is it escapism? - Page 2

Originally posted by: NATURESHIVANI

Well somewhere in the every post of the forum I have to quote. My own. Words all I can say that they both are right on their place but the situation is wrong u have annlyised the things better the point of you of a husband is totally right we can,t neglect this fact that the men cannot accept rejection easily n when his own wife is not supporting him he may fell exhausted if jodha wants to safe khaiber she should dealt wisely

and that is exactly what i m trying to say that jodha was not wise enough to handle jalal tactfully, she was too blunt in her approach..she should have been smart enough to measure his anger and act accordingly!

Originally posted by: mandyg

i do not trust cvz sunny, they can show whatever but this very episode was worth a watch..i would say it was close to being flawless..both the characters were flawed and atifa is just a temporary replacement..she is more like a drink of cold rooh afza in summer whereas jodha is like an old bottle of wine that will be better with age..😆

Originally posted by: susantogiaa

i agree jodha was wrong but we cant forgot kairbar is the person who save jodha from mahachuchak sipahi if kairbar dont save jodha that time then jodha was not in mahal this time but jodha was in mahachuchak jail i knw jodha should not pressure jalal to change his decision infront of full awaam but both are right in theses on place...and small fight its normal between one couple but its doesn't mean you cheat ur partner when she is pregnant u should only think about ur kids and wife and forgot what she did...and i love jodha in yesterday episode she feel she did wrong and she badly want to talk with jalal poor jodha was searching 4 jalal and jalal was busy in romancing with atifa many people saying jalal is pretending i dont know about this but cv make us this much irritated we cant control our self to bash jalal becoz there are showing disgusting scene as truth of adkdha fan i know we should believe jalal but i cant digest theses thing and jalal with atifa🥱

relationship between a man and a woman is never a bed of roses in reality..its only possible in books and in our fantasies..its usually a give and take relationship..u step back the man will react 10 times worst..and that is how it has been doesn't matter which era it is!

Originally posted by: Mages

first of all mandyg...beautifully written.r.

I am hating this jalatifa romance...its boiling my blood...for once I wish he went to ruku rather than this papaya... 😡

as for the topic...both are right in their firm stands...but the timing...situation and execution is wrong...

I wished this track was shown earlier before than now when jodha is pregnant

I hope everything sorts out...and we get a new JJ who learn their mistake in the hardest way...and do not repeat the same mistake again

well, the track will end eventually but this particular episode was bang on! i really liked the way they showed all the scenes, and jodha being pregnant is a bit of khichri now😆

Originally posted by: PadBear

😆 😉

kyun aisa hi hoga na😉😆

One thing I realise mandyg whether its 16th century or our 21st century...

when a man upset with his wife...they had huge fight...they take solace of another women...its fine and all and they can cross their limits...they are mens afterall...but when the same thing women does taking solace with her guy friend and knows her limits...she is accused of characterless...and all kinds of degrading are being used on her...

what a life...

instead of finding solace in another women...both husband-wife should keep their ego aside and sort out the issues crop out b/w them...marriages are not bed of roses...but that doesn't mean...you go to another women in excuse of solace and be physical with her

sit down calmly and sort the issues b/w you and your spouse is what we call...mark of a successful marriage...well thats what I believe...

I really feel bad for the 16th centuries lady to be treated like doormat by their own husbands and see them going to other womens

Mandy great post.
My mom was saying something similar to this yesterday after watching the epi. Though she isn't liking this Jalal-Atifa and angry at Jalal and Atifa. But she is angry at Jodha too.
She said why she is showing too much concern for Khyber.Apne ghar ko chorke dusro ke bare me jyada sochne lago toh apna ghar hi tutta hai.

Mandy I'll summarize your point in your own words - Escapism to deal with emotional stress. !00% score Mandy. Top of the class. Men in general are like this, alpha males ... multiply by 10. They need to assert themselves, need to go on an emotional bender, push the boundaries of a relationship till it breaks. Rajat did a great job yesterday and Paridhi is being allowed now to finally play a more realistic married woman. There was some substance to their characters these last few days.

Originally posted by: Mages

One thing I realise mandyg whether its 16th century or our 21st century...

when a man upset with his wife...they had huge fight...they take solace of another women...its fine and all and they can cross their limits...they are mens afterall...but when the same thing women does taking solace with her guy friend and knows her limits...she is accused of characterless...and all kinds of degrading are being used on her...

what a life...

instead of finding solace in another women...both husband-wife should keep their ego aside and sort out the issues crop out b/w them...marriages are not bed of roses...but that doesn't mean...you go to another women in excuse of solace and be physical with her

sit down calmly and sort the issues b/w you and your spouse is what we call...mark of a successful marriage...well thats what I believe...

I really feel bad for the 16th centuries lady to be treated like doormat by their own husbands and see them going to other womens

mages, a male is a provider, he goes out hunts and provides food for his wife and kids..because he knows that she is his loyal wife and the kids are only his...the moment he knows that his wife has gone with some other man he can start suspecting that the kids are not his and will stop prividing..the house will break and the kids will suffer..and when the kids suffer who suffer the most..a female their mother..therefor its a femal who is a home maker and its a male who is a provider..a female with love and patience and compromise can secure the future of her kids but if she is un loyal then no one can save that house from falling apart..nature has made us like that..that is why zillion sperms fight for one egg😆

Originally posted by: Arieltabi

Mandy great post.
My mom was saying something similar to this yesterday after watching the epi. Though she isn't liking this Jalal-Atifa and angry at Jalal and Atifa. But she is angry at Jodha too.
She said why she is showing too much concern for Khyber.Apne ghar ko chorke dusro ke bare me jyada sochne lago toh apna ghar hi tutta hai.

i agree with your mom and moti also gave her the rt advice but maahri jodha sune tab na😆