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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zephyr_57

As a female myself I believe a woman should be independent, education and employment are a way to that.... Giving up this is unjust to your own self..


You said it right, no matter how successful a woman is she adjusts the most. A girl is groomed from her teens to be perfect in her kitchen, the degree is only to get her married into an educated family, if she's 30 and single then that's entirely different issue.


Sona needs to stand up for herself, Ro is verrrrrrry understanding but this is something Sonakshi's should do.

South Indian upper middle class married women enjoy more freedom than north ..that I can tell


For us it's not kitchen when married ..we have lot of freedom in pursuing career and no adjustments ..just from only gal side

Both boy and gal will adjust if there's no help from in-laws


Like my friend couple usa both software ..they don't have in-laws ..little kids both take rotation wise 3 day work from home

Another couple usa ..she is doc . She can't take work from home .the guy shifted in to a complete work from home job ..ignoring pay hike

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Posted: 5 years ago
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"There is a difference between adjustment and sacrifice "👏 "You are sacrificing when you are giving up on something which makes you blissfully happy"👏 "as your husband I wont interfere in your decision but please explain me why"👏



I dont support sona's decision but these lines are pure gold . Rohit sona scene was mindblowing ...right from the beginning..otherwise conversations start after the "mauka nahi mila ka result " , so here is the mauka, pls talk ! Wonderful! The dialogue writer and the screenplay writer deserves a standing ovation ..sona isnt quitting , she may find a better career option..the biggest hitch is that she isnt doing this because she wants to, but bec her in laws have a problem..things can be adjusted and with time , they settle down too...sonas decision is wrong on every level ..I just hope something happens n she goes back on her decisions..this is really stupid ..

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Not working or working should be women own decision but the reasons behind leaving work is something which holds important role here sona have respect for her profession, but still leaving job just bcos her profession is wrong or cheap in eye of her narrow minded FIL then it's wrong and rohit her own husband give a damn about naren opinion & don't considereal him anything then why sona giving him importance. but then it's sp show where sona is mahan bahu of them, they don't ruin her character beyond repair .
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayavi_26

Not working or working should be women own decision but the reasons behind leaving work is something which holds important role here sona have respect for her profession, but still leaving job just bcos her profession is wrong or cheap in eye of her narrow minded FIL then it's wrong and rohit her own husband give a damn about naren opinion & don't considereal him anything then why sona giving him importance. but then it's sp show where sona is mahan bahu of them, they don't ruin her character beyond repair .


Yes, inspite of having such a supportive husband who doesnt care what his father thinks or says, she still wants to take this huge step. That makes her mahaan, stupid, a people pleaser or all 3. I think she is a people pleaser who craves love and acceptance of everyone. That is a recipe for disaster as she will go thru life altering and shaping herself to please the whims and fancies of different people.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Yes, inspite of having such a supportive husband who doesnt care what his father thinks or says, she still wants to take this huge step. That makes her mahaan, stupid, a people pleaser or all 3. I think she is a people pleaser who craves love and acceptance of everyone. That is a recipe for disaster as she will go thru life altering and shaping herself to please the whims and fancies of different people.

Lol she is like any typical show Gopi bahu

..discussing also waste of time

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