If you were Mishti - Page 3

Hi Maya,

If the man does not love me - I would not meet him for my sanity let alone give him advice. He should be able to make his own decisions.

The man in question is your dear friend. Would you leave him in the lurch when he needs your help and support? Will you be selfish enough to leave him just because he does not love you?

If my man loves me he will not be taken by her. If he does get taken then he was not worth it - I will thank her - if it was not her it could have been someone else!

Wanted to know how you would deal with your brother's wife.

Mishty's fallacy???Oh my, i thnk tht the way she has been thnking is at fault!!!

Kripa stands out mishty and dere is no pt comparing her wid mishty!.she may have committed her share of flaws, yet her love for angad stands unconditional!!the situation kripa has been put in are totally different frm the situations mishty has been put in!!kripa.

It was damini aunty who refused money coz tht was an unprofitable venture!, mishti was more hell bent in trying to snub kripa in evry first opportunity she wud get!!

Yup she sent prithvi out, she told him she never wants ru c hIS face again, her case is infatuation, as i say so, coz she never bothered tu visit angad, she very soon forgot abt angad's death, and went bonkers over zaib!..kripa also did not visit hIM, bt kripa to date has not been able to bring her self evn wid da terms of angad's death!!

I believ tht mishty is a strong woman yet she lacks spine, I just dont agree wid the way she thnks, thts it!..Otherwise she has her share of positive aspects!.

in misties point of view misty is rite...........but in serials pont of view shes not.......... 😆

Sidrah,
Pls could you use normal font. That bold font makes it look like shouting.
And yes, Mishti's infatutation- Did you forget she kept remembering Angad even after her engagement with Kartik? She kept taunting Kripa for sending him to jail and even felt disturbed when she saw Angad's perfume brand.

More than trying to snub Kripa by refusing to finance her show, Mishti was trying to help Angad by financing his show.

And anyone in anger can say things like " Get out of my life" and stuff, but that does not mean she actually meant it. Even Suryabhan asked Kripa not to show him her face again, but does that mean he did not care for her?

Mishti did not go behind Zaib. He went behind her. She just accepted the fact that Angad is dead and was trying to move on with her life for a man who has confessed his love for her.

Mishti is a strong woman but lacks spine- Could you pls be more descriptive? I fail to understand that part.

Hi Shirin,

This is what I would do and have explained why and yours will be yours based on your experiences so yeah we can share

If the man does not love me - I would not meet him for my sanity let alone give him advice. He should be able to make his own decisions.

The man in question is your dear friend. Would you leave him in the lurch when he needs your help and support? Will you be selfish enough to leave him just because he does not love you?

yes, i would because I would be biased towards any woman that says that she loves him. and i would tell him that and also tell him why i need to stay away from him. if he cared he would understand. he needs to find someone he loves by himself wihtout my help and i need to move on and not cling onto him.

Wanted to know how you would deal with your brother's wife.

my brother's wife is my brother's business. i should trust him to make decisions about his marriage. i would tell him about my suspicions buti would not confront her myself. they are a family and i have mine. i will always be there for my brother but would not interfere in his family life. i will advise him on what i think he should do but he has to confront her and make the decision about their relationship.

Love

Maya

Hey Buttercup!

Can you behave normally with that girl and continue to be friends with her? - Yes i can coz forgeting and forgiving exists

Would you forgive and forget if she is still cheating your brother?

I will help him move in life.. but true love is more strong it will not allow him go ahead though i try my best
Then shouldnt you try double hard to shrug the memories of a cheat out of his mind?

What if she knows tht my bro has cheated her from the begining and got married to her. Kripa is yet loyal, but what wen she comes to know wat my bro had done

No she doesnt. Neither Kripa nor Mishti know what Prithvi has done. How is she loyal to him by not consumating the relationship and stalking another man for whatever reason?

Honestly tell what you have done if YOU were Mishti in the following situations- ( Look at it from Mishti's perspective keeping aside real facts like the Angad Kripa break being the consequence of a misunderstanding)

Hey interesting post. If I was Mishty. (Wow, makes me shudder 😆)

1. The girl whom your brother loves dearly breaks his heart. Do not forget that she had been dropping hints to him for long or rather "using" him in the name of friendship.

I would be happy that my brother didn't marry someone who didn't love him. And also be happy with the fact that Kripa had the spine to break off the engagement and prevent from ruining 3 lives, something she should be doing at the moment.

2. She actually breaks the heart of the man YOU love. Would you help him forget her and carry on with his life, or ask him to go back to that woman to suffer another heart break?

If you're talking about the disco scene, if I can remember correctly it was Angad who broke Kripa's heart, not the other way around. If I was Mishty I would stay out of the whole thing if I couldn't be helpful. This is where my dislike and confusion towards Mishty really began. She knew how much Angad was hurting as well as Kripa (remeber the scene where AK are saying eachother's names) but she chose to ignore it for her own selfish needs. And I'm sorry but love it never selfish, so I doubt she ever loved Angad.

3.What would you do if you learnt that your brother's wife has been cheating on him stalking another man? (Forget that Prithvi is a murderer)

Whose's cheating on who?!😕 😆 If I can remember correctly (and I don't want to remember it) it's Mishty who has been roo rooing with Zaib, when she has commited herself to Karthik. Kripa hasn't been having secret rendevous and near kisses and God knows what else with the hunk. All Kripa's been doing is trying to keep them apart. I mean at least have the spine to break your engagement before all that. She using Karthik as a safety net. She was about to break her engagement and as soon as she thought Zaib is a cheat, she's back to marrying him again.

4. What would you do if you learnt that she is trying to get you married to someone else just to separate you from the man you love, so that she can have him?

I think we're making wild assumptions here. Mishty had already said yes to her marriage to Karthik because she's always wanted to become a Khanna bahu. This marriage was fixed long before Zaib came into the picture. So if I was Mishty I wouldn't play around with emotions and say what I want. And if I don't have the courage to do that, I would stay true to the commitment I made with my consent, to avoid unnecesary humiliation to my family. I don't think Mishty even loves Zaib, but is merely fascinated for what he stands for. Not in any of their meetings have they talked and connected emotionally. Mishty doesn't even know Zaib. All they've done is roo rooed. Kripa want Zaib for herself? She's the only one who's showed spine and sel-control and pushed him away.

5. What would you do if you had to choose between a man who loves you like crazy and a man who cares a damn about you inspite of an engagement with him?

I would choose the man that loves me like crazy. And I think we both know that that man ain't Zaib, cause his eyes are elsewhere. And Karthik has shown on many occasions that he cares about Mishty. But it has to go both ways. Mishty has to show that she's interested in making the relationship work as well. Karthik opened up to her at the restaurant, when she was busy day dreaming about Zaib.

Did you notice Mishti actually apologised to Kripa when she got to know of Zaib's true colours courtesy Kripa? And that Mishti Kripa hug when she got to know of Angad's death? Just goes on to show that her anger is not unjustified.

Let's just hope Mishty listens to Kripa. Kripa knows that Zaib doesn't love her and is just using her. He's admitted it himself in the scene with Shabbir. And if she doesn't want to listen then she can't even say that nobody warned her.

yes, i would because I would be biased towards any woman that says that she loves him. and i would tell him that and also tell him why i need to stay away from him. if he cared he would understand. he needs to find someone he loves by himself wihtout my help and i need to move on and not cling onto him.

Maya, I do respect your mature opinion.

But still are you trying to say that you would walk out on a friend just because of your hearty feelings? Moving on in life does not necessarily mean finding another one to love. It has a lot of other aspects too. Like some good company to forget your sorrows or some shoulder to cry on. Would you refrain from being that too?

Originally posted by: Shirin

Sidrah,
Pls could you use normal font. That bold font makes it look like shouting.
And yes, Mishti's infatutation- Did you forget she kept remembering Angad even after her engagement with Kartik? She kept taunting Kripa for sending him to jail and even felt disturbed when she saw Angad's perfume brand.

More than trying to snub Kripa by refusing to finance her show, Mishti was trying to help Angad by financing his show.

And anyone in anger can say things like " Get out of my life" and stuff, but that does not mean she actually meant it. Even Suryabhan asked Kripa not to show him her face again, but does that mean he did not care for her?

Mishti did not go behind Zaib. He went behind her. She just accepted the fact that Angad is dead and was trying to move on with her life for a man who has confessed his love for her.

Mishti is a strong woman but lacks spine- Could you pls be more descriptive? I fail to understand that part.

Shirin, no offense tu u dear, but i kind if use bold in evryone of ma posts, and mods have no problem wid it!!!

Yup, I by no means did not forget how she was reminded of angad at the perfume, thngy, bt all i mean tu say is, mishty forgot abt angad;s death, very soon, evn if she was disturbed, she didnot stand by angad in tht calamitous situation!! and yes u are rite by sayng tht she accepted the situation and decided tu carry on...this wht i am sayng...her love wasnt profound!!!enuf, it got over angad very easily!!!

Evn if she was tryng tu help angad, no one can deny the fact tht she wanted to snub kripa tu!..she said so herself in the car tht she will get bak at her, and dis points out her true intentions!!!

zaib went after her true, verrrrrrryyyyyyyy true!!, bt u know y i call her strong and say tht she lacks depth!!!..I call her strong, b.c. of her approach in various situations, for instance the damini poisoining kripa, shows the fact tht she holds gud upbringig!..she lacks spine coz of the way she thnks, she fell for zaib. y??? just coz he wud praise her?? he found tyme tu buy her gifts?? make her feel special, by sayng tht she is oh sumbdy special!?? love has more depth tu it!!!, more space to it actually!

Tlkng abt anger, she did say so, and asked prithvi tu get out and tht eventually led down to the final break down of ties b/w the bro-sis, she prioritized her fiance over her bro and dats where prithvi was hurt!

Wah, Wah kya baat hai Shrin..my high five queen...u r great...

Love the way u put it up...

Thanks for pointing all this out.