RUQ jalal - Page 2

Originally posted by: AKT.JA

Remember when Jalal told Todarmal in Mathura: The surprise is that I have brought all this pain upon myself!

Sometimes I feel that way about Jodha. So many times she does things that end up resulting in pain to her.

Kudos to Jalal for his self-awareness. Jodha is yet to reach that level. She is often perplexed, asking Kanha: Why do I get this?, Why have you done this? Etc. This is not accompanied by any honest self-reflection, then or later, and only sound like hollow complaints.

Of course, goes without saying, MA was and Ruq still is a complete witch. But that's not the point, at least of this post.

We cannot always change others. But we can always change how we deal with them. I hope that will be one lesson both Ja + Jo take out of this phase of their life.

Originally posted by: myviewprem

If you read tranascational analysis

all humans transactions are three type parent, adult and child

Ruqaiah never wants a adult to adult transaction always parent-child or adult-child

She is always acting like parent bossy or like child demanding

Jalal was a parent dominating and ordering one initially then became child demanding and emotional with jodha but usually he is in adult state

Jodha was always a parent stage lecturing type in amer too but with ruqaiah around she becomes adult

When jalal is around she is parent but usually becomes a child wanting attention and caring

Originally posted by: AKT.JA

Remember when Jalal told Todarmal in Mathura: The surprise is that I have brought all this pain upon myself!

Sometimes I feel that way about Jodha. So often she does things that end up causing pain to her. If not greater harm, as in the case of Hussein.

Kudos to Jalal for his self-awareness. Jodha is yet to reach that level. She is often perplexed, asking Kanha: Why do I get this?, Why have you done this? Etc. Such questions are not accompanied by any honest self-reflection, then or later, and only sound like hollow complaints.

Of course, goes without saying, MA always was and Ruq still is a complete witch. But that's not the point, at least of this post.

We cannot always change others. But we can always change how we deal with them. I hope that will be one lesson both Ja + Jo take out of this phase of their life.

Originally posted by: meenakaliswaran

thanks charu

but jalal have to stop her to be rude with jodha as a wife to him all must get the same respect in Atifa time whem ruk was shouting at her jalal came running and scold her why not in jodha he should have to take his stand to stop this non sense of ruk

Originally posted by: meenakaliswaran

Jodha Akbar

from the first v where shown jo is insulted by ruq

do u remember in Ben track when jo came to put medicine ruq insult her in front of ja and told her get out jo saw ja with tear in eyes and left the place. she was continuously doing this from the first episode she met her. by giving her that old neck-less and in the fake pregnant track she told her that her legs r paining so will u maalis for her and jo did it now she took her kid like she is a maid for her not a queen of jalal what a pretty jalal is tell that he love her the most but he hurts her the most why because he love he can do what ever he can in his time more wife is not wrong but when one wife is with his husband others can n't enter the room. but here jo is only woman following this rule not salima ya ruq follows this.

this is my first topic i wrote i have lots of doubt in my mind

do any one have ans for my doubt right here and share ur thought with me that i can clear my doubt also

life is once so live it with lovely family

Originally posted by: MaddyO

Hi Meenakali welcome to JA forum. 😃
Nice post.

Ruk does not treat anybody well, she even treats Jalal ok when she wants something from him, otherwise she is always bossing him around. Ruk has always plotted against Jodha while Jodha has always treated her with respect.

It is high time for Jalal to tell Ruk she has to change her behavior and treat Jodha with respect and also show some gratitude. Ruk is totally ehsan farmosh and selfish to the core.
Ruk should treat every woman in haram with respect.

Ruk nowadays does not even bother with manners and etiquette. I hope we see her real downfall and she is out of Jodha and Jalal's life for good.