The Fear of Rejection - Page 7

Originally posted by: history_geek

My reply in blue. 😊

Originally posted by: history_geek

Keep guessing.!!.😉.😆.

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Beautiful one Radhika 👏..As only u can write..Probably the first balanced and unbiased post I have read in ages..Every post(mostly) has been abt Jodha or Jalal..pitting one against the other,but for the first time I am getting to see both sides in one post ..Worthy of huge appreciation ⭐️

Huge thanks, Anita! 😳

As for the details...I am planning to watch some the old episodes if and when I have time(a li'l later,not now)since I am curious agt the arguments going on in IF and feel terribly handicapped since I am unable to voice out a clear opinion,coz of having missed scores of earlier eppys.But will still comment to the best of my ability on some points 😳😳

U must watch them, not just for arguments' sake, but also for the sheer pleasure!

Originally posted by: MaddyO

My replies in blue. 😃

Originally posted by: RadhikaS0

Originally posted by: ayushimehra

Agree, Divorce or separation is not good option, but one thing they both to realise must, everperson is not perfect. jalal pointed her character again again, He should learn first lesson women character not touched easily if she is not anserwing, Time will give sure ans

suspection is not good thing. jodha creates many time space for him, but he says he trusts but his trust shaken in little wind, blowing. agree trust is to earn, but jodha proved it many times.

Yes, Ayushi, he really needs to work on the trust aspect. He has to change the mindset of an entire lifetime to do this. From a person who mistrusts his own shadow, he has to learn that there are good people in the world whom he can and should trust. Trust has another aspect. When we learn to trust, we also have to learn whom NOT to trust.

jodha decided her life with jalal, but she will not adjust if her character &dignity will be questioned, these are not her weaknesses, these are her decent qualities so jalal should handle her dignity HONOURABLE manner. when this thing will cure by jalal, then some disturbances if have, they will sort out

so both have to learn their respect, both of respect, their damage their realtionship damage

OR realtionship damage is not good for any realtion. Every realtion has his duties, & responsibilites.

No person can live in a relationship when their honor is compromised or questioned. Jalal has to give Jodha the honor and respect due to her. He is not doing her a favor by doing so nor should he expect Jo to be grateful for this.

I have been reading a few comments in which the writers have stressed on Jo being a Rajvanshi and a princess and therefore deserving of honor and respect. Her background does not matter. Every woman deserves her husband's honor and respect.

Parntner should accept each other weakness, but this not means, but explotation not.

physically harsment which happened in jalal case its not bearable. so this time limit has cross, so jodha took this action, but she knows jalal has estamana to change. jalal also knows she has estamana, to change situations. so this thing will giving both next way. both will learn , both will quarrell, then understand what they want, both have to HUNGER to

learning. Both want to TOUCH, OPEN SKY, which has no END. but jodhu wants some respect , some security AGRA is her own home, so when this will get from jalal then sky is both of you.

so Big thing wants big cost.

I agree. there should be no physical or other form of harassment in a marriage. I also feel that this time, when they get together, they will try to understand what they both want from the relationship and act accordingly. There may be little fights but they will be able to take them in their stride. The day Jalal is able to assure Jo that her real home is in Agra, she will be totally secure and happy with him and yes, then the sky will be the limit for them! 😳

But one thing, we all know after some time AKDHA bonded a good healthy realtionship, so we should learn.

Yes, knowing that whatever we have to suffer in the show now will ultimately give way to a healthy and beautiful relationship is what is enabling me to still watch the show! 😆 And yeah, I am learning a lot in terms of maintaining healthy relationships. I wish JA had come a few years earlier, then I might have benefited more. But better late than never. 😆

Originally posted by: nini06

BRAVO DEAR...!!

As i said earlier... it's indeed an excellent post...👏...

i guess my decision to wait and reply late was correct...😆...since ur post did required deep study..😊...(which i cudn't do then)...!

AS there is a saying..." intezaar ka phal metha hota he...😉"..."

COMING TO UR POST...

i first must congratulate for be soo soo neutral... in such hazardious atmosphere...where biasing can't be escaped ,espeicially after soo much clouding of thoughts of the forum...😃(as u pointed correctecly)

YOU were clear, original and fantabulous in ur writing...!

YOU took all factors about their relation into cosideration...👍🏼..!

( there is nothing lft to say there...

Also, u also cleared and corrected my dissapointed mind to quite an extent...BCOz i was earlier angry with both jo( for insensitive and rude behaviour)

and with ja( for his ego too)

{ yes, his ego: coz i believe if someone does something great , he shouldn't jataofy it ,though as he said it was indeed great that th shensha of mughal sultanate was searching like hell for his begum, that too after having soo many other begum in his lyf...and so ,many wanting to be ..😉

}

ps.. i really <3 ed all ur qoutes ( julier caeser, falling in <3 especially)...😃