vice-versa.

imho, people get helpless in love, not crazy in love. both these two are certifiable just now, and that's not love, imho. this is black comedy and it's hateful.

All I wish is for their suffering to end.

😊 you might want to make that more specific. the last movie that i saw which had people "desperately in love, and desperately in hate" with each other - a perfect mirror image of angad-kripa today - ended up killing each other. it was called the war of the roses. it started sweetly, and ended horrifically. ugh. ugh. ugh. i can't bear to think of angad-kripa being there too! 🤢 -esther

Originally posted by: koolgirl88

I agree with you 105%. Angad is in a dangerous mode right now and he could seriously bring harm to Kripa. Reeps, I agree with you, crazed lovers can do anything.. but even harm each other?

actually, in terms of destructive tendencies, i think that kripa is coming out as more intent on destroying angad. 😕 sometimes, it looks like angad knows that all he needs to do to hurt kripa is ignore her. kripa on the other hand, works hard at bringing external elements - the loose woman, daadi, jail! - to destroy angad.

that's only part of the reason that i feel so uncomfortable watching the hatred with which kripa behaves towards angad and vice-versa. she is just so mindlessly focussed on destroying angad. she doesn't think of her life outside of this focus. angad appears as focussed. the difference seems to be that he is crafting a life for himself in parallel to it. somehow, he doesn't look like he will not pay attention to mishty, or not consumate their wedding, as kripa is doing to prithvi. she's destroying more than one person. contrary to forum opinion, i suspect that angad will keep mishty happy. 😕

your statement of crazed lovers reminds me of the news of a real-world boy smashing the brains of a real-world girl in bombay. apparently, she was pressurising him to "be with her" 'cause she loved him so. he was traumatised after that momentary lapse of reason, and turned himself in to the cops. crazed lovers? harm to each other, certainly. 😕 -esther

angad has been through a lot and now his only aim is to destroy his enemies, but yes, he is being unfair to mishti by using her 😡 as a weapon against prithvi or karthik. donno how will all this end? 😕 😕

Originally posted by: estee

actually, in terms of destructive tendencies, i think that kripa is coming out as more intent on destroying angad. 😕 sometimes, it looks like angad knows that all he needs to do to hurt kripa is ignore her. kripa on the other hand, works hard at bringing external elements - the loose woman, daadi, jail! - to destroy angad.

that's only part of the reason that i feel so uncomfortable watching the hatred with which kripa behaves towards angad and vice-versa. she is just so mindlessly focussed on destroying angad. she doesn't think of her life outside of this focus. angad appears as focussed. the difference seems to be that he is crafting a life for himself in parallel to it. somehow, he doesn't look like he will not pay attention to mishty, or not consumate their wedding, as kripa is doing to prithvi. she's destroying more than one person. contrary to forum opinion, i suspect that angad will keep mishty happy. 😕

your statement of crazed lovers reminds me of the news of a real-world boy smashing the brains of a real-world girl in bombay. apparently, she was pressurising him to "be with her" 'cause she loved him so. he was traumatised after that momentary lapse of reason, and turned himself in to the cops. crazed lovers? harm to each other, certainly. 😕 -esther

Ester, krips isn't bent on destroying angad. She thinks she is doing justice to misthi. She is trying all to save misthi...and I can be 110% sure that her intent to save misthi isn't baseless. she knows that angad wnt' and dosnt' love misthi..

Angad has already realized what hurts krips the most. I think krips will slowly realize that it's krips ignoring angad that matters the most to him. He can't tolerate her not loving/caring for him.

Also, the little confrontation they had the other day...angad trying to make her see that he didn't sleep with simone and didn't kill josh will do wonders for them. Almost always, he tries to tell krips that he was innocent, she doesn't believe him. She will eventually realize what is right & what's wrong.

And when I said, 'I wish there suffering would end'...I meant, that they will both realize their follies, understand who the real culprit is, and will unite in holy matrimony...and let love blossom thier life. Ending one's life is never the end of suffering; in a way, it increases suffering...especially for your loved ones.

As far as their hatred for each other is concerned, they don't hate each other at all. They just try to tell themselves that they hate the other...easy way to not loose it all and numb the pain...dispicable way to lead life, but true indeed. It's a defence mechanism for not letting the other effect him or her so much. Alas, all mechanisms set up by the mind fail in matters of heart.

*reeps😛