what justifies angad being horrible? - Page 2

Good post estee.

All Angad hears, sees and breathes right now is vengence. He doesn't care who he uses or hurts in his process of revenge. He knows that he shouldn't be using Mishty but right now his attitude towards it is 'I have no other choice, I have to do what I have to do.'

Angad and Kripa have loved each other to such an intensity that their love can never vanquish. Love doesn't always mean cuddling and being romantic, but can take other forms. Right now their love has been resurfacing in the form of anger and hurt. Angad said it himself, it's only people who you love the most in the world that can give you so much pain.

Both Angad and Kripa have been deeply hurt by the person they love the most. And they keep hurting each other to consolidate for the pain their feeling themselves. But it doesn't help. They just end up hurting themselves even more.

There's no use comparing Angad and Kripa's love story to reality. Such love probably doesn't even exist in real life. Don't think outside of you're imagination when it comes to their love story. Love and logic don't fit.

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Originally posted by: AngadKripa4eva

There's no use comparing Angad and Kripa's love story to reality. Such love probably doesn't even exist in real life. Don't think outside of you're imagination when it comes to their love story. Love and logic don't fit.

fair enough. 😊 i ought not link things in real life, and messrs. angad and kripa. i back away from that miserable story on this forum. apologies.

imho, love in real-life is greater, stronger, madder intensity than the angad-kripa story. i've heard real stories of people keeping the faith through more damning and substantial evidence to hold by the ones they love. there are real cases of spurned love leading to people "taking revenge" too. the strange thing about these latter cases is that people who are serious about taking revenge tend to behave like angad - they focus fiercely on taking their life forward in front of the eyes of the person who hurt them.

i guess what i am really after is how much people on this forum really believe that angad-and-kripa will take their lives forward. i just can't understand anyone thinking that after angad and kripa have treated themselves like their worst enemies, there is a life together for them after this. this is what really puzzles me. i keep thinking this:

there has to be an extraordinary event that get angad and kripa together. let's say that there is conclusive evidence presented that prithvi killed josh. and that angad didn't sleep with simone.

then what? let's say that angad ditches mishty. maybe after prithvi is convicted, mishty and mrs. bose plot to "take revenge" on kripa. angad finds out and goes after them with a vengence and they go to jail too. 😛(i don't think mishty will ever stop being angad's greatest friend, but let's say..)

so we have angad and kripa without any barriers (well, other than naina who hates kripa still and karthik who will always hate angad of course 😆). will they face each other at the end of the day, and say sorry to each other and i love you to each other, and not remember the last time they said this, did this? how can they take their life forward with all this behind them? what does the forum think? -esther

Originally posted by: estee

when anyone posts saying that angad/zaib is being horrible to mishty, people post back saying that anyway he's got to be with kripa. does that mean you are saying it's okay for him to be a pervert to her? would you tolerate being friends with anyone if you knew they were so horrible to anyone in the past? would you tolerate prithvi for having murdered josh (which is the only bad thing prithvi has ever done)?

to posts that angad/zaib is being horrible to kripa, people post back that they are meant to be together. does that justify his being a unthinkable creep to her just now? for so long? so consistently?

if angad/zaib says i love you to kripa and holds her close to his heart three weeks later, does that justify his horrible behaviour today?

i ask this because i'm unaware of what it's like to be with someone, outside of my imagination, of course. i ask especially to the people who've been with partners before. could any of you visualise a lovely life ahead if you remember your partner abusing you like angad's abusing kripa right now? 😕

i'm having a tough time thinking that anyone can tell each other "oh it's true love, so i have to bear it" and be with someone who treated them like dirt at any point. that sounds like rationalising an abusive partner.

i've heard married middle and lower class women who are certainly mentally, and a lot physically, abused by their partners. these are silent cases. a lot of these women look prosperous and content. but when they talk, they talk of their husbands being consistently mean to them. without laying a finger on them. sometimes they use love as a weapon. some of them remind me of angad and kripa.

what do you think? can kripa live with an angad who is doing this? can angad ever live with a kripa who has done what she did in the past to him? what is true love that has been shattered to the extent that kripa has put angad in jail and he knows it? i keep thinking of those abused married women, and think angad-kripa are hopeless as partners for life. even if they are still desperate for each other (as daadi said). -esther

Great Post Esther... I personally believe that angad and kripa do not deserve to be together- the foundation of their relationship was very weak. If you ask me, I dont think i would be able to live with a guy after all hat he has done to me , neither will a guy be able to live with me after all that i have done to him...they say love conquers all but then along with love isnt self respect important as well...

Misty

Originally posted by: estee

fair enough. 😊 i ought not link things in real life, and messrs. angad and kripa. i back away from that miserable story on this forum. apologies.

imho, love in real-life is greater, stronger, madder intensity than the angad-kripa story. i've heard real stories of people keeping the faith through more damning and substantial evidence to hold by the ones they love. there are real cases of spurned love leading to people "taking revenge" too. the strange thing about these latter cases is that people who are serious about taking revenge tend to behave like angad - they focus fiercely on taking their life forward in front of the eyes of the person who hurt them.

i guess what i am really after is how much people on this forum really believe that angad-and-kripa will take their lives forward. i just can't understand anyone thinking that after angad and kripa have treated themselves like their worst enemies, there is a life together for them after this. this is what really puzzles me. i keep thinking this:

there has to be an extraordinary event that get angad and kripa together. let's say that there is conclusive evidence presented that prithvi killed josh. and that angad didn't sleep with simone.

then what? let's say that angad ditches mishty. maybe after prithvi is convicted, mishty and mrs. bose plot to "take revenge" on kripa. angad finds out and goes after them with a vengence and they go to jail too. 😛(i don't think mishty will ever stop being angad's greatest friend, but let's say..)

so we have angad and kripa without any barriers (well, other than naina who hates kripa still and karthik who will always hate angad of course 😆). will they face each other at the end of the day, and say sorry to each other and i love you to each other, and not remember the last time they said this, did this? how can they take their life forward with all this behind them? what does the forum think? -esther

Well life can be taken forward and they can move on with life too..they say to err is human and to forgive divine, but then the hurt and the pain and the anguish caused always remains at the end of your sub consciousness mind, one little chingari in future can bring all that hurt in front. For instance in the kripa and angad case, angad was a casanova furst who used to play around with woman and treat them as a commodity...when kripa found that he had slept with simone, that hurt and betrayal was enough for her to give a gavahi against angad!!

People are human and when you make a mistake in future, your past mistakes are bought in future.. there is a lesson to be learnt in this for all of us - never compromise on your self respect and you got to trust and have firm faith in your partner. Also the roots of your relationship have to be strong enough to survive, so strong that even if its a hurricane or a volcano for that matter, it should destroy your roots!

Misty