Ela, as advised, posting it back here from the previous thread. But we are now in a mood of celebration post preet's update from Zee. Anyway sharing it here as advised.
Originally posted by MaddyO
<font size="2">what has Jalal done to deserve what Ruk is doing to him?
Ruk
ALWAYS BUT ALWAYS told Jalal that she does not care if he spends time
with other wives, she is not jealous about sharing him - as long as her
BEk status, her Audha, her haram remains with her.
Has Jalal taken any of that away from Ruk?
Has Jalal not spoiled Ruk ROTTEN with excessive pampering?
Has Jalal not been a good husband who GAVE Ruk EVERYTHING she asked for?
Jalal
even did not spare BB but in 4 horrible big instances of Ruk behavior
Jalal just let Ruk get away with them. The small ones are too many to
count!
First - before Ben track asking Jodha to vacate her
hojara. Jalal made sure Jodha stayed there - that was more because of
his vachan to Jodha about her Kanha's respect. Jalal let loose such
vicious ugly words on Jodha in return to placate Ruk.
Second -
Ruk goaded him to marry Ben and after Ben truth came out Jalal looked
like a fool for almost marrying the one who was there to kill him. Not
just saving his life Jodha also saved his honor. Jalal did not even by a
word let Ruk feel she was wrong and her pressure almost got him
killed. In fact Jalal gave Ruk a gift!
Third - in Murti Kand -
where Jalal knew very well it was Ruk who did the despicable act. Jalal
just said in front of everybody that Jodha could not have done it and
HID Ruk's sordid truth from everybody - nor did he punish Ruk for it.
Fourth
- when Ruk told him she knew it was a Rajvanshi dressed as Khwaja Shera
in haram. Did Ruk KNOW who it was? What if it was some Rajvanshi who
had come with intention to kill Jalal? What if Jalal was attacked by
the Rajvanshi actually - did he bother to ask this of Ruk?
What if
not him but anybody else was attacked in haram? Is not haram Ruk's
responsibility? Ruk lied to Jalal to separate Jodha from him and Jalal
just did NOTHING!
From Ruk's side - Jalal has DONE NOTHING that Ruk can do this horrible act on Jalal.
I think for all the 4 reasons stated above, Jalal is going to DESERVE what Ruk is doing to him.
Hiding
crime so the innocent does not get justice, standing by and letting the
woman he professes to love get insulted, pampering Ruk so much always
and pardoning her every vicious act that Ruk is now so arrogant to say
"no matter how big a lie I tell Jalal will believe it blindly" - Jalal
deserves everything Ruk is doing to him.
However much I hate the
way Jodha is behaving - she has mostly always behaved this way with
Ruk! Jalal is the one who NOW professes to love Jodha but his love
seems to be so weak that he has no spine to simply tell Ruk who is so
atrociously behaved - that she should accord respect to Jodha.
Forget
love! Even if Jalal was NOT in love with Jodha - Ruk treating Jodha
this was should not be tolerated by him. Why JUST Jodha - Ruk treating
ANYBODY this way should not be tolerated! So tomorrow if Ruk decides
that cos she is pregnant and is in bad mood she can insult SB - will
Jalal stand aside and let Ruk do that? We all know the answer to
this!!!
Jalal has NEVER stood up for Jodha - against Ruk EVER!
If
Jalal gets angry with Ruk AFTER he learns of the truth and then tells
her to accord respect to Jodha?!!! No it has no meaning for me!
Jalal
let MA manipulate Jodha away from him. Jalal is letting Ruk manipulate
Jodha away from him! If he is so hen-pecked against Ruk what to say
about his spine?!
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<font size="2">After
yesterday not an ounce of sympathy for this Jalal - he fully deserves
what Ruk is doing to him - cos ONLY Jalal is responsible for letting Ruk
come to this stage!
I want to FULLY ENJOY how Jalal will face this and I want it to be IN DEK - where lot of Jdha's humiliations took place.
Again
repeating what I wrote yesterday - I would LOVE for fiery Jodha to be
back - not AFTER she learns of Ruk truth but JUST BECAUSE - self respect
is every person's right and Jodha should stand up for hers. Telling
someone who is mistreating and insulting you firmly that you will not
stand up for such behavior is something GOOD!!!!!
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Oh Maddy dear, it is like someone said it out for me. I am heaving a sigh of relief. This is what has been going on in my mind, just that I did not put it in words in the forrum
I second you totally, that Jalal has a major role, rather primary role to play for a spoilt Ruqaiyya. Maybe a childhood friend, but as he grows up, he needs to grow up. Remeber, during harem election, he did not even care when other begums had a complaint against Ruqaiyya. If it is said that he treated all his begums well, am only surprised. Just giving space,clothes, food and amenities is not treating one well. Tell, who has any self-esteem in his whole bunch of 5000 wormen, ofcourse Ruqaiyya is an exception. Ruqaiyya's esteem is his own esteem for that matter.
Agreed, that since childhood, she had a way of getting her things done, having control over him. But not at the cost of others right? Even during the Meena bazaar, before Jodha's wedding, we know how he treated others as Ruqaiyya wanted him to do so. How is it fair to any wife at all in a polygamy. You can have your favourites, but not insult others right?
It was disgusting to see that they both even plotted together against her in the initial days. If he had a revenge to take on his wife, its his own business, why get Ruqaiyya into it - to me it was cheap. If Ruqaiyya today can say that Jodha should not come betn husband and wife, it holds good the other way also right? Now, though Jalal has fallen for our Jodha, he still is unable to handle Ruqaiyya. And this is Ruqaiyya's big strength and the big driver for any action of hers. She knows he will just not raise a finger against her. Even if he expresses his displeasure, he will sooner or later say sorry to her and promise her not to repeat such in future.
Alas, how much ever we lament, are things going to change? I have no hopes on Ruqaiyaa. But I also must say no hopes on Jalal too. This way, though my hearts beats for him, I still feel he deserves a tight slap on his face, which would server more as a wakeup call. In his own interest, I welcome this.
Now coming to Jodha dear, I am fuming here as well. Now, where is the Jodha who cut Ruqaiyya on day one of Agra or who gave her properly when she was dragged by her after the boat incident, gone now? Is she now trying to please Ruqaiyya or Jalal? She has done everything, just short of licking her boot. I still cannot accept her bandi role, howmuch ever others may justify it. She can supervise the whole thing, but need not become a bandi herself. Even if Jodha does not want to give back to Ruqaiyya, what is stopping her from moving away. Be it the other day, during Ruqaiyya's famous bath scene to this recent scene, why is she hanging around waiting eagerly with open hands for insults from Ruqaiyya? Has love changed her spineless now? What is exactly wrong with her these days?
But guys, you know what I feel. Though do not believe in bashing CVs just like that, I feel that to project something, they are diluting something else. Like, in the name wanting to show a big effect of treachery on Jalal and Jodha later, after they have done so much and even stooped down so much for the darling of the day Ruqaiyya, they are actually diluting the character of Jalal and Jodha. They are compromising so much, while they need to be consistent. Even during separation track, they made Jalal too much of a majnu in the name of brining a big effect of separation. According to me, it only back fires on their creative.
Maddy, as you know, I do not write such kind of posts normally, but you just brought it out of me today😊
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