Originally posted by: thesaint148
i totally agree with you Jyoti. i think you have put the entire situation in very clear words. very nice analysis.
confusion is at its max right now, and satya is further confusiing the girl by saying things like dev is ur bad past and blah blah .... but above everything, i was surprised when he said, "kaj, yeh shadi ka faisla tu tumhara apna tha" OMG mr satya r u for real, or have u converted into a goat brian as well. how can u even say that. u r saying, kaj you were totally lost and mentally ill but u made a decison, and that too when adi was pursuing her in this, and shotuing my wife my wife ... uff, everyone here is a complete dumb head. and kaj, poor girl.
but i will still say, if her love for dev was strong enough, thinking twice, even in this state of mind, for she does remember him and his love, is not justified.
i think i am inclined to go with Jyo and you on other points...sorry Kashish I cant agree with you or anyone on this one......
we are being unfair on Kajjal...on this occassion...i watched the epi twice...and i will watch it again....all i can say...both Dev and Kaju are suffering equally....DEv more so...and his condition is deterioating...but this is the mirror image of Kajus...own ....state...when she was delutional at home....before she leaves home....
and what is this DEv...you remember how you threw her out, said all those awful things....you aredead.... burnt her things....gives her money...for her clothes....as if she were a gold digger.....and he did all possible to ....hurt her beyond belief or human bearance....and no sooner he realises his error...he wants her to forget every hurt and run into his arms...isnt that...a bit....selfish...i say....give her some time to be angry...cry....make up...come to terms...give her some time.....to recover....and yes he cries in hospital...i want to hate you but i cant....i cant live without you...wasnt Kaju goin thru the same...wehn she was gettin engaged to Dhruv....
have you ever been in the position of someone who is rejected constantly....the way Kaju was when Dev threw her out...yes she made a mistake abot NT mom..but she wasnt responsible for her death KA...was...and DEv was in deep shock...extreme pain and grief...but dont forget..the hotel scene...the payal scene...when he shuts her out...without any explanation....or...misbehaves...again without explanation...in his mind...he was doin the right thing......but Kaju ka kasoor tha...usse toh nahin pata tha......when you loved someone like kaajjal...did...and she did....one cant deny////you go beyond doubts....you go beyond limits...as she did when she was the only one who believed he was alive...when the world thought DEv was dead...i think...againts that eveidence...
I feel......we are overeacting...to her ML...she has got part of her memory back..only some facts...like watching a movie...but it has no sound....she can see the scenes...and like the doctor said...is confusing facts with reality....terribly...and she will be the first one to hate herself...when she sees DEv in that condition....she will try to kill herself for sure...for saying any of those hurtful words....she will die equally a thousand Deaths....mein apne...Dev ke baarein mein aisa kaisa keh sakthi thi...at that moment...adi or any of the goat family will be like little dots...in the far recesses of her mind....
i dont have much medical knowledge....but a blood clot in the brain is a serious issue....it can partly block a persons memory also distorts facts as it is doing now...but then recalll how she sits with SP and cries....but how can I forget him...i am supposed to be happy am i not..that i am getting married...is not words of a girl..trying to choose...between her present and her past..dont look at the words...look at her eyes...even when she was lying there,,,thinkin,,,he hurt me so many times....but her love for Dev...was pouring from her eyes,...and she felt his pain...she was in pain...too shocked....
yes there is no question SP is brainwashing her...and thats really bad...he should be just consoling her...and let her make her own decisions...in fact he should be calling the marriage off...lookin at the state she is in....and let her take her own decisions...even with dhruv he made that mistake..she was in shock, angry ...but in time she would have learnt the truth///...
the guilty party is not kaju on this occassion...very shot, every scene., every tear...and he loves her beyond human capacity...alomost divine is their love for each other..... that epi...yesterday proved one thing....she still loves...him crazy...and only a matter to time when her full memory returns...her emotions connect....to reality...she will RUN MAN>>and run.....and adi ..SP can only watch like dumb spectators... girls...sorry...i dont agree n this occassion...but these my feelings😊
choosing between dev and adi, well she can be thnakful to adi, althought i dont know for what? but ok, she can be thankful to adi, but she saying dev gave me pain .... uff, no, she does remmeber lots of their times together, atleast the flashes showed that she remembers a lot of time she spent with dev. so whats this confusion. i mean, had she been having all flashes of dev being rude to her, tab tu samajh aata kay she is double minded, but when she is having memories of all their good times, how can she even think that dev always hurt her and that adi is today a true saathi. well, i dont agree with this.
whatever happened to true and selfless love ???