I’m Disappointed in you guys

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Been a regular on this forum for a while now, i must say things have come to a point where i didnt want to say anything but am forced to do so.

I do not come to the forum just see you get all charged up, hyper and being emotional fools and trust me its disheartening to see the forum like this and seeing people leave by the dozen. If the girl friend of the guy who plays angad in a serial says something about kripa, it shouldnt affect us. Why are we baming his gf. If a post such as that is started, cant we just ignore it....i'm sure if kripa or any one else would be reading the criticism posted about them, they would try to oercome their follies. They certainly wouldnt get depressed and sentimental about the whole thing. If someone passes a comment about the actors by their real names, stop getting charged up. Let it pass. dont let it affect you guys. Why are you getting affected... Are they related to you. Do you own them? Are they your friends? Do they know us? Why are we getting all hyper and senti based on comments made by others. I agree its the character we are talking about and not the person but then are the actors related to us are friends or relatives that we are getting all hyper and emotional about them?

Does it even make an iota of difference as to what we feel about them. Why are we getting hyper and emotional and all charged up about things and people who are inconsequential to us? Its just a serial and the actors are mere players. Why cant we just concentrate on the serial and see for ourselves the lesson its teaching us, see for yourself, the beauty life brings...life is short and dont let these petty things get to you.

I'm sure we are the biggest laughing stock right now. Do you know that this forum is accessed by a variety of people - people from balaji, journalists, and actors themselves. What impression are you giving to others? Can we please have some respect for others and maintain the friendly atmosphere and our dignity in the forum.

We are here for a healthy discussion so please can we get a life and treat each other as regular forum people and not as if they are some celebrities?

Can we please keep it that way.

Misty.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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well said mishti i agree with u 100% 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree with u misty. Well said
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Posted: 19 years ago
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mistu mah jaanu u spoke mah heart out i dun want to say nything else all dat i wanna say is dat i want my mad forum bak.. 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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👏 👏 wow u said it all misty! 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: newkidontheblok

mistu mah jaanu u spoke mah heart out i dun want to say nything else all dat i wanna say is dat i want my mad forum bak.. 😊

me too yaar Shivu. i miss the old days. i miss the mad forum😭

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I appreciate this step taken by you Misty, to bring this up...And this is what I have been shouting from the roof tops!

Gosh , the very reason we are here is getting affected cos of some misplaced priorities of some people...We need to ask ourselves as to why we are here...Are we here to defend the actors and all, or are we here to have fun and share some great moments with the fellow members?Why are we making the atmosphere such a hostile one and as a result losing members by dozens...I for one, is not so enthusiastic anymore to read or post here...If not for being a moderator I would skip 99% of the posts and just read the updates and push off...

If people are interested in having debates and all, there is a debate mansion just for that purpose...Please make a note!For heavens sake dont talk abt human rights etc here(yeah apparently that's what has been happening here..Well we are close to that! )...Hey if not IQ's GF, we will have something else to bother us, if the attitude is such!!!

Misty, my kudos to you for this post!

Raksha
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Misty darling u expressed my feelings. I agree with u and u explained it all. 😉 So I won't say anything further. 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kaj!

me too yaar Shivu. i miss the old days. i miss the mad forum😭

aww kaju..dun cry..m sure our old mad nd wacky forum will b bak soon😊cmon now gimme a sweet smile🤗

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I agree Misty. I left the forum for a while because I was busy with work and school but also due to the problem you have brought to light...I am tired of people acting like they know the actors and getting all senti about things...Can we be real? Can we not have a healthy or funny discussion on KYPH topics anymore?...some people are posting things that are not even related to KYPH or they post things that are personal attacks on certain cast members...I mean you are right...we are not related to these individuals so why cant we just talk about their show and not their personal life or character...

thanks misty for being bold enough to point this out...i wanted to post something about this but i didnt think it would make a difference because I have been seeing this since I left the forum and since I have been back on recently as well...I just kept going about my business and posting on limited topics that i was interested in...I hope we all realize this is a problem and try to work towards a better atmosphere on the forum... 😊

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