Jodha Akbar 13-15: The Ruqaiya enigma

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Folks,

Now the first thing I propose to do is to put you all on a little time machine, and take you back, no, not to 1562 AD, for then 90% of you or more would abandon me for Jalal! 😉😉I shall take you only to July 4, 2013, when Episode 13 was first telecast. That was when our Jalal , or rather the Takht-e-Badshah, aan se nasl-e-Timuri, noor-e-Babri, ibn-e-Humayun, rahmat-e-aali, raunaq-e-jahan, Shahenshah-e-Hindustan, Jalaluddin Muhammed made his grand entry into Agra,appropriately mounted on an elephant, while his two contending Wazirs,Bairam Khan and Maham Anga, trotted behind on horseback.

Along the way, I shall also do a little memory erase of these last 2 years plus. So, all of us, you and I, will be approaching these episodes with a fresh mind and no recollection of what is to come. There is, folks, simply no other way that you can enjoy the fascinating Ruqaiya 1, one the most enigmatic and engrossing female characters I have ever seen on TV. OK?

The Queen of Heads: Or to be precise, one head, or dimaag, that of Jalal.

For Ruqaiya Begum is that rara avis, a woman who can hold not just a man, but an emperor, effortlessly. Not by her beauty, for that is no more than passable, but by her intelligence, her political shrewdness, and her total self-possession. Plus the fact that thanks to a lifetime of knowing him, she can read his mind like an open book. Jalal must be having a lot of affection for her, as much as he can have for anyone, but as he says, the vital point is not that she is his wife, but that she is his friend. And he has very few friends.

She literally overflows with self-confidence. She does not yell at the baandis. When she tosses a necklet to a baandi as a gift for giving her the good news that the Shahenshah has reached Agra at long last, it is with queenly condescension. She does not, like the other begums, run around like a chicken with its head cut off just because the Shahenshah has come home after a long time.She does not even rise till he reaches the palace. Then she sweeps thru the corridors with long, confident, almost mannish strides.

NB: I saw some complaints about Ruqaiya's simple dressing style as not befitting the Padshahi Begum. My take on this is the exact opposite. She is so confident of her allure and her hold on Jalal, plus she wants to show the rest that she does not need to do any sajna savarna, or to look like a decorated Christmas tree to gain and retain the emperor's attention and regard. It is a deliberate put down of the rest.

And no, she is not going to the balcony to greet the Shahenshah and try and catch his eye, for she does not have to try for anything. Instead, she goes first to set up a live chessboard in her hoojra, arranging the pieces in exactly the same positions in which they were when Jalal had last departed leaving a game unfinished. She wants to win that unfinished game, and also she wants to show him, without saying so, that she remembers every tiny detail of their time together.

NB: I am a Harry Potter aficionada, and as soon as I spotted her chessboard, I thought of The Chamber of Secrets and the board there, but the exact parallel is the chessboard in the palace at Fatehpur Sikri, where too the game was played with live pieces. I should think that it would be more difficult than normal chess, as one cannot get an overall look at the board before making a move.

Then, and then alone, is it time to show herself in the balcony. Just when the other begums have finished squabbling for positions, Ruqaiya Sultan Begum makes her grand entry, like the star model in a fashion show today.

There is the arrogant gliding walk - like a model on the catwalk - with which she slides past all the simpering females who line the upper terrace for a glimpse of their lord and master. Her enigmatic smile would have delighted Leonardo da Vinci, and it is reflected in Jalal's own responding half smile, amused and eager at the same time.

He stands still, and it is telling that regardless of all those begums of his lining the balcony wall, many of them far better looking than she is, Ruqaiya still ensures that Jalal's eye not only catches hers, but stays with her right until she glides back and out. It is a delightful display of silken control, and no wonder the other aspirants to imperial attention turn a delicate shade of pea green!

Zid hamara haq hai: When Jalal, having shaken off the importunate attentions of his desperate begums, appears in her chambers, it is characteristic of Ruqaiya that she does not run to him and fawn over him. She stays where she is for one long minute, leaning back against the bolster, her left arm negligently outstretched. Clearly the lady has Attitude with a capital A. Especially when she is smoking a hukkah, with ease and elegance.

But when she rises to greet him , her words are calculated to rob this delay of any offence: Ruqaiya ke dil aur Sultanat-e-Agra mein aapka istaqbaal hai Shahenshah!

She makes Jalal resume the game of chess that he had left unfinished the last time , declaring, when he teases her about being ziddi, Ek to aurat, doosri jawaan, teesri Mughaliya Sultanat ke Shahenshah ki dil-o-jaan.. Zid hamara haq hai. This not said with pretty coquetry, but with unhesitating certainty. He knows her very well, so he is not riled, plus he is a natural, self-assured dominator who, as he says, hates to lose.

I loved the little story he narrated at this point, about how his Khan Baba, when he first got him, as a child, to hold the shamsheer, had asked ki hum sabse pehle kise maarenge. His response was entirely in character: Humari shikast ko, taki wo phir humein dobara na mile. Now he adds, his eyes aglow with determination: Kyonki humein haarna bilkul pasand nahin!

A fine balancing act: Ruqaiya is not one to let this pass unchallenged, for she must be used to fighting with him since childhood to try and stay on top! So she retorts:: Par humein jeet pasand hai.. But as Jalal regards her quizzically, she delivers a tour de force that maintains her stand and yet does not hurt his ego: Hamein jeet pasand hai, isiliye to dil har kar aapko jeet liya hai. The lady is clearly a natural at fine-tuned repartee.

When Jalal makes a good move, her acknowledgement, Yeh to kamaal ki chaal thi, refers as much to his disappearing act, about which she has already found out, as to the chess game. Her unfailing instinct where he is concerned tells her that there is something new in the air.

The Amer escapade: When Jalal finally reveals to her - Aapse kya chupana? Kyonki hum ek shauhar aur begum se zyada achche dost hain - that he had gone to Amer, her eyes narrow as she looks into the distance, and their expression is hard to read. He is leaning forward, fastening her eyes with his own. Can he read them? She listens to his sanitized, Jodha-free account of why he had gone to Amer - to bait the enemy in his own camp aur dushman ki aankhon mein apni shamsheer se soorma lagane - with a curious little smile. What does she suspect? Perhaps she herself does not know.

Unbelievable impertinence: Meanwhile, Ruqaiya has won the chess game, and has dismissed the baandis. Jalal, for all his junoon for winning, does not seem to mind losing to Ruqaiya. Perhaps he Is used to it! He approaches her with obvious intent, but at this potentially romantic point, Hoshiyaar barges in, with an incoherent account of the infighting in the harem for which this was neither the time nor the place.


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Sandhya was pleased that Jalal scorches him with a sideways look for referring to Pinaaz Begum without the suffix, but I for one could not understand how Hoshiyaar had the gall to barge in on the Shahenshah and his sabse chaheti begum when they are tanha. It was the most colossal impertinence, and clearly he dares to do it because he knows that Ruqaiya will not mind. And it seems that Jalal did not mind it too much either, once Pinaaz was properly referred to as a Begum. This I found unsettling, for it is good neither for Ruqaiya, nor for Jalal, to allow such free and easy ways to be adopted towards him even by a khwaja sera.

Jalal on Ruqaiya: What he goes on to say seems calculated to boost Ruqaiya's already sizeable ego even further. That he had ignored all the other harem inmates clustering around him and had instead come to Ruqaiya jaan boojhkar, kyonki tum in sab se alag ho.. Ruqaiya's chin goes up and she smiles with evident pleasure.. Jalal continues with unconscious arrogance : Unka jism, unki khoobsoorti, humein khush to kar sakti hai, par humein samajh nahin sakti.. Ek tum hi ho jo humein bachpan se jaanti ho aur samajhti ho.. a crooked, mischievous smile twists his mouth.. hamari sabse chaheti begum...

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Ruqaiya looks pleased, but also conveys the impression that this is no more than her due!

Aur humein tum par aitbaar hai.. which is truly a compliment. But she hardly heeds it, focussing instead on offering him his favourite scent.

Now come a kind of rapid fire round that showcases Ruqaiya's resources of intelligence, quick-wittedness and sheer articulateness.

Jalal: Hamari har pasand ki khabar hai na tumhein?

Ruqaiya: Wo to hona hi hai.. Aap dost bhi ho, shauhar bhi, aur Shahenshah bhi.

Now Jalal's ever present desire - common to kings and millionaires 😉- to be cared for for himself alone surfaces. His eyes are lambent with both a question and hope: Par hum sab se zyada kya hain?

He has, however, reckoned without Ruqaiya's genius for verbal sleight of hand. She evades a direct answer thru as silken web of words: Dosti kam zyada ho hi nahin sakti. Rahi baat shauhar aur Shahenshah ki, so agar aap shauhar to hum aapki begum, aur agar aap Shahenshah to hum aapki praja ( presumably Ruqaiya knows Hindustani as well, for she should normally have said awaam) .

Jalal is stumped, but will not let go. So he makes another try: Hmm.. Aur tum kya banna chahti ho?

Which gives Ruqaiya her finest opening. Her proud little chin goes up,and her reply is one for the record books: Ek aisi ladki, jiske saamne dost apna dil, shauhar apna imaan, aur Shahenshah apna sar jhuka de!

NB: That this is a straight lift of what the sculptor Sangtarash says (of the plaster of Paris coated Anarkali) in Mughal-e-Azam: Tum ek aaisa buth ho ... jiske kadmo mein sipahi apni talwar, shahenshah apna taj, aur insaan apna dil nikaal ke rakh de, does not lessen any of its impact on us.

Disturbing signs : No wonder Jalal is floored! He says aloud: Subhanallah! His eyes are awash with sensual delight, and moving up to Ruqaiya, he is clearly about to kiss her when Bingo ! Up bobs Hoshiyaar again, bent over double, and this time he beckons to Ruqaiya, who actually leaves to settle a harem dispute! To make matters worse, Ruqaiya, probably feeling that the harem affair might take a while, kindly informs Jalal that they could deal with the unfinished Amer affair at night!

I was floored too, but by this casual attitude towards the Shahenshah-e-Hind displayed by mistress and servant alike. If not the first time, at least the second time Bairam Khan's shagird should have had Hoshiyaar whipped, if not sar kalamofied for his gross impertinence in intruding on the emperor's privacy.

To my great dismay, Jalal does not even react to the second barging in. The glance that he casts at Hoshiyaar would have frozen red hot lava, but he says nothing, not then, nor when Ruqaiya, in effect, dismisses the Shahenshah till the night.

No wonder that when night arrives, Jalal is left twiddling his thumbs for what looks like ages. For us the viewers, it helps that Rajat looks splendid in that new blue outfit, hand behind his back, sleek and loose-limbed. So we do not mind waiting even if he does! 😉

Ruqaiya clearly thinks nothing of keeping the Shahenshah waiting for her for ages, which is not surprising seeing that he does not do what any normal husband or boyfriend would have done, walked off. Jalal's excessive indulgence to those close to him was visible this early. Aazaar achche nazar nahin aate,,,

Crackling chemistry: When she does arrive at long last, what follows is a curious mix.

Of great familiarity, as when he chucks her under the chin and calls her by her childhood nickname,Gatti, which she clearly detests, for she grabs the front of his choga and says: Tum bahut bure ho! , whereupon he grins in delight : Ab yeh hai na hamari bachpan ki dost, hamari Ruqaiya!

Childish squabbles, rooted in the same deep familiarity with each other since childhood, over his not having taken off his jootis. In the end he deliberately rubs the soles of his jootis on the coverlet just to rile her, while she first exclaims in exasperation: Theek hi kehte hain, ki badshah, baaja aur bandar kabhi nahin sudharte..and then finally, Bachche ke bachche hi rahe! Mana karne ke bavazood bhi dekho kya kar diya!

Between her and Jalal, it is not really either check or checkmate, for as of now, they are both playing on the same side- Jalal's. I for one found it wonderful that someone like Jalal could relate so well to a woman, treating her as a confidante and an equal.

I am continually amazed at the degree of indulgence he has for her. Imagine an emperor being kept waiting by his begum, and then being scolded for wearing his joothis in bed and soiling her chadar! That was so much like a wife nagging her husband about leaving wet towels on the bed that I was in stitches. 😉

But there is no demonstrative tenderness between them, they are too used to sparring with each other, like siblings, so they have never seen the need for it. She does not, for example, take his head in her lap, caress his hair and his forehead, or hold him to her. That kind of touchy feely affection is not there. If it had, that would have been an additional bonding element. There seems to be no yearning to be with each other, no sort of passion, no deewangee. At least this seems right now to be there to some limited extent on his side; there is none on hers.

So when Ruqaiya says she is the Shahenshah's dil-o-jaan, she means his attention, his mind, his thoughts. She is probably not used to thinking of him in purely romantic terms, that is in any case tough to do with someone to whom you have given black eyes, pulled his hair, and kicked him in the legs as kids together. She must have been a spitfire then, all overt aggression, not subtle as it is now.

The commentator also says that Ruqaiya is Jalal ki mohabbat. Too much hair-splitting would be pointless here, but the fact is that he is very, very close to her, he trusts her judgement even on political matters (which means an awful lot with such a self-assured man who is also an emperor), plus she keeps him entertained and on his toes. That is a great way of holding a man, even such a powerful one.

To revert, underneath all of the childish nok jhok and the ease born of closeness since their childhood, there is a crackling, lambent, yet easy sensuality between them as she stretches out with her head on his arm, with no shyness or reserve. Who said that friends cannot be lovers as well?



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But not necessarily in love. However I must add that true romantic love, between two who are halves of a whole, is far rarer than it is made out to be, and also less important for the strength of a relationship than loyalty, affection, caring and trust. For one thing, contrary to popular fiction, it almost never lasts very long at the original level. What Ruqaiya has right now with Jalal is perhaps, in one sense, stronger than romantic love.

Ruqaiya's folly: However, even such a strong bond needs maintenance, and methinks she is far too careless about this aspect, and takes her imperial husband too much for granted. He might not react to this now, but one fine day, he will not only jib at it, but he will bolt. That day, the fascinating and self-assured Ruqaiya Sultan Begum will realise that when the sun disappears, darkness engulfs the world.

Marvellous jugalbandi: Rajat's Jalal and Smiley's Ruqaiya, in a series of scenes spread over all the three episodes, play off each other to perfection.

For me, the open sensuality in Jalal's eyes - what I would call bedroom eyes - came as a surprise, and a pleasant change from the cold menace that was the staple in the opening episodes. The sheer mischief and chutzpah so much in display during the Amer escapade popped up but rarely, but to replace it was a cat at a mouse hole look, when he is assessing how much to tell Ruqaiya about Amer, that would have done Rhett Butler proud.

Ruqaiya might be no great beauty, her voice might resember crackling sandpaper, and her dialogue delivery might be flat, but her assured, astute body language, her speaking eyes, and her intelligence make up for that.

Little wonder then, that their scenes together were a rare treat, to be savoured at leisure.

All in all, Smiley's Ruqaiya is the most fascinating woman I have seen on TV in a long, long time, and Ekta's initial writing team should be felicitated for having portrayed her as such an enigmatic, astute and intellectually superior individual. She is clearly an original, and she is an unfailing delight to watch.

Agra and the imperial harem: I felt that the whole purpose of the display of grandeur, the parade thru Agra, the women in the harem fighting for the Shahenshah's nazar-e-inaayat, is to show us where Jalal is coming from and what his real power and status are. The scenes in the Mughal camp at Shalpur, and in Amer, far were relatively simple and unostentatious, but this is the opposite.

The ambience was rich and colourful, whether on the streets of Agra or in the zenankhana. Ruqaiya's chamber was beautiful.

There was a sense of outrage in parts of this forum about what looked like hundreds of assorted females in the harem. It is uncalled for. It is not appropriate to import contemporary sensibilities into 16th century India. I am sure they would be just as shocked by same-sex marriages, or the divorce rates in, say, the US!

The fact is that not just emperors but maharajas as well had hundreds of women in their harems - wives, concubines and lesser mortals - and this till the 19th century. Most of these were political unions, others the result of a passing fancy. The king/emperor, who would be an infrequent visitor to the harem - being often out fighting a war, or surveying his domains - would probably not be able to recognize half of them, if not more!😉 The way Jalal deals with their importunities was funny and revealing.

Either way, there would be only a small number of senior queens, all of royal lineage, and here I suppose it would be three: Ruqaiya, Salima, and then Jodha. No one minded it, neither the princesses concerned, nor their families. It was the norm, that was all.

It is true that to see so many women have no other aim in life but to catch one man's passing attention is depressing, indeed sad, but this is true even today of the girlfriends or trophy wives of rich and powerful men. 😡

Jodha and Amer: I am passing over the whole of Mainavati's little plot and the unintended Jodha-Suryabhan night boat-ride, except to note that Jodha is no ice-maiden. It was not only their earlier tete a tete scene, the boatride too showed a Jodha ready to exchange all sorts of little hints to love with Suryabhan, right down to handholding.

This apart, I really liked Jodha's eager face and her enthusiasm when she dismisses her sisters-in-law's gloomy preparations for a jauhar, asserting instead Humein yahi sochna chahiye ki hamara vijay hoga..Aur hamari yahi soch hamare yoddhaon ke talwar ki dhaar banegi! And again when she wants to rush and convey the good news about the baby on the way to her elder brother.

NB:The funny thing was her saying that her parents would be so delighted at the prospect of having a pota! It seems to not even occur to her to consider the prospect of it being a poti!😉

Sheh par mat nahin: There were at least 2 separate instances where an ongoing power game between two protagonists was suspended at a point.

1) The one between Mahaam Anga and Bairam Khan. After the last round, which the lady won hands down, the stage has shifted from Rajasthan to Agra, and the two are busy keeping pace with the brisk Jalal, each jealously taking care not to be left behind the other. It should have done their cardiac condition some good! 😉

The Malika-e -Azam Hamida Banu Begum tries to get closer to her aloof, even cold son with an affectionate welcome and a bowl of sevaiyyaan. As Bairam Khan, the old khiladi, watches in dismay, Mahaam Anga steals a march on both Hamida Banu and the Khan Baba with her spiel of making herself the food taster, thus gaining Jalal's unstinting appreciation and affection. It is a very clever move, but her adversary has not been knocked out as yet . So check, but not yet checkmate.

It is to be noted that contrary to Bairam Khan's unfortunate tendency to overreach himself, Mahaam Anga is always very careful to pretend, quite ostentatiously, to stay within the role of Jalal's Daimaa. For example, before complying with Jalal's desire to drink the sevaiyyaan only from her hand, she looks across at Hamida Banu Begum for her assent. It is here that her superior tactics stand out, for Jalal would be convinced that she is being all that is proper, besides being apparently ready to die for him, and that is all that counts!

2)The one between Mahaam Anga and Hamida Banu Begum: This is going to end up like the fable of the hare and the tortoise, but the hare, obviously Mahaam Anga, is lengths ahead at this point of time. Nonetheless , Hamida Banu gets a quick rapier thrust in under Mahaam Anga's guard when, while assenting to her giving Jalal the sweet, she notes Agar main uski ma hoon to aap bhi to uski daimaa hain, thus neatly relegating Mahaam Anga to the status of a nursemaid! No lasting damage would have been caused to the target, but it must have provided some temporary satisfaction to the unhappy Hamida Banu. Again, check but not checkmate, not for a while yet.

I am sure you do not want to discuss that ugly scene between the Hindu-hating fanatic, Maham Anga, and that poor cowering cleaner woman wanting to retrieve her Kali Maa amulet. It was clearly meant to flesh out a further aspect of Maham's black heart and soul.

Ok, folks, this is it till Sunday next! Adios!!

Shyamala/Aunty/Akka/Di

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Wow!! No words.. It's just splendid Aunty. The very special scene which I like more that too of Ruqaiya is her entry and the mannerism she saw on that particular scene... Just awesome and you've penned it very well with fine description of every move of her. Loved it to the core and Jalal in Blue❤️ How can we forgot?😆
Thank you so much Aunty for this wonderful review!!!😳
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MASHALLAH AUNTY!!! WHAT A POST AND WHAT A BEFITTING TRIBUTE ( FOR WANT OF A BETTER WORD) TO SMILEY'S RUKAIAH


MY INTRODUCTION TO THIS RUKKAIAH WAS VERY LATE, ONLY WHEN YOU STARTED THE FAREWELL POSTS DID I SEE HER. AND I WAS AMAZED. YES, AS YOU RIGHTLY PUT IT, SHE WAS AN AWESOME LOSS TO THE SHOW


THE BEST THING I LIKE ABOUT HER IS HER SPONTANEITY. HER CHEMISTRY WITH JALAL WAS CRACKLING, HER ATTITUDE WITH A CAPITAL A, AS U SAY, WAS KILLER. SHE GAVE THE ROLE AND THE CHARACTER DIGNITY - SOMETHING THAT I SOMEHOW DID NOT FIND IN HER SUCCESSOR

I FULLY AGREE WHEN YOU SAY THAT SHE IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST ENIGMATIC LADIES SHOWN ON TV. SHE WAS VAIN, BUT NOT RUDE, SHE WAS A WOMAN WHO FULLY REALIZED HER IMPORTANCE, AND, TO AN EXTENT TOOK IT FOR GRANTED. WALLAH!!


WHAT CAN I SAY ABOUT HER SCENES WITH JALAL - 😳 YOU HAVE DONE FULL AND COMPLETE JUSTICE TO THEM. EVERY COMMENT THAT YOU HAVE MADE ABOUT RUKKAIAH IS BANG ON .

BUT SCENE THAT I LIKED MOST WAS THE ONE BETWEEN MAHAM AND HAMIDA. HAVING NOTICED HAMIDA WAITING THERE EVEN BEFORE JALAL HAD REACHED HER, MAHAM HAD MADE A MENTAL NOTE TO HERSELF THAT SEVVAIYAAN KHILANA WAS THE PREROGATIVE OF A MOTHER, AND HENCE, SHE WAS ALMOST A WOMAN ON A MISSION WHEN SHE SET OUT TO DO THE NEEDFUL

IF ONLY THE LADY PLAYING HAMIDA WAS HALF A GOOD PERFORMER AS ASHWINI WAS, WHAT A SCENE IT COULD HAVE BEEN. BUT ALAS, HAMIDA TOO BELONGS TO THE MONO EXPRESSIONS GANG.

BUT TO GIVE HER CREDIT, I THINK THIS SCENE HAS BEEN ONE OF HER BEST. SHE ALMOST GAVE INTO TEARS, AND YET MAINTAINED HER DIGNITY. AND IN THESE INITIAL SCENES SHE EVEN LOOKED PRETTIER

MAY BE THIS IS A WRONG TIME TO BROACH THIS TOPIC, BUT HAVING OBSERVED JALAL FOR THE BETTER PART OF THE TWO YEARS THAT HE LIT UP OUR SCREENS, I NOTICED, MUCH MORE OFTEN THAN I WOULD HAVE LIKED, THAT HE RARELY CAME BETWEEN TWO WARRING LADIES - EVEN WHEN IT WAS BLATANTLY CLEAR TO ALL OF US THAT IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER IF HE HAD.😆 CANT REALLY BLAME HIM, WITH A HAREM OF 5000 WOMEN. BUT...

I DO AGREE THAT THIS WAS A TIME WHEN HE ALMOST LOATHED HAMIDA AND LOVED MAHAM, AND THATS WHY HE WENT OUT OF THE WAY TO BE NICE TO MAHAM. BUT THERE ARE SEVERAL EXAMPLES OF HIS APPARENT LACK OF INTEREST IN SORTING ISSUES. SURPRISING, CONSIDERING THAT AFTER THE INITIAL EPISODES, HE SPENT BETTER PART OF HIS TIME IN THE HAREM 😆
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The post is as charming as Smiley's Ruqaiya was.👏

I started watching from episode 31. So i saw all the initial episodes at a stretch. The impact Smiley's Ruqaiya left on me was so much that i didn't want Jodha to come into Jalal's life at all initially and had a soft corner for Ruqaiya's character throughout inspite of Ruqaiya 2's screeches and saazishes. If you had were as close to someone since childhood and some mahaan came and whisked him away anything is warrented.😆 Afterall, everything is fair in love and war.


But the thing is that Ruqaiya wanted Mohabbat from Jalal too, but didn't express it so as not to offend his dil-less attitude. But she craved for it as was evident in Smiley's last episode. And couldn't stand Jodha receiving what she always wanted and was denied by Jalal. But she ought to have realised that what she had was more special.


As you rightly said their relationship was stronger than romantic attachment . Even as Jodha began to gain entry into Jalal's close circle, Ruqaiya asks him if Jo will take her place to which Jalal replies that nobody can take her place. If only she had trusted him there. Their friendship and trust was even more precious.


Ruqaiya is not pretensious like MA. Even today she is angry with Jalal for scolding her in public and shows her anger by walking out of the hamam khana after catering to his little needs, but when he apologizes for his anger she immediately cuts him and apologizes back for having undemined the seriousness of the situation. That was excellent understanding from both sides ( unlike the Mathura track where truck loads of muaafies were kicked out and there was so much fuss over the 'katu vachan' spoken though Jalal's faults were minimal there and the midnight adventures were brushed under the carpet 😡😡)

The Ruqaiya 2 looked better, even pretty but lacked the queenliness that this one did. The real Ruqaiya was no beauty. So Smiley was so well suited. She was all attitude and assurance, yet there was a genuine affection for Jalal that was visible under all her attitudes.

Lavina had NO self-assurance at all. She looked like having a bp of 200/100 throughout. Smiley never raised her voice but her attitude was sufficient. It achieved what Lavina's screeches could not. The character of Ruqaiya too was diluted later on and the lines lacked the charisma of those in the initial episodes...as you said, Gulzaars were replaced by Taporis...😆...So Smiley had a definite advantage.

The second huge advantage Smiley had was that she was paired with Jalal AT HIS BEST. Could we say that she shone because of him? But she was able to hold her own even inspite of him being at his best. That is no simple thing.

But even with Lavina as with Smiley, Jalal was at his comfortable best. A warmth, a fondness, a closeness was always palpable.

The wiping the joothies on the chadar and the joy in Jalal's eyes as he troubled her was so charming...the complete opposite of what he was with BK after Zaheer. The childishness that he could display only with his childhood friend.

He wanted the change. Hence the visit to Agra before further wars. Ruqaiya offered him a home-coming feeling. He could play with her. He could be enthused by her intelligence ( that pineapple begum and the like were completely devoid of) but above all he could trust her. She was one of his strong pillars. But unfortunately, like the other two, she wanted to be the strongest.

It is here that the smartest slip. It is a good thing to be interested in your lessons and excel in your studies. But when your aim becomes topping the class, the focus shifts and the excellence is diminished. Even though the ranking system does matter, using your intelligence just to stay on the top is never enough. The focus should always be pursuit of excellence. The ranking automatically falls in place. And there is a fulfilment and satisfaction too.

Ruqaiya's emptiness and insecurities stem from her shifted focus. Not that she loved Jalal less, but that she loved what Jalal could give her more. If she had to make a hard choice she would have chosen Jalal for sure, but she never learnt to draw the line between the two. Her choice to settle harem squabbles and making Jalal wait might be her method of looking interesting and important. But it needs empathy to sustain any relationship. She probably felt that she would sound less interesting if she were trying to reach out to her Ultra-powerful Emperor husband. But Emperor or not he was a husband who needed pampering, a shoulder to rest on and moments of peaceful togetherness. Had Ruqaiya extended that too, she would have been irreplaceable in his life.


Edited by Sandhya.A - 9 years ago
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Refreshed after having watched a truly Rajatalicious episode today, I am ready to do battle, and unfortunately this time against you.

There is an uncontestable chemistry between Rajat and Smiley, but that is about it. I am not able to decide if this chemistry is because Rajat is so spectacular, in other words is it a two way thing, or are we blinded by Rajat's brilliance. A notable feature of a good actor is, that you cannot tell their local dialect. Look at Rajat and Ashwini, look how they are able to master dialogue delivery to such an extant.

Not so with Smiley, straightaway I am able to tell that this girl is Punjabi. That Punjabiyat seeps through in every word she utters. It is too obvious and thus too irritating.

Another thing, a good actor sinks into the character that, he/she is playing, so much so that you would not know, where Rajat ends and Akbar starts. Not so with Smiley, I can tell she is acting, she makes a valiant effort but unfortunately not good enough.

Want proof, look closely at that scene where she goes to Maham after the court debacle. The conversation was fine, but with the same issues mentioned above, but that is not the unsettling thing. Look at the way she looks back as she walks away, it is too stiff and amateurish, as if she knows she is acting and that knowledge is transmitting to the audience.

I will come back later with more observations on your post, which of course is as stimulating to read as always, please bear with me.
Edited by Donjas - 9 years ago
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Akka will read it after work but this post on smiley's ruk will be most interesting as after this we lost this enigma to lavina who was cold and sharp but not graceful like smiley and the chemistry was more cracking here as well...! See ya later!
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Thanks for another wonderful post.

My Thoughts:

MahamAnga-Hamida Banu-Jalal: Hamida Banu's predicament is very sad. She just
has to swallow all the subtle insults and put downs by MA gracefully without
giving back to her in fear of antagonizing Jalal even further. Jalal is still resentful
towards HB and cannot see beyond it. If MA had true maternal feelings towards
Jalal she would have tried to heal the breach.

Jalal-Rukaiyya: They share a beautiful relationship full of comfort, respect and love. The
camaraderie between the two is that of best buddies. Of course it is pretty
obvious that they have a good physical relationship as well.

But like you said, something is amiss. That is very obvious. In spite of being so close there is a strange kind of distance/formality between them. Of course this does not make the
relationship any less special.

Rukaiyya: She is the undisputed Queen Bee of the harem. Jalal gives her precedence over
all the others in every way. In spite of this I feel that underneath the cool,
calm, confident veneer is a very insecure woman. Yes even at this stage of the
game where she is the unquestioned, unchallenged Emperor's favorite on whom he
bestows all the respect, importance and love.Why else would she say to Jalal that in the harem ki siyaasat she has to make sure that all the other begums know that she is the most chahithi?

Even after the court incident when she comes to the hammam, by her own admission she is there mainly to show the other begums that things are cool between her and Jalal. Why these ostentatious displays of supremacy over others? She is more concerned about how their relationship appears to others than the actual relationship itself.

Jalal's(defective}Trio: His whole and soul depends on these three but I feel for them he is a means to
an end one way or another, big or small.

Bairam Khan: To me he is the most benign of the three. What you see is what you
get. He does not want to let go of his power but he is upfront about it. No games here.

Rukaiyya: She loves Jalal, no question about it but she also loves what Jalal can get for her and that is power. Unbeknownst to him she has this little power tug of war going on with MA to gain an upper hand.

MahamAnga:She is by far the most dangerous. This Grande dame is the personification of deception and viciousness. She not only wants to be the most important in Jalal's life but wants to isolate him from everyone else. She has already pretty much vanquished Hamida Banu and is now in a war with BK on one side and Rukaiyya on the other.

All I can say is poor Jalal. I feel at this point HB is the only one who loves him for himself.

Devki



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