Is Jyoti overdoing things for her maakya?

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Is Jyoti letting down her sasural?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Watching the last few episodes since Sushma landed in hospital made me wonder - is there no end to what Jyoti thinks she has to do for her maakya?

Granted, in the past, she felt like she had to get Sushma out of the clutches of Brij. Now she's done that. So why is she still obsessing over Sushma? First, it was at the hospital, and skipping Bhai-duj, much to the chagrin of everybody in her sasural. Then, after Sushma tells her about Thakkar, she and Deepu go on a macho Brij-hunt. Where is the need for that? Brij is now a criminal - why not report it to the police and get them on his case, instead of her and Deepu going after him? And what if Brij were to gather up his party friends and rough up Deepu? Would Jyoti then start another saga of help your maakya?

And last night's was the worst. A sleepy Pankaj begs her to stay, but she tells him that she has to go. And where? To get Sushma from hospital to KK's home. WTF? 😡😡😡 Sandeep, Padma, Dadi, Sudha and KK couldn't have done that - did they risk Sushma going back to Brij? Who is more important in Jyoti's life - Pankaj or Sushma? 😡😡😡 Had Jyoti obeyed Pankaj and stayed home, would the family have come apart?

And not just that, having put Sushma to bed, now it's Jyoti's turn to start cooking for her? There are 3 cooks in the house - Padma, Sudha and Dadi, and KK couldn't have sat next to Sushma and comforted her while they did? So there Jyoti is, looking for stuff and cooking, and suddenly Uday surfaces there, inquiring about Sudha's fake illness (driven by that congenital liar Sandeep), and Jyoti now worried that Sushma will surface. I really hope this time, she does. Jyoti has lost the right to any presumption of innocence.

Also, while I disagree w/ CM on trying to contrive a split-up b/w Uday & Sudha, I do agree in 1 aspect: if Sudha is going to have the same split loyalties as Jyoti does, then the Vashisths should be leery about welcoming her into their fold. After all, this is the family that gave her a home when even KK and Padma were unwilling to, and when she needed them most. I hope that if and when Sudha marries Uday, she remembers this and loses all contact w/ her folks - the only person who really cared for her is Jyoti, and she's here in her would be sasural. The only complication in this is that Sudha is now an earning member, and if she marries, then the same issue will surface as w/ Jyoti earlier - the family will lose her income, while she'll cease to be a burden on them. Does Sudha cost them more than she brings in? Maybe Deepu can get a raise soon? But in this economy?

Anyway, the question - do you think that what Jyoti is doing is what any beti ought to do, regardless of whether she's married or not?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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One thing about Sushma - even the good Sushma - that's really irritating is that all her relationships w/ Jyoti are in extremes. She either loathes her like dirt when she's in love with Brij, or she worships the ground she walks on. Can't Sushma have a healthy relationship w/ Jyoti the way Sudha has, and not be a complete parasite on Jyoti? That seems to be a major reason for this now. If Sushma could have simply fessed up to Padma, KK and everyone else and left Jyoti with the feeling that she's in safe hands, Jyoti would be able to do justice to her marital duties.

C'mon - noone else has any opinions on this, not even the person who thinks that Jyoti is doing what is required of a daughter, even if she's married?
Edited by Vrisha - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well ofcourse jyoti is overdoing things for her mayka..i agree every girl loves her family and cant see dem in any diffculty...byt jyoti has to realise dt she is married and she shuldnt ignore her sasural and esp when dey r so loving n supporting except choti maa..
and she knows it too but she is just engrossed wid her mayka dt it has become difficult for her ..and she has always been like a pillar of strength for her mayka and she thinks it would be difficult for them to manage deir probs widout her..
but she doesnt know dt its just gonna ruin her relatioship wid her sasural and cm hates jyoti so much dt now even when uday will confess her love for sudha..cm wont accept it cuz of the same thing..she would surely thing dt sudha will also ignore her sasural cuz of her her mayka..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yeah, that's the one justification CM will have for objecting to Sudha, and in last night's episode, Sudha demonstrated why she might be right. CM will want Uday and Pratik to bring in bahus who will meet expectations that Jyoti doesn't meet, and who give enough attention to them. Obviously, if Uday brings in Sudha, that would raise legitimate questions about her commitments, given that she's Jyoti's own sister. And in last night's episode, while Uday is paying attention to her, she's too busy trying to find a way to look out for Sushma, which is particularly complicated by Jyoti's deception. And when Uday finds out that Sudha was a part of it, he'd have every reason to mete her the same punishment that Pankaj metes Jyoti.

In fact, in the script, instead of idiotically accusing Jyoti of trying to plant Sudha into the family, CM could simply win over everyone to her side in opposing Sudha (everybody except Pankaj and of course Uday) by pointing this out - that Sudha will bring in the same problems as Jyoti, as her family has high needs that have kept Jyoti away and would now keep her away. In fact, if she plays this smart, she can make it a pre-condition that Sudha's permission to visit her maykya would be minimal, if at all, and even throw in eliminating Jyoti's right to do it as well, in return for accepting Sudha into the family. Do this, and this one issue that the family has with Jyoti, and potentially Sudha, would be solved.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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cm's rejection wont be based on just on one condition..yeah sudha following jyoti's footsteps and concentrating on her mayka nd ignoring her sasural will be one of the most imp reasons but dere will be more to it...other reason would be sudha suffering from spilt personality. ...and we all know how much cm liked devika cuz she was smart, independent but sudha is totally opposite of devika so definately all of these reasons will play an important role...n the most imp reason would be dt sudha is jyoti's sis
Edited by dishu - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Jyoti is totally overdoing things for her maika. I was totally shocked to see her cooking in her maika that day. Why can't Padma cook for her sister. Before she was telling Jyoti that my daughter dosn't need you and now everything for her would only be done by Jyoti? Ok, the misunderstanding is clear now and Padma knows that Jyoti wasn't interested in Brij and only wanted to help Sushma but now atleast she could take care of her daughter and not depend on Jyoti for it. And Jyoti...she has helped Sushma out of her marriage but now she should be working on hers. If she was not going to shishumangal then shouldn't she be at home with her husband? Sushma now has the whole family , dosn't she? As much time and devotion she give for her maika she is not giving even 50% of that to her sasural. And I think CM would be right in thinking that she should not consider Sudha for Uday as she could have same priorties as Jyoti, leave alone the fact that Sudha has duel personality which would be another reason for rejecting Sudha.
Edited by merry911 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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If CM likes Devika, why should she have a problem w/ the dual personality? She should only have a problem with Devika becoming Sudha. But whenever Sudha is Devika, CM should rest easy, because Devika has no relations with Jyoti nor any maakya (the latter is probably what makes Devika so much attractive to CM). Yeah, I do think that CM's #1 objection would be Sudha having #1 loyalty to Jyoti, rather than Uday, the family or even herself (she'd now be her mother-in-law, and even closer to Sudha than her step mother).

I agree w/ Merry911 above - but what shocked me more than Jyoti cooking was Jyoti rejecting Pankaj's request to stay on. After all, Sushma has no problems walking out of the house to an abortion clinic, but somehow, she needs both Sudha and Jyoti as crutches? WTF? And today's Suday scenes were completely screwed by Sudha now having to maintain a deception on behalf of Jyoti. And I'm starting to hate KK as well - he twice called himself a langra in more ways than one, and seeing his latest advice to Jyoti, I agree with him.

It's sad - I have been rooting for the Suday romance since day 1, but seeing all this unfold and there being legitimate reasons for Suday not going ahead is disappointing. And regardless of how unhinged CM has been cast this time, she'd make a lot of sense - even Meenal and Gayatri are starting to see things her way. And when it's revealed that Jyoti has been behind deceiving not only Pankaj, but Uday as well, they'd be fully justified in expelling her from the house.

Jyoti needs to talk to Kalpana about this, and tell her how her stupid advice now makes her vulnerable to blackmail by Brij, who to date has met Pankaj once, and also how it threatens not just her own marriage, but also the future of Suday.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yep, she's doingway too much, she's not taking up her responsibilties in her Sasural which falls on a woman once they are married and move into thier husbands house its good that she cares for her own family but she should also treat her husbands family as her own family which she doesnt to the full extent
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree with u guys. i am watching Jyoti in UK, and it's gone to a new level. why is jyoti taking full responsibility for their home. i have never seen these things in real life. seriously, is jyoti the only person who cares for them? they should stop all this. JYOTI will be blamed for everything that happens in this serial. if Choti Maa's long distant relative has a problem in their house, the writers will somehow find a way to blame jyoti for it. & then everyone will admit their mistake, & another point for Jyoti. Come on man, why is she ruining Pankajs life, she's taking him for granted too much. she shudn't have married him if she didn't want to stay with him, should have just got more zaleel at her dads home.

And "OVERDOING" is a massive understatement lol. they're not little kids in nappies that she needs to babysit every1 of them. And Sushma deserved everything, she will do this again to Jyoti, I've not seen siblings hate each other THAT much at such a young age, it happens at later stage due to kids,etc... how can she even think of being forgiven after all she did to Jyoti? they should show some reality atleast, normal ppl don't destroy their marriage lives like that. But Jyoti was betrayed,insulted, humiliated, etc, and even after that she runs after them. soooo crazy. sometimes these dramas can give you headache. sorry for being so negative, but i felt it's the truth, i think even the actress playing Jyoti doesn't believe all this crap.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I don't think Pankaj will take it all this for very long bcoz cm is there to make sure Jyoti is at fault in everything in which she, i bet she will ruin her marriage herself!!!!!!!!!!which she shouldn't bcoz she will never ever find a great guy like Pankaj...

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