Birbal & JA Twins Entry, Ruq Downfall Sep 27 Updt Pg 60; DTNTPg15 - Page 14

Originally posted by: al_pal

Hi Radhika ,wonderful post as usual and lot of good response . In today's epi what jodha did was stay true to her nature . She understand as women and as mother rukku's plight . Jodha always had mother instinct in her that is why she bonded so well with rahim , now bb's kid , so her view on rukku is perfect , she has not witness cries of women who is all about audha but she has witnessed a cry of mother & it is goodness of her heart which is why jalal loves her and for many more reasons of course :) .
Now rukku , we need to understand reason behind her audha possession -there has to be reason for that . The only thing she feels secure about is her position as she has lost jalal to jodha ,she can't be Salima as Salima had found love in baharam khan so now she is content with her relationship with jalal , in case of rukku becoz they grew up together and at that time maham and bk had strong grip on jalal on convincing that he does not have heart , heart is sign of weakness , so being kid by herself she never had chance to bond with jalal on heart level ,so she moulded herself as per him and only thing kept her going was her position and friendship with jalal as she saw many women come and go until jodha came , when jodha came in picture she saw jalal with heart and now she realized it could have been different for her & it is too late so her jealousy comes from deeper roots ,up till now she has her position but she can see that she is loosing that too not just title , jalal is becoming more dependend on jodha from personal problem to political one which she used to do so now she has lost both a friend who used to come 1st to her whenever he came back home , who used to take her advice on political matters and her position too so her actions are now like desperate time seek desperate measures , sad but true . Jalal found jodha , jodha has jalal , Salima had bk but what about rukku ? She is mugal princess who prides in her timur blood can't be just another begam of harem . I don't know if I make any sense but I am just trying to understand her not supporting her , so please do let me know how u guys feels .

Originally posted by: *Shruti*

We beg to differ. It may be a passing remark in context to you , but there can absolutely be NO justification comparing restricted forum atmosphere to massive death & human suffering period. It may have been a word of comparison for you, but you cannot deny it was intended to be a insult.

Originally posted by: SindhuMenon

I do agree Ruks insecurity is the root cause of all her problems which is only getting her into more and more trouble. You cannot just demand or ask for love, it just happens. She had plenty of chances to rectify herself but she did not opt for it. So Initially I did sympathize with her, but now I don't. she just cannot care for others feelings at all. Truly selfish.

Originally posted by: al_pal

but Sindhu look at the background jodha came from loving family hence she has self confidence , content feeling and pluse point is golden heart . Jalal and rukku had similar background , even though she is Audha obsess she had judgement of wrong and right not like jalal but she had it , after that jalal got good guide in jodha but what about rukku , she is just lost

Originally posted by: SindhuMenon

agree Jalal has Jodha now and Jodha has Jalal now. But Jodha had to go through plenty of hardships and Ruks herself has witnessed this. Those days Jodha did not have any support from her family nor from her husband.

Today when Jo was talking to Jalal about letting ruks spend time with her Kids, Jo was looking so innocent. Probably because she is not used to all these cunnigness. She always had a protected life. But that said does our life only depend on our spouse. I do not think I will sit and brood nor plot and waste my life just because I could not find someone who loves me. I will need to find ways to move on. Ruks had only 2 friends one was mamanga and other was Jalal. She did not want to depend on anyone else. But can we blame any one else for this. She made this choice. It has to come both ways. Many times Jalal has looked on Ruks for emotional support as he needed that but she failed there as her priorities were different . So Jalal moved on. She was stuck with her BEK.

I still believe she had plenty of chances to move on and if she opened herself Jalal would have supported her.

Originally posted by: *Shruti*

We beg to differ. It may be a passing remark in context to you , but there can absolutely be NO justification comparing restricted forum atmosphere to massive death & human suffering period. It may have been a word of comparison for you, but you cannot deny it was intended to be a insult.

Originally posted by: Rashmi81

Well said

Originally posted by: JAfanCharu

Hi Radhika,

Thank you very much for including my thoughts along with some other brilliant posts , in your discussions . I truly appreciate your gesture .

Coming to Rukkaiyya's behavior , you have so correctly pointed out ---------- "jealousy makes a person incapable of rational thinking and behavior" . I fully agree with you .

Since childhood , Rukkaiyya has been the centre of Jalal's attention . This continued till they became adults and until Jalal married the beautiful Rajvanshi princess Jodha . Rukku's world turned upside down and she could not bear to accept Jodha's presence in his life. Her jealousy towards Jodha knows no limits. It is not only troubling Jodha , Jalal and others close to them but is also tormenting her own self . It is forcing her to behave insensitively and irrationally . It is forcing her to walk on the path of self destruction .

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