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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: MaddyO




Piya - fantastic post 👏 Lines in bold BANG ON!

It is just boggling that PS gets blamed for everything but never given credit!!!
What is PS or RT fault if the dialogues make them ask aap yaha? Certainly the do not write the dialogues!

Paridhi was absolutely wonderful in Friday's episode. It had love, tenderness, affection, passion, connection and intimacy. Nobody could have counted the inches between them! 😉😆
So no praise but discussion were about how Jalal was again weak!

I ADORE Paridhi as Jodha and watch JA for HER. For me it is always JodhaAkbar NEVER Akbar the great.

TRPs are proof enough. Week before last they rose cos viewers finally got that horrible Atifa track closure where it was clear the Jalal ONLY loves Jodha.

Last week was fabulous episodes full historical background and Jalal centric only. I expected the TRPs to jump from week before! They did NOT! This shows viewers want to watch EPIC LOVE STORY of JodhaAkbar the HUMAN story that was promised to us.

If anybody expects to watch something else then I guess Ekta is not answerable cos day 1 SHE MADE IT CLEAR WHAT SHE IS MAKING - EPIC LOVE STORY HUMAN SIDE of JodhaAkbar.

"I always feel that times can change, years can pass, but human nature stays the same. So, though history gives you the dates and facts, it does not say what that person went through emotionally. Nobody will write about our insecurity or realizations after 1,500 years even if they write about our achievements. This is what we will give to our characters in the show- the human emotions," Ekta observes.


The channel & the producers cleared this before the show started that They will largely focus on the human emotions of this royal couple. They never said they will show AKBAR THE GR8 on zee at 8 pm . 😆 still people hv doubt

@PINK- aaabb kyaaa boluunnn 😉 😆



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Posted: 11 years ago
This is in reference to Abhay's post which I am unable to quote due to technical issues. Well said Abhay. I have not watched the episodes. But this time, I like Jodha's maturity and Jalal's action. Instead of hiding and hiding, she has told him straightaway. Simultaneously, Jalal is expanding his Empire. A nice mix. BB. I am not commenting.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: history_geek


Hi All,

My Short Take on JJ in particular, and BB also LATER, in my second comment.!.

I have not read anything else other than this thread, and it seems i did the right after reading the chain of comments...😉

B'coz , I did not find ANY Bhaashans...Instead i was quite satisfied to see the "calculated" approach, which the CV's Followed...Jodha was JUST RIGHT and did not cross any Line...Jalal was behaving like an Emperor and a HURT Brother...

Also, i would say that the NORMAL Audience, do not worry about "Frame" aspect. I, for one, did not notice that, there was anything like that(if it was). I found the Episode, nice enough. 😊

As i have been writing since my 15th August Post ,🥱 and written in all my Historical Posts also, that the Show needs to show Jodha as Jalal's Emotional Strength.. Finally, we are getting this. 😃

Afterall, now the CV's are showing it in a Balanced Way , as i said before on Page-1 of this thread , that >> It contains an EQUAL PARTNERSHIP of the Wise thinking of an Empire expanding Emperor ABLY supported with a maturely thinking Empress.!.

An aisa to hai nahi ki CV's will show Jodha ruling the Empire.. They are assigning the Work of an Emperor to Akbar and that of an Empress(MUZ in making) to Jodha...This, in my thinking is their method of showing Jodha-Akbar centric TRACKS..


For NO Matter What, How Strong You are , How ResourceFul You Are, You can NOT manage ALL thingS Single Handedly . This is what we all WANTED , a show where BOTH J-J play on an "
Equal Footing(US States Doctrine😉)". < Hope i made this clear.😉 It means , that NO Authority will exceed it's jurisdiction. Similarly, Jalal and Jodha are have their "spheres of influence(credit for this term-Chinese Imperialism)😉".

The CV's are trying to Weave the Tracks to Show Jalal on an Empire expanding spree, while the Royal Ladies handling the other core issues of the Harem, and TOGETHER J-J handling these Scoial Issues. I think that after this track of BB, Jalal can announce some reform for a Girl Child(like share in property.?).


Who says an Emperor does not needs an Emotional support.. Even the HARDCORE IMPERIALIST and expansionist Napoleon wrote this in a letter he sent to his brother, here he talks about Josephine(his wife), and PLEADED her to join him on his Italian Campaign, a he was feeling very Lonely..!.>>>

"I must see her and press her to my heart. I love her to the point of madness, and I cannot continue to be separated from her. If she no longer loved me, I would have nothing left to do on earth."

^^^^Before reading this i had a VERY different opinion about him, but this letter made me search more on his personal life...It's interesting..😉..Anyways, coming back to our SHOW now...😃

I have noticed that the Personal Life of any Emperor/King/Monarch, has many shades, and is actually very interesting...I can read about the Wars and Reforms and many things from the biographies, but his personal Life study demands digging something after going a step forward...That is entirely a different process...

There is NOTHING called Ruling ALONE
...An Emperor rules with the help of many agencies..Some suport him actively, and some support him passively...I was Glad to see Man Singh and TodarMal on Thurday, And, i am hoping for Jodha's elevation as an Empress..Already, Monday's Precap shows, Jalal saying that - She deserves to be MUZ..!..

No doubt we all want a Good and Strongly Commanding Akbar.. But, the Show can NOT run only by one thing, that is to focus and make tracks Akbar oriented. Atleast, till now, NO TRACK is Akbar oriented, as they show Jodha on Equal footing on an Emotional Wavelength.

I think CV's are trying to show us NEITHER Akbar oreinted tracks, nor Jodha Oriented tracks, BUT Jodha-Akbar oriented tracks..
And, that is why the CV's have brought Sharif's track in 2 ways ---->>

1. They will show some reform on the Girl Child. { Courtesy - Partnership of Jodha/Salima, etc.}
2. And, then they will show Sharif's Revolt { And, Jalal will fight him, then..}

^^To ho gaya na, Jodha-Akbar Oriented.😉


I don't know about anyone, but i signed in for Jodha-Akbar, not for Akbar ONLY or Jodha ONLY... 😃
And, as far as my marketing knowledge tells me, before launching(or even starting) a serial, many standard processes are followed by the Channel/PH, viz. Sensitivity Analysis, etc. techiques, to check will it be profitable and business friendly to launch so and so soap... Ekta, being a clever business woman knows what she is DOING.




Coming to BB's Case::


I will NOT give my judgement, as i have already read many contrasting views here and all arguments are nice enough. 👍🏼 Many of us have mentioned BB's case to be that of a domestic abuse/violence...I have only one thing, that BB's Condition still resembles the dark reality of our society which we call MODERN..

I want to mention a "real case", of which i know the details..The incident is from Delhi, which we call a Metropolitan. The Case of this higher middle class educated girl is similar to BB. She delivered a boy and then a girl. But her husband was keen on having a boy ONLY(despite having a son already). She was a victim of worst form of domestic abuse, and finally went into "abode of God after enormous sufferings". The Case is still pending in the Delhi HC. An startling observation in this case was that, the girl even on her death bed, did NOT want her parents to pursue the case against her husband, for she said she LOVED him.!!!!.😕.!!!!.. *Full Stop*

What i want to emphasize in this case is that, this track of BB brought back those memories alive, that still we have such cases,...And, even after a lot of assessment of that case, i could not understand the case completely...In BB's case, i want her to be a bit strong..As there are times, when one needs to hit back and fight. You need not be a victim always. Especially, in case of BB when you have a Strong Brother who Loves you to an extent that he can bring heavens on Earth for you...

My Stand is that >> " Our opinions are based on the experiences, we have in our lives. Many of may have high degree of patience to some acts, but some of us may not have the same degree of resilience to the same act. A strong reason can be that, some of us MIGHT have experienced those "acts" in reality, hence we do NOT approve of it.. I for one, strongly condemn this act, for i have seen such victims. And, the very portrayal of that SAME act on the Screen brings back those sad memories alive..."

I have one request from the CV's that, since they are showing this track in today's time --

1. Already, they have given a strong message in form of showing that Girl Child is not a Burden..
2. Jalal did punish Sharif (though, i don't want to discuss the method of punishment.)
3. One thing, i would like them to show is that, BB should realize that Sharif does not deserves her Devotion.!!.There is no need to suffer so much...I do not understand what Kind of Devotion it is when Sharif openly stares Jodha infront of BB.!!!..

@ALL...
I may not be able to join regularly, but i keep reading these discussions and your takes...
Carry on...!!!..😊


you know Abhay, I personally having no problem with the show currently...I am loving everything...for me the two persons r most important r Jalal and Jodha...if these two r together and happy then I dont care anything...and currently whatever the track is, my JJ r together and fighting together to remove a social enemy, mujhe aur kya chahiye?
I watch this show for these two...I only get annoyed when there is a MU track...I dont believe any Jalal centric or Jodha centric track...it was always JJ centric track..CVs at least maintained that balance which I believe many may not agree...Jalal is a human, if Jodha helps him to see some truth and guides him choosing path, what is wrong there? he is the Shehenshah has thousands of works..he may not be able to look into every matter happening around him...its nothing wrong if someone helps him learning some crucial facts of inside palace...and Jodha too said it is only him who did all the reforms and emerged as great.

coming to BB, I felt like slapping her the moment she came to Sharif's rescue!🥱 I liked Jodha's maturity...she didnt hide rather acted smart..I loved what Jalal did to Sharif...I am impressed with his punishment idea...⭐️ I had fun seeing Sharif getting beaten with jootiya😆 BB will learn the hard way...she will reach to a point when she herself will order to kill Sharifu.
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Why to blame shariffudin for his gender bias when it is so evident in today's world and more so on this forum full of highly educated people ...every day posts are made to applaud everything done by male lead and to criticize each and every action of female lead...and the story repeats in almost every forum...what a pity
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: history_geek


Hi All,

My Short Take on JJ in particular, and BB also LATER, in my second comment.!.

I have not read anything else other than this thread, and it seems i did the right after reading the chain of comments...😉

B'coz , I did not find ANY Bhaashans...Instead i was quite satisfied to see the "calculated" approach, which the CV's Followed...Jodha was JUST RIGHT and did not cross any Line...Jalal was behaving like an Emperor and a HURT Brother...

Also, i would say that the NORMAL Audience, do not worry about "Frame" aspect. I, for one, did not notice that, there was anything like that(if it was). I found the Episode, nice enough. 😊

As i have been writing since my 15th August Post ,🥱 and written in all my Historical Posts also, that the Show needs to show Jodha as Jalal's Emotional Strength.. Finally, we are getting this. 😃

Afterall, now the CV's are showing it in a Balanced Way , as i said before on Page-1 of this thread , that >> It contains an EQUAL PARTNERSHIP of the Wise thinking of an Empire expanding Emperor ABLY supported with a maturely thinking Empress.!.

An aisa to hai nahi ki CV's will show Jodha ruling the Empire.. They are assigning the Work of an Emperor to Akbar and that of an Empress(MUZ in making) to Jodha...This, in my thinking is their method of showing Jodha-Akbar centric TRACKS..


For NO Matter What, How Strong You are , How ResourceFul You Are, You can NOT manage ALL thingS Single Handedly . This is what we all WANTED , a show where BOTH J-J play on an "
Equal Footing(US States Doctrine😉)". < Hope i made this clear.😉 It means , that NO Authority will exceed it's jurisdiction. Similarly, Jalal and Jodha are have their "spheres of influence(credit for this term-Chinese Imperialism)😉".

The CV's are trying to Weave the Tracks to Show Jalal on an Empire expanding spree, while the Royal Ladies handling the other core issues of the Harem, and TOGETHER J-J handling these Scoial Issues. I think that after this track of BB, Jalal can announce some reform for a Girl Child(like share in property.?).


Who says an Emperor does not needs an Emotional support.. Even the HARDCORE IMPERIALIST and expansionist Napoleon wrote this in a letter he sent to his brother, here he talks about Josephine(his wife), and PLEADED her to join him on his Italian Campaign, a he was feeling very Lonely..!.>>>

"I must see her and press her to my heart. I love her to the point of madness, and I cannot continue to be separated from her. If she no longer loved me, I would have nothing left to do on earth."

^^^^Before reading this i had a VERY different opinion about him, but this letter made me search more on his personal life...It's interesting..😉..Anyways, coming back to our SHOW now...😃

I have noticed that the Personal Life of any Emperor/King/Monarch, has many shades, and is actually very interesting...I can read about the Wars and Reforms and many things from the biographies, but his personal Life study demands digging something after going a step forward...That is entirely a different process...

There is NOTHING called Ruling ALONE
...An Emperor rules with the help of many agencies..Some suport him actively, and some support him passively...I was Glad to see Man Singh and TodarMal on Thurday, And, i am hoping for Jodha's elevation as an Empress..Already, Monday's Precap shows, Jalal saying that - She deserves to be MUZ..!..

No doubt we all want a Good and Strongly Commanding Akbar.. But, the Show can NOT run only by one thing, that is to focus and make tracks Akbar oriented. Atleast, till now, NO TRACK is Akbar oriented, as they show Jodha on Equal footing on an Emotional Wavelength.

I think CV's are trying to show us NEITHER Akbar oreinted tracks, nor Jodha Oriented tracks, BUT Jodha-Akbar oriented tracks..
And, that is why the CV's have brought Sharif's track in 2 ways ---->>

1. They will show some reform on the Girl Child. { Courtesy - Partnership of Jodha/Salima, etc.}
2. And, then they will show Sharif's Revolt { And, Jalal will fight him, then..}

^^To ho gaya na, Jodha-Akbar Oriented.😉


I don't know about anyone, but i signed in for Jodha-Akbar, not for Akbar ONLY or Jodha ONLY... 😃
And, as far as my marketing knowledge tells me, before launching(or even starting) a serial, many standard processes are followed by the Channel/PH, viz. Sensitivity Analysis, etc. techiques, to check will it be profitable and business friendly to launch so and so soap... Ekta, being a clever business woman knows what she is DOING.




Coming to BB's Case::


I will NOT give my judgement, as i have already read many contrasting views here and all arguments are nice enough. 👍🏼 Many of us have mentioned BB's case to be that of a domestic abuse/violence...I have only one thing, that BB's Condition still resembles the dark reality of our society which we call MODERN..

I want to mention a "real case", of which i know the details..The incident is from Delhi, which we call a Metropolitan. The Case of this higher middle class educated girl is similar to BB. She delivered a boy and then a girl. But her husband was keen on having a boy ONLY(despite having a son already). She was a victim of worst form of domestic abuse, and finally went into "abode of God after enormous sufferings". The Case is still pending in the Delhi HC. An startling observation in this case was that, the girl even on her death bed, did NOT want her parents to pursue the case against her husband, for she said she LOVED him.!!!!.😕.!!!!.. *Full Stop*

What i want to emphasize in this case is that, this track of BB brought back those memories alive, that still we have such cases,...And, even after a lot of assessment of that case, i could not understand the case completely...In BB's case, i want her to be a bit strong..As there are times, when one needs to hit back and fight. You need not be a victim always. Especially, in case of BB when you have a Strong Brother who Loves you to an extent that he can bring heavens on Earth for you...

My Stand is that >> " Our opinions are based on the experiences, we have in our lives. Many of may have high degree of patience to some acts, but some of us may not have the same degree of resilience to the same act. A strong reason can be that, some of us MIGHT have experienced those "acts" in reality, hence we do NOT approve of it.. I for one, strongly condemn this act, for i have seen such victims. And, the very portrayal of that SAME act on the Screen brings back those sad memories alive..."

I have one request from the CV's that, since they are showing this track in today's time --

1. Already, they have given a strong message in form of showing that Girl Child is not a Burden..
2. Jalal did punish Sharif (though, i don't want to discuss the method of punishment.)
3. One thing, i would like them to show is that, BB should realize that Sharif does not deserves her Devotion.!!.There is no need to suffer so much...I do not understand what Kind of Devotion it is when Sharif openly stares Jodha infront of BB.!!!..

@ALL...
I may not be able to join regularly, but i keep reading these discussions and your takes...
Carry on...!!!..😊




Abhay wonderful post. 👏
How rare and cherished those relationships must be to a man who has to watch even his own relatives with suspicion. Who has to accept that attacks on his life will be routine, are part of his Badshahat.

Jodha is the rare person who loves Jalal and her relationship is with Jalal, that he is a Shehenshah is something he does and she will want him to excel and support every way she can. If he was doing something else Jodha would support him in that. She will stand between him and danger everytime.

I would love to see Jalal now teach some of his ways to Jodha - especially her blindly believing the best in people is something she should learn to control.

About BB if she does not want to help herself even Jalal cannot do much!

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: 111192

Why to blame shariffudin for his gender bias when it is so evident in today's world and more so on this forum full of highly educated people ...every day posts are made to applaud everything done by male lead and to criticize each and every action of female lead...and the story repeats in almost every forum...what a pity




Renu 👏👏👏
The female lead has to behave in "16th century set standards of a certain few" and she is criticized for almost every action of her.
How ridiculous to tag all women by century standards - are ALL women in 21st Century the same?
Real Akbar would have been bored of yes women throwing themselves at him.
He was far more liberal in 16th century than some are in 21st!


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Hi All,

My Short Take on JJ in particular, and BB also LATER, in my second comment.!.

I have not read anything else other than this thread, and it seems i did the right after reading the chain of comments...😉

B'coz , I did not find ANY Bhaashans...Instead i was quite satisfied to see the "calculated" approach, which the CV's Followed...Jodha was JUST RIGHT and did not cross any Line...Jalal was behaving like an Emperor and a HURT Brother...

Also, i would say that the NORMAL Audience, do not worry about "Frame" aspect. I, for one, did not notice that, there was anything like that(if it was). I found the Episode, nice enough. 😊

As i have been writing since my 15th August Post ,🥱 and written in all my Historical Posts also, that the Show needs to show Jodha as Jalal's Emotional Strength.. Finally, we are getting this. 😃

Afterall, now the CV's are showing it in a Balanced Way , as i said before on Page-1 of this thread , that >> It contains an EQUAL PARTNERSHIP of the Wise thinking of an Empire expanding Emperor ABLY supported with a maturely thinking Empress.!.

An aisa to hai nahi ki CV's will show Jodha ruling the Empire.. They are assigning the Work of an Emperor to Akbar and that of an Empress(MUZ in making) to Jodha...This, in my thinking is their method of showing Jodha-Akbar centric TRACKS..


For NO Matter What, How Strong You are , How ResourceFul You Are, You can NOT manage ALL thingS Single Handedly . This is what we all WANTED , a show where BOTH J-J play on an "
Equal Footing(US States Doctrine😉)". < Hope i made this clear.😉 It means , that NO Authority will exceed it's jurisdiction. Similarly, Jalal and Jodha are have their "spheres of influence(credit for this term-Chinese Imperialism)😉".

The CV's are trying to Weave the Tracks to Show Jalal on an Empire expanding spree, while the Royal Ladies handling the other core issues of the Harem, and TOGETHER J-J handling these Scoial Issues. I think that after this track of BB, Jalal can announce some reform for a Girl Child(like share in property.?).


Who says an Emperor does not needs an Emotional support.. Even the HARDCORE IMPERIALIST and expansionist Napoleon wrote this in a letter he sent to his brother, here he talks about Josephine(his wife), and PLEADED her to join him on his Italian Campaign, a he was feeling very Lonely..!.>>>

"I must see her and press her to my heart. I love her to the point of madness, and I cannot continue to be separated from her. If she no longer loved me, I would have nothing left to do on earth."

^^^^Before reading this i had a VERY different opinion about him, but this letter made me search more on his personal life...It's interesting..😉..Anyways, coming back to our SHOW now...😃

I have noticed that the Personal Life of any Emperor/King/Monarch, has many shades, and is actually very interesting...I can read about the Wars and Reforms and many things from the biographies, but his personal Life study demands digging something after going a step forward...That is entirely a different process...

There is NOTHING called Ruling ALONE
...An Emperor rules with the help of many agencies..Some suport him actively, and some support him passively...I was Glad to see Man Singh and TodarMal on Thurday, And, i am hoping for Jodha's elevation as an Empress..Already, Monday's Precap shows, Jalal saying that - She deserves to be MUZ..!..

No doubt we all want a Good and Strongly Commanding Akbar.. But, the Show can NOT run only by one thing, that is to focus and make tracks Akbar oriented. Atleast, till now, NO TRACK is Akbar oriented, as they show Jodha on Equal footing on an Emotional Wavelength.

I think CV's are trying to show us NEITHER Akbar oreinted tracks, nor Jodha Oriented tracks, BUT Jodha-Akbar oriented tracks..
And, that is why the CV's have brought Sharif's track in 2 ways ---->>

1. They will show some reform on the Girl Child. { Courtesy - Partnership of Jodha/Salima, etc.}
2. And, then they will show Sharif's Revolt { And, Jalal will fight him, then..}

^^To ho gaya na, Jodha-Akbar Oriented.😉


I don't know about anyone, but i signed in for Jodha-Akbar, not for Akbar ONLY or Jodha ONLY... 😃
And, as far as my marketing knowledge tells me, before launching(or even starting) a serial, many standard processes are followed by the Channel/PH, viz. Sensitivity Analysis, etc. techiques, to check will it be profitable and business friendly to launch so and so soap... Ekta, being a clever business woman knows what she is DOING.




Coming to BB's Case::


I will NOT give my judgement, as i have already read many contrasting views here and all arguments are nice enough. 👍🏼 Many of us have mentioned BB's case to be that of a domestic abuse/violence...I have only one thing, that BB's Condition still resembles the dark reality of our society which we call MODERN..

I want to mention a "real case", of which i know the details..The incident is from Delhi, which we call a Metropolitan. The Case of this higher middle class educated girl is similar to BB. She delivered a boy and then a girl. But her husband was keen on having a boy ONLY(despite having a son already). She was a victim of worst form of domestic abuse, and finally went into "abode of God after enormous sufferings". The Case is still pending in the Delhi HC. An startling observation in this case was that, the girl even on her death bed, did NOT want her parents to pursue the case against her husband, for she said she LOVED him.!!!!.😕.!!!!.. *Full Stop*

What i want to emphasize in this case is that, this track of BB brought back those memories alive, that still we have such cases,...And, even after a lot of assessment of that case, i could not understand the case completely...In BB's case, i want her to be a bit strong..As there are times, when one needs to hit back and fight. You need not be a victim always. Especially, in case of BB when you have a Strong Brother who Loves you to an extent that he can bring heavens on Earth for you...

My Stand is that >> " Our opinions are based on the experiences, we have in our lives. Many of may have high degree of patience to some acts, but some of us may not have the same degree of resilience to the same act. A strong reason can be that, some of us MIGHT have experienced those "acts" in reality, hence we do NOT approve of it.. I for one, strongly condemn this act, for i have seen such victims. And, the very portrayal of that SAME act on the Screen brings back those sad memories alive..."

I have one request from the CV's that, since they are showing this track in today's time --

1. Already, they have given a strong message in form of showing that Girl Child is not a Burden..
2. Jalal did punish Sharif (though, i don't want to discuss the method of punishment.)
3. One thing, i would like them to show is that, BB should realize that Sharif does not deserves her Devotion.!!.There is no need to suffer so much...I do not understand what Kind of Devotion it is when Sharif openly stares Jodha infront of BB.!!!..

@ALL...
I may not be able to join regularly, but i keep reading these discussions and your takes...
Carry on...!!!..😊

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Hi Abhay another wonderful and insightful post... Thank you so much for taking out time from your busy schedule and writing this post. Thanks for the P.M. I am a bit busy these days so will reply in details later.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: RadhikaS0

Bakshi Bano

Some of the members have wondered why Bakshi is weak when her background is royal and she is pampered to such an extent by everyone.

I think personality is something that has nothing to do with background. It is something one is born with mostly, and something one develops due to life's experiences.

I am not surprised to see that Bakshi is insecure and totally lacking in confidence. And she is not able to handle / face emotional experiences / loss with equanimity. Who else do we know who has similar emotional issues? Why, her brother, of course.

Who else do we know who is unable to open up easily to anyone, even his mother? Her brother.

I observed in case of Jalal and I am observing in the case of Bakshi that Hamida is very righteous with them. She has very high standards and expects them to live up to those standards of moral conduct. This is good in its own way.

But a mother has to be there to break the fall when a child is not able to meet her standards and sometimes takes a wrong step.

When Jodha left Agra in the separation track, Hamida was indignant with Jalal and took away Jodha's portrait from him. She was loyal to Jodha but let down her son who needed her counsel and guidance then.

When Bakshi was exposed in the Jodha FP case, again Hamida slapped her and cut off ties with her. I can understand an initial wave of anger. But tempers cool and then the mother must take responsibility for what happened. She must ensure that the prodigal son / daughter returns to the right track.

When Bakshi was having labour pains, JJ came to visit her. I was shocked that no one else - Hamida, Salima, Ruq - came to see her or spend time with her.

Someone had remarked that Bakshi seems to live in a hotel. It may partially be her fault. But partially it is also the fault of her family. The Hamida - Gul Badan - Jijianga gang. They mouth platitudes to everyone in the younger generation - Jo, Ruq, Bakshi, Salima etc. But when these younger women have some personal problems, the matrons are nowhere to be seen.

Likewise, agreed that Bakshi did a major mistake in hiding the gender of the child. Jodha did try to assure her that they hadn't come to taunt her but understand why she had lied. But I didn't sense any empathy in the voices or looks of the other ladies. One of them should have hugged Bakshi close and assured her first of being there for her under all circumstances and of trusting her enough to know that she must have had a strong reason to lie.

When SD came in and started talking insultingly with Hamida too, none of the ladies objected. They, in a very typical manner, sided with SD and objected to Bakshi lying to him. Had they not sensed anything amiss in the SD-BB marriage in all this while? Shouldn't they have had more faith in a girl from their family? Shouldn't they have created an environment in which the girl could approach them with her problems?

I fel t slightly disappointed with the reaction of the royal women - it was to be expected, of course. But like Jodha asked, why are wrong reactions acceptable to us so much that they appear right / normal to us?



Wonderful post Radhika. I agree with everything u have said.
First of all I feel BB's family has let her down to some extent, as a result if BB let them down, then even if it's not justified but somewhere understandable to me. First of all they got her married to Sharifuddin. BB didn't herself ask to marry Sharif. Jalal did make a huge mistake in picking up the guy for BB. While I can totally understand why Jalal did what he did. Sometimes its difficult to judge someone's character. It is a common phenomenon- we see many instances where parents choose wrong life partners for their children which actually ruin their entire lives. But what I am saying is when they realize their mistake, they try their best to amend things. What BB's family has done was to keep their eyes and ears shut about the whole thing. Atleast for me it seems like this only.
My mother has a theory on this!! I don't know if this is right or wrong. But acc. to her these royal families are quite different from normal families we have. They live in big palace, have many people at their beck and call, have lot's of money- as a result the need for togetherness i.e, sharing things between siblings, being each other's strength in tough time etc is much less . I mean they grows up on their own, have their separate world, don't really form an emotional connect between themselves. Even if there is the connect but it's still much less than others who r brought up in a normal family. Like if u put water in a broad container, it evaporates fast.
Baki Banu is from a royal family. Her brother is the most powerful man in the country. There will be no dearth of prospective husbands for her whether it's for the 2nd time or 3rd , 4th, 5th time. Who can say no to Shahenshah- e - Hind? I understand that for BB, its difficult to even think like that. But not for Jalal and HB. The couple are living in the same household as they are, for so many years and no one, absolutely no one could find out the obvious thing. Now we are criticizing Jodha for not understanding Sharif's dirty intentions!!! How many times does she meet him? If Jodha is naive, which I believe she undoubtedly is, What about Jalal and his family?
What sort of mother Hamida banu is? She can't see blatant fear and sadness in her daughter's eyes!!! Now we are expecting her sister in law to do that. Come on!!! The worst part is where BB and her family are responsible for each other's misery, it is Jodha who has somehow been trapped between the two..🤣 As if she has no problem of her own!!!
I am not at all supporting BB for what she has done. Not at all. She is at fault when it comes to Jodha and her baby girl, and to some extent with the awam considering she knows what Sharif's ultimate ambition is, not for what she has done with her image-conscious family. Can we blame her for lying Sharif? Hasn't she been saving her family for so long, from taking harsh decision against their wafaadar Zaabaz Sipahi sharifuddin ,something they are so afraid of. I mean it takes the death of another waafadar, for jalal to finally decide to punish AK!!!!
I wish BB keep her daughter away from that sick husband of hers. I just can't trust him. He can very well kill the child!!!😡
I think asking royal women to beat Sharif up with their Jooties was not a good idea. It works wonderfully when it comes to dealing with some sadak chap eve-teasers. But here the case was little different. Both were from the same family and ladies were not comfortable with it. I mean they are not familiar with such things. Infact many of them were not actually aware of the gravity of his mistake either. In Thursday episode we have seen how Ruqaiya said- "Shariffudinji ne galat keya kaha hai?" I am sure it was not only her opinion. They were most probably thinking that okay - he did make a mistake, let him realize it and that's all. Even Hamida Banu's expressions were like that only.😃 She is not aware of Sharif's other misdeeds, we audience are. I don't know whether Jalal had actually made up his mind that he would make BB divorce Sharif and that's why he went to such extent, otherwise if son in law is beaten up by his MIL and SILs and maids in his in-laws house, I don't think any chance of reconciliation will be left in the relationship. Probably that is the reason why the harem ladies were hesitant.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: 111192

Why to blame shariffudin for his gender bias when it is so evident in today's world and more so on this forum full of highly educated people ...every day posts are made to applaud everything done by male lead and to criticize each and every action of female lead...and the story repeats in almost every forum...what a pity

Yes you are right Pallavi.
Some of them not only criticize the female lead but the women in general.
That day comment was made that Women can threaten husbands of going to their parents place and blackmail husbands?
Husband's don't say to wives to leave their house and go if they are angry? I think this very own Jalal did this .Did he think he was asking her to go out in night? What would have happened to her if she had at that time fallen in hands of Shariff or any other man?

Edited by Rashmi81 - 11 years ago

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