LIVE LIKE A NORMAL PERSON.........

....... mahaan Parvati se baahar aaoo👏 Not my words, but those of Rohit Sippy's. This is what I felt too, as I watched today's episode.

Episode started with Suman agonizing for burdening Sona with the baby. People, one thing I don't understand, kya uss baby ke maa and Pulkit marr gayein ki, only Sona will have to handle additional responsibilities and burden😳. The only sensible line in the whole show today is that of Sona's : Pari is at fault, why should the baby be punished by leaving her/him in an orphanage. Again, how gross is it in this day and age to consider abandoning the baby, because bina wedding ka maa ka baccha👎🏼😡

Sona finds out from Vimmi that Rohit is not the guy who tried to abort the baby. Seriously, did she actually think that Rohit tried to forcefully abort the baby in the middle of the road?🤢 If she envisions the guy to be sooo cruel and wicked, that he could try such a stunt, then why does she pine for such a crook? After knowing the truth that Tanya and family knew about Pari's pregnancy and Tanya losing her baby, genius Sona runs to meet Tanya for consoling her 😡🤢. Tanya had one hell of a melt down 🤗😭seeing her and Sona needed to be protected from her violence💔. A wailing Tanya is restrained by a nurse😭Isn't she the one who needed to be comforted? Really, people...... don't blame me if the writers are throwing all this nonsense at me and make me into rebel against Sona🤢.

Papa Naren seems to have come around to loving Sona. I don't know what caused his enlightenment. I guess his sister being evil has turned the tide for him to be TEAM SONA👍🏼. Other than that, why the sudden change in heart from his side? Because of an advice to reconsider the willing away of property ? His other pet peeves against Sona still stand, na? Did something else happen which I missed in the weeks I didn't watch? I am thoroughly confused.

Rohit Sippy's crying turning his back to Sona annoyed me💔So from the flashback today, it appears like he threw away Sona because he was blackmailed by Nishi, NOT entirely for his love for his mom and that he chose his mom over Sona. I am not understanding. If, so, this is even worse💔👎🏼 Ewwwww....... kitna buzdil aadmi hain🤬Toh, anybody can threaten his parents or other loved ones to be killed to get him to do their bidding? Yeh aise kab hogaya? Please help me out, am I missing something? What is that app that Nishi was showing that will turn off somebody's heartbeats😡? HUHHH 😲This and the virus fiasco made me think that we are watching a Robin Cook's writing being played out. Writers, please stay off the specifics about the virus and the pandemic.

I don't think I have a connect with any of the characters now. I don't understand any of them anymore😲Nothing more to say.

Have a good day !!!!😃

I am also disconnected with how the characters have evolved, but still continuing to watch for the love of actors playing the characters. I am not sure about some of the characters actions anymore. I hope this fiasco concludes with an open ending where Rohit and Sonakshi chooses to live separately from SM( even though I can't convince myself on why Sona would go back to Rohit even if he had thousand reasons to behave the way he did. The people around in front of whom he insulted his wife doesn't know that !!!).

I still hope they get a season 2 with a good story to start since the story had started in a wonderful premise that could be explored if they get good writers.

Simple For The Title 😛This is A Very Normal ITV Show /Like Ek 😈one Which have Same Routine Way 😃 Wana Watch Just Keep Brain Away 😳Don't try to find Anything Relatable👍🏼

Sahi Kaha Hai Mili...waise EK BAAT batao..

Have you never hide any truth from your parents and wasn't there anyone who blackmailed you in telling the truth ( mostly brothers or sisters) even in serious cases and you have buttered them not to tell knowing consequences. So if that makes a human BuZDIL then yes he is BUZDIL. If it comes about the murder of one of your parent.

Humein toh fir BHI chotti chotti cheezo se Dar lagta Hai..so if that makes us BUZDIL..we all are, Har EK insaan IF par BuZDIL Hai..!! So be it!!

This is the reality of life.

Originally posted by: ratika89

Sahi Kaha Hai Mili...waise EK BAAT batao..

Have you never hide any truth from your parents and wasn't there anyone who blackmailed you in telling the truth ( mostly brothers or sisters) even in serious cases and you have buttered them not to tell knowing consequences. So if that makes a human BuZDIL then yes he is BUZDIL. If it comes about the murder of one of your parent.

Humein toh fir BHI chotti chotti cheezo se Dar lagta Hai..so if that makes us BUZDIL..we all are, Har EK insaan IF par BuZDIL Hai..!! So be it!!

This is the reality of life.

Good morning, Ratika😃By, the way, can I compliment your name, my friend? Such a pretty ring to it👍🏼

I saw this comment when I had to take a call at 2:30 AM, don't ask me why I opened this forum at that time😲 I itched to write back a reply then, as this is very close to my heart, but common sense prevailed and reminded me I needed my sleep, in case I have another call and another problem I had to tackle😃 So, here I am several hours later.

I will try to explain my stand about " blackmail". ( sorry, this IF is not letting me bold text from your comment😔). This is very, very close to my heart. I will write this more so, people can start thinking about this. Some of the people who know me from before know that I have written books about this topic😲. Chandu, Silpa if you guys are reading, I will try not to bore you again with my elaborate explanation and try to keep it as abbreviated as possible.

As a child, I have seen at close quarters how my aunt suffered from "blackmail" by my uncle: seemingly insignificant stuff on the surface. But, at the heart of the matter is the big, bad control game and a power struggle in the marriage. Silent treatment if she didn't comply with simple things, such as attending a function at her brother's house when he didn't want to. Or refusing to eat when her or his children did something he didn't want them to, or asked him for something he didn't sign off on, so on and so forth. I think you get the idea. Nothing earth shattering for a third party, no big deal to complain about in the grand scheme of things, but for the person who has to bear with it, it is a death blow every time this happens, every time you have to do something against your will because you are being twisted by somebody. I was always amazed at how the situation took a different flavor altogether. Suddenly, the victim ( my aunt ) is now the perpetrator for keeping the uncle starving. It is very simple to do his bidding and end the matter. I saw how she lost her soul, how insecure she had become over the years. Unfortunately, this is the story of hundreds of thousands of women ( may be some men too ) around the world. A suffering which cannot be voiced out loud or complained about, as this seems so petty to an onlooker.

That is when I decided, I am never going to be the person who will " blackmail" anybody and will never give into blackmail. In other words, I don't take crap from anybody. MILI'S HOUSE HAS A ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY to blackmail, just like the US govt. doesn't give in to blackmail, ransom threats etc😃. Pardon my grandiosity. I have been able to follow this with utmost diligence till now, I don't know what the future holds😕Even, my 9 year old doesn't get an ultimatum, such as clean up your room, empty the dishwasher OR your TV privileges go away and so forth. She is told that she has to do these things to pull her weight and help out in running a busy household. I am being told by my friends that I will have to bargain and barter as we enter into her teenage years, cross my heart, I hope I don't have to do that😒. So, these are my views about blackmail in general. I hope I haven't lost some of you reading, with this discourse.

As for the show, I am a little confused about what you were referring to. I may be off too with the specifics, as I haven't watched for a while. I am solely referring to Rohit Sippy giving in to blackmail and throwing his wife out of the house and to keep her away calling her an infidel😡💔 This, I cannot bardasht any which way, I twist myself. This guy along with his responsibilities as a son, nephew, grandson, also has a responsibility of being a husband. If he gave in to the blackmail of " I will kill your father, mother or wife" if you don't throw your wife away, how do I appreciate this guy? How do I respect such a coward? This is not what I would expect from a protagonist. I prefer somebody who goes down kicking and screaming, not who just gives up and drowns his miseries in alcohol. Isn't Sona's grief just as bad, why is she moving heavens and earth to make something out of her life and not drowning herself in alcohol too?

Neither am I impressed with his great husbandly act of "protecting" his Sona from the evil clutches of his family or helping her from the shadows. Itna buzdil hain, ki he puts up a show to the world and wrong her in the eyes of the world? Yeh undying love hain? Aise love ko toh, I don't understand💔 I know I have an axe to grind about Sona altogether, but here I am simply focusing on Rohit Sippy, a character I had immense respect for at one point💔👎🏼

First off, I think killing somebody through an app is stupid. There is some technology that exists, I am not up to date with how far along this is. But, I can tell you with conviction that the pacemaker companies are not stupid to leave such a loophole free for perpetrators to get hold of. If this is so, there would have been hundreds of murders around the world. Easy na, click a button on your phone and kill without any evidence. Secondly, if he knows that particular pacemaker is hacked, couldn't he have had the generator replaced and end the problem? It is in his hands. Thirdly, how long is he going to let Nishi twist him? What is his plan in dealing with her? He is going to wait for Naren to be able to walk and talk so he can put Nishi behind bars? He is a doctor right, doesn't he know about the uncertainty of the situation? How does he know that Naren is going to be well enough to give such a testimony ever? Just think about it, instead of his spouse, what if he had a child. And if Nishi said, put that child on the road or I will kill her/him in this house, would he have done that? Can we justify that he is doing this for the salamati of that child?

This is where I am coming from. Sorry people, if I have overdosed you with Mili's gyaan🥱. I hope I haven't confused some of you. Long lectures are an occupational hazard with me😲. I would be happy to hear any other perspectives, as always😃

@mili long time no see 🤗

Just to tell u , I loved reading the blackmail post ..❤️

The serial is about to end , I can only guess ,ths producer went berserk in the need of trps and did a separation drama , a very convoluted one ...there is no head or tail to the twist ...no Hopes, except that post leap , rohit will be redeemed bec he did this for sona ( the logic of which only he can tell) , the sippy family will find chullu bhar pani when the truth will be out , thy may also accept Pari's baby as their own bec tanya lost her baby . So on and so forth . Dont try to read too much into the characters , each one has been butchered .

Hey mili long time great thread especially ur last comment

I can't see sippu and his 2rs mahaant muje sirf hasi athi hai ab.even I skipped from blackmail to dilbar dance watched last 3 episode bas

Here is my reaction it's thread u got to scroll down

https://twitter.com/DrSippy2/status/1230755549450362882?s=19

Originally posted by: _charu_

@mili long time no see 🤗

Just to tell u , I loved reading the blackmail post ..❤️

The serial is about to end , I can only guess ,ths producer went berserk in the need of trps and did a separation drama , a very convoluted one ...there is no head or tail to the twist ...no Hopes, except that post leap , rohit will be redeemed bec he did this for sona ( the logic of which only he can tell) , the sippy family will find chullu bhar pani when the truth will be out , thy may also accept Pari's baby as their own bec tanya lost her baby . So on and so forth . Dont try to read too much into the characters , each one has been butchered .

Charu, yes long time. Hope you are well ! I always maintained that however busy I am, I can make about 20 min of time if I really wanted to. Woh kehte haina, that if you challenge fate, ek zoru ka thappad toh banta hain. That happened, these last few days have been something else, so busy that I didn't have bandwidth for anything but sleep. The show wasn't interesting either, for me to make any effort .

Glad you liked my take on blackmail. Itne saare opinions hain mere paas, my friend, on almost everything😃, you must have guessed by now. But, none with solid evidence or scientific backing, just my random observations and opinions.

Yes, I understand the show has no rhyme or reason these days. I agree with you and Chandu, I should watch with the brain in my pocket🤔I lost total connect with all characters, which is sad.

Have a good rest of the weekend😃

Originally posted by: Drsippy

Hey mili long time great thread especially ur last comment

I can't see sippu and his 2rs mahaant muje sirf hasi athi hai ab.even I skipped from blackmail to dilbar dance watched last 3 episode bas

Here is my reaction it's thread u got to scroll down

https://twitter.com/DrSippy2/status/1230755549450362882?s=19

Doc ( OK to address you this way? ) I enjoyed the thread you provided here thoroughly🤣🤣. Thanks for a good laugh my friend, I needed that today😃

The reaction clips are so appropriate👍🏼. My favorite is the " tu doctor haina?" and seh lenge thoda. Tobda is what? Head? Really, my friend, a 30 + year old guy talking nonsense and abruptly turning around to bawl his eyes out, is like watching a cartoon for meWhat do the writers want us to feel? That we should sympathize with this guy or understand his agony?😡 Mujhe toh bahut doubts aa rahein hain about his mental state🤔

I had to scratch my head too as the supposed doctors in the round table were asking Rohit, what should we do now? 😲 Overall, I don't like the fact they are going to use this gimmick while the whole world is in the midst of an almost pandemic and real panic mode. It seems insensitive on the part of the makers to cash in on the panic of a current event. I hope they don't give false information, feed untruths or create a false sense of security😡 I will have my ammunition ready if they do this. I know they will use some stupid disclaimer across the screen, but it is important specially during times such as this to cause no distractions, right?

Too stupid to make any sense. Have a great day ! Hope to interact with you in the next few days😃

Originally posted by: mili9

Charu, yes long time. Hope you are well ! I always maintained that however busy I am, I can make about 20 min of time if I really wanted to. Woh kehte haina, that if you challenge fate, ek zoru ka thappad toh banta hain. That happened, these last few days have been something else, so busy that I didn't have bandwidth for anything but sleep. The show wasn't interesting either, for me to make any effort .

Glad you liked my take on blackmail. Itne saare opinions hain mere paas, my friend, on almost everything😃, you must have guessed by now. But, none with solid evidence or scientific backing, just my random observations and opinions.

Yes, I understand the show has no rhyme or reason these days. I agree with you and Chandu, I should watch with the brain in my pocket🤔I lost total connect with all characters, which is sad.

Have a good rest of the weekend😃

Not found Pockets 😉 😆but 😳

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