The Fear of Rejection - Page 5

Originally posted by: tamy267

Radhika, loved loved loved it!!!👏👏

u write so well girl!!!⭐️

ek ke baad ek lajwab posts😳

thanks a ton for this!!🤗

love u sweetie...🤗

"Faith is an evolution, not a ready-to-use commodity." bang on!👏

Originally posted by: chyetta

wow, wow ... i take my hats off for you, you write up was indeed superb.u really are intelligent. you knw i have been reading thru people's write up in this forum and urs is the best, you really described jodha nd jalal well. there have been so many bashing going on this forum that i see myself having headaches.. the negativity, pessimism and bashing is actaully getting out of hand, today its jalal tomorrow its jodha...we viewers sometimes dont even the patience to watch nd understand this characters..we want all villains to be caught, the couples shld get there salim fast and blah blah , if it happens this way then the serial will be ova ...thank u so👏 much for analyzing this wonderful couples well. as u said no one is perfect , people we trust the most are sometimes actually the people we shld dread. thank u nd kisses. 👏

Originally posted by: jiya.k

brilliant post Radhika...they hv nt only fear of rejection but they hv fear of what happen if they face another rejection r they hv strength to bear another rejection n right now jodha feels she dnt hv any strength to bear another rejection n to hide this fear or her inner weaknesses she used her anger as her dhaal...

Originally posted by: SindhuMenon

wonderful post. Hope CVS visit this Forum to get Ideas. There are very talented writers here in this forum which keeps me glued to this forum.

Originally posted by: ann2012

Wonderful post Radhika 👏

The way you have summarized their journey of rejection from start to finish is perfect. They have hurt each other in equal measure and deserve the equal amount of time for their recovery.

But I have to disagree on a few points in your footnotes.

He did negate her sacrifice. He added that she saved him so she could kill him herself and take revenge. Killing him slowly day by day. Instead of letting him achieve a place in heaven in just one stroke. He not only negated her love in the sacrifice but also equated her to his worst enemy. If this is not a negation of her ultimate sacrifice, then what is?? 😕

Secondly, it is not about making Jalal suffer the same amount as Jodha suffered during Ben track. It is just a defense Jodha has against all the resentment brewing towards her. She could forgive him in an instant and go back to Agra. But she needs to recover herself first. Her wounds need to heal. Jalal isn't helping to heal them as he doesn't even understand the reason behind them wholly. Thus, she needs some time away from him. It is well-known that emotional scars like these need a lot of time to recuperate. They can't be forgotten in an instant. So, when the forum asks why doesn't Jodha have super-healing skills, we have to remind ourselves that she is a human just like Jalal. And if Jalal can take his own time to recover than so can Jodha. That is it. Nobody wants him or her to live in turmoil endlessly.

The lovers need some time apart to get it all sorted. The problem is from both ends, I think. They need to work together on this to gain an everlasting loving relationship 😊

Originally posted by: ann2012

Wonderful post Radhika 👏

The way you have summarized their journey of rejection from start to finish is perfect. They have hurt each other in equal measure and deserve the equal amount of time for their recovery.

But I have to disagree on a few points in your footnotes.

He did negate her sacrifice. He added that she saved him so she could kill him herself and take revenge. Killing him slowly day by day. Instead of letting him achieve a place in heaven in just one stroke. He not only negated her love in the sacrifice but also equated her to his worst enemy. If this is not a negation of her ultimate sacrifice, then what is?? 😕

Secondly, it is not about making Jalal suffer the same amount as Jodha suffered during Ben track. It is just a defense Jodha has against all the resentment brewing towards her. She could forgive him in an instant and go back to Agra. But she needs to recover herself first. Her wounds need to heal. Jalal isn't helping to heal them as he doesn't even understand the reason behind them wholly. Thus, she needs some time away from him. It is well-known that emotional scars like these need a lot of time to recuperate. They can't be forgotten in an instant. So, when the forum asks why doesn't Jodha have super-healing skills, we have to remind ourselves that she is a human just like Jalal. And if Jalal can take his own time to recover than so can Jodha. That is it. Nobody wants him or her to live in turmoil endlessly.

The lovers need some time apart to get it all sorted. The problem is from both ends, I think. They need to work together on this to gain an everlasting loving relationship 😊