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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jodha Akbar
from the first v where shown jo is insulted by ruq
do u remember in Ben track when jo came to put medicine ruq insult her in front of ja and told her get out jo saw ja with tear in eyes and left the place. she was continuously doing this from the first episode she met her. by giving her that old neck-less and in the fake pregnant track she told her that her legs r paining so will u maalis for her and jo did it now she took her kid like she is a maid for her not a queen of jalal what a pretty jalal is tell that he love her the most but he hurts her the most why because he love he can do what ever he can in his time more wife is not wrong but when one wife is with his husband others can n't enter the room. but here jo is only woman following this rule not salima ya ruq follows this.
this is my first topic i wrote i have lots of doubt in my mind
do any one have ans for my doubt right here and share ur thought with me that i can clear my doubt also
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Compared to Ruks, Jodha has suffered a lot and agree Ruks is pampered a lot too. Jodha has everyone's respect, trust and most of all she has Jalal's love and heart. Jalal does not Love Ruks, he tolerates her and is trying his best to adjust. Where as with Jodha he can be what he is as he considers her as one of his own. .

This said I am not saying what ever is happening is fair with Jodha. Knowing Jodha she does not expect anything from anyone, all she needs is her husband's love and her babies welfare. She is content with this. Jodha can adjust to any circumstances where as Ruks cannot.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SindhuMenon

Compared to Ruks, Jodha has suffered a lot and agree Ruks is pampered a lot too. Jodha has everyone's respect, trust and most of all she has Jalal's love and heart. Jalal does not Love Ruks, he tolerates her and is trying his best to adjust. Where as with Jodha he can be what he is as he considers her as one of his own. .

This said I am not saying what ever is happening is fair with Jodha. Knowing Jodha she does not expect anything from anyone, all she needs is her husband's love and her babies welfare. She is content with this. Jodha can adjust to any circumstances where as Ruks cannot.

but a human begin she also need her husbands care as ruq get all the time from jalal why not jodha. HB all this time she didn't support to jodha y? as a mother she tell her very time that jodha is not only her daughter in-law she is also a daughter of her where is her love to a daughter?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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right now they are bound by that farman
jodha does not have any right on her child
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hopefully soon ruq will be exposed
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SindhuMenon

Compared to Ruks, Jodha has suffered a lot and agree Ruks is pampered a lot too. Jodha has everyone's respect, trust and most of all she has Jalal's love and heart. Jalal does not Love Ruks, he tolerates her and is trying his best to adjust. Where as with Jodha he can be what he is as he considers her as one of his own. .

This said I am not saying what ever is happening is fair with Jodha. Knowing Jodha she does not expect anything from anyone, all she needs is her husband's love and her babies welfare. She is content with this. Jodha can adjust to any circumstances where as Ruks cannot.


Simply and beautifully said Sindhu .

Ruks is a spoilt, egoistic , arrogant , selfish, brat and will never change . You are right . Jalal is putting up with her only because she is his wife and responsibility . Jodha is mature,calm,understanding , selfless and polite towards everyone. She is the only person from whose company Jalal derives not only love but inner peace also .

Charu .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JAfanCharu


Simply and beautifully said Sindhu .

Ruks is a spoilt, egoistic , arrogant , selfish, brat and will never change . You are right . Jalal is putting up with her only because she is his wife and responsibility . Jodha is mature,calm,understanding , selfless and polite towards everyone. She is the only person from whose company Jalal derives not only love but inner peace also .

Charu .



awesome Charu...Love it
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenakaliswaran

Jodha Akbar

from the first v where shown jo is insulted by ruq
do u remember in Ben track when jo came to put medicine ruq insult her in front of ja and told her get out jo saw ja with tear in eyes and left the place. she was continuously doing this from the first episode she met her. by giving her that old neck-less and in the fake pregnant track she told her that her legs r paining so will u maalis for her and jo did it now she took her kid like she is a maid for her not a queen of jalal what a pretty jalal is tell that he love her the most but he hurts her the most why because he love he can do what ever he can in his time more wife is not wrong but when one wife is with his husband others can n't enter the room. but here jo is only woman following this rule not salima ya ruq follows this.
this is my first topic i wrote i have lots of doubt in my mind
do any one have ans for my doubt right here and share ur thought with me that i can clear my doubt also
life is once so live it with lovely family


Nice thoughts Meena .
Yes , you are right . Being high handed is Rukaiyya's personality . She is like that with everyone . She is very jealous of Jodha .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Remember when Jalal told Todarmal in Mathura: The surprise is that I have brought all this pain upon myself!

Sometimes I feel that way about Jodha. So often she does things that end up causing pain to her. If not greater harm, as in the case of Hussein.

Kudos to Jalal for his self-awareness. Jodha is yet to reach that level. She is often perplexed, asking Kanha: Why do I get this?, Why have you done this? Etc. Such questions are not accompanied by any honest self-reflection, then or later, and only sound like hollow complaints.

Of course, goes without saying, MA always was and Ruq still is a complete witch. But that's not the point, at least of this post.

We cannot always change others. But we can always change how we deal with them. I hope that will be one lesson both Ja + Jo take out of this phase of their life.

Edited by AKT.JA - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JAfanCharu


Nice thoughts Meena .
Yes , you are right . Being high handed is Rukaiyya's personality . She is like that with everyone . She is very jealous of Jodha .

thanks charu
but jalal have to stop her to be rude with jodha as a wife to him all must get the same respect in Atifa time whem ruk was shouting at her jalal came running and scold her why not in jodha he should have to take his stand to stop this non sense of ruk

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