update 4th jun 2010: In RITU, OUT Poonam & DEEPU? - Page 2

Suhasinni

Violence is not the reason Ritu gave - the reason she gave was that she had moved on, and had no wish to return to her husband. So her husband asked for Bubbly. If he threatened to take sole custody of her, that would be wrong, but the least he deserved was joint custody. Not that I'm justifying it, but he only turned violent when he lost his case in court, and didn't handle the fact that he couldn't have his daughter any more. A lot of people would react pretty violently on being forcibly separated from their kids. Part of the blame does fall on him for divorcing even though he had a 2 year old, but just b'cos someone is a bad hubby does not necessarily imply that he'll be a bad father.

In the US, he would have ended up w/ joint custody the first time he divorced, and he would only have lost that had it been proved that he was an abusive father. In India, afaik, the law generally gives sons to their fathers and daughters to their moms, which is probably how Ritu won out.

My point - these 2 had their fight, but at the end of the day, Bubbly's sentiments are ignored, and honestly, Ritu's answer - that she'll have a lot of friends like Jyoti who'll substitute for her dad is - I'm sorry, just horse-manure!

Also, the discussion here has been on whether the mothers should give up their babies when they are just born, not whether they should give up a kid that's already grown up w/ them some. If the kid is posthumous, the mom should either re-marry, or adopt out. In this case, however, it's easier to explain to the kid that dad died - friends won't think any less of his/her family. But they will when words like divorce or abandoned or abuse are bandied about.

This was going to happen. everyday who is going to tolerate arguments in the house since from when poonam had got entered in to that she has not even enjoyed a single moment in that house every girl when she gets married has many dreams in her eyes.
Jyoti sent sushma to the school going against each and every person in the house how many days that suahma went to the school.
During her divorce bhairavi and pankaj tryed to prove her characterless but kk told jyoti that we will go to the court and will prove that you are not characterless and that is his child then why didn't she do that????????If that time she would have went to the court then now nobody must have taunt her and family members and also the situation must be different.
Then how many times family members will listen to those taunt after all they are also a human being and not god

ojii

That's what I was alluding to in my update comments in parenthesis when I agreed w/ Poonam that Jyoti simply ignores what people tell her and does whatever she likes, regardless of the consequences. Everybody had good advice which she ignored - whether it was Padma & Poonam on taking the alimony, KK on filing a lawsuit, Kalpana on contesting the case w/ DNA evidence, Kabir on not dancing @ Pankaj's wedding but going on to other shows. But nooooooo, the great Jyoti has to go against all that and try attaining the status of a mahadevi. Yet, while she does whatever she feels like and demand that others support her decision, she has no qualms about forcing Sushma not to adopt out her kid, or marry Brij, or force Uday to stay w/ CM (I still hate her for that) or force Deepu to marry. I'm glad that Sudha could at least force her to do things like part w/ her mangal-sutra, refuse to attend Neelam's wedding and so on. And at one level, it's funny to see Jyoti's decision to force Deepu to marry now boomeranging on her. And I agree w/ you on Poonam - her life has been turned up side down thanks to Jyoti's circus. It's good she managed to sell Deepu on her position, and have him stand up for her. And hopefully next week, these 2 leave that zoo, leaving our mahadevi behind.

Thanx for the superb update.

thanx for the update vrisha..poonam at her best in the episode and i agree abt jyoti never ever listening to anybody's advice..she shud have aborted the child or at the very least contested the slander on her character...this way she has just paved way for a lifetime of abuse for the child..and going back to pankaj wud be the last straw on the donkey's back as far as the show is concerned..the downfall started when they showed tht brij-sushma reunion track...and i seriously think kabir shud rum in the opposite direction frm this household..it is filled wid the most fickle-minded people ever present on the surface of the earth..they just cant DECIDE whether they like a person or not..esp deepu...poonam,for all her character assassination,atleast is stuck on the fact tht she dsnt like kabir in their house..people who change like this wid every passing moment make absolutely horrible acquaintances..