We wait one more day for the storm! - Page 6

Originally posted by: 111192

Jalal going to Amer to bring back is not possible as jalal would know that if jodha went to amer then she cant go alone all the way to amer ,she will go with some troop and daasi's but in this case she left alone so jalal will at once find out that she left agra fort through that secret passage which leads to jungle and thus he will find her within few hours of knowing that jodha has left the fort.

Originally posted by: akdha

HI Mansi, nice post, ur quotes was superb👏 as a psychology learner, i would say, the anger is let out because of the deep fear inside of some kinds, while the happiness is let out because we are appreciated by someone and treated as we are special for another and achieved somehing worthwhile. reg akdha, the outburst of jallu is due ot the fear of losing his possession( it can be jo and also his hope). as i often would say on the emotional compatibility between couples is necessary, i believe this track will get that in full tune. the couples must be able to understand each other, without even seeing each other, if that happens , then they can be separated by no one.😳

Originally posted by: history_geek

I was ALSO thinking the same..He told Mazhar to marry as per his wish.
THis was very much significant..!!
He did not support anyone's name...!!

Originally posted by: MaddyO

Mansi your super writing got all these thoughts in my mind

I think Jalal is in so much pain because after the vishpaan and Baba C prophecy he thought now all he has to do is be patient with Jodha and his love will be returned.

So this entire situation has shocked him into fear. He is worried now that he thought wrong, Jodha is not sharing his feelings, that she is not going to reciprocate his love or have trust on him.

Jalal knows for him it is going to be ONLY Jodha or NO JODHA nobody else, so he is imagining a bleak future, lonely existence just as Shehenshah without anybody really loving him for himself.

I don't think Jalal showed only distrust before if that was so he would not trust MA so blindly and pamper Rukayya so much in everything. He feels they deserve this from him for he can trust them.

He always reacts to Jodha in extreme, he wanted her hated her and now loves her and he can't bear to think he might have been wrong, the life he was feeling he will live with her, with the only one who sees him as man not as Shehenshah - is not going to happen. So it is just breaking him inside.

You are very right, he reacts in extremes about Jodha so that shows how deeply he is in love. Every little thing about her either makes him blissfully happy or desperately sad!

Originally posted by: skanda12

Akanksha, I feel like those kids that watch horror movies ... they will put their hands on their eyes to avoid seeing, but they will keep watching from the gaps between their fingers!

I feel as if I am going to do that today!

Originally posted by: Cleo12345

I always love your psychoanalysis on Jalal...you understand Jalal's brain like no one does( way better than Rukaiya😆 ) ...Remember i crowned you a Jalal expert couple of weeks back.

Human brain is so complicated. I will shed some light on one more aspect of what is going inside Jalal's head.

The kind of reaction Jodha brings out of Jalal is unique. He is used to being around people who are flawed and seems to be comfortable with he fact his relationships with them is nowhere close to perfect . I am sometimes surprised that he has very little expectations from people close to him.

Rukaiya is a 'friend' but is never around when he is in the dumps. He knows it and never seems to complain about it.

Salima a loyal friend and a guide...nothing more.

Hamida bano is a mother who was not around when he needed her the most but he seems to have forgiven her for that.

BB is an emotionally weak sister who can never be someone he can count on.

Badi Ammi ...he is not stupid...he never consults her over certain matters . He loves and trusts her but is not completely oblivious to her bias towards certain people.

Adham khan is a good for nothing foster brother who is a good fighting machine...nothing more.

But that is not the case with Jodha. He secretly wants a perfect relationship with her. She brings out the best and the worst in him. Most of us are surprised at his current state of mind and behavior.

He is clearly falling apart...why? Because she is not confiding in him? However, a few things are very clear...

1 . He knows that if she is hiding something but believes that there has be a very good reason for that...that is why the repeated concern for her safety.

2. He is sure that she is not back stabbing him or cheating on him. Someone else touching her bothers him but not to the extent of pulling out his sword right away and kill the man and/ or jodha.

3. Deep down he believes that she is not telling him the facts because she is afraid of him and his reaction. His jungle ka Sher is always alone because people are scared of him waala dialogue gives us the answer.

3. Despite badi ammi's best efforts, I think he still strongly suspects that the person she is meeting is most likely Sujamal.

4. He knows how she values relationships and breaks all rules to do the right thing...he couldn't stop her from going to BB when she was nazarband or even SD, the man she had every reason to hate, when there was a threat to Jalal's life

5. Deep down he knows that she is very attached to her brother and strongly believes that that her brother is not guilty of the two major crimes he was accused of ( Peeth ke peeche waar and attempt on Jalal's life... Attacking another army for land was something common in hose days...Haapened a lot in Rajputana and Jalal himself was doing the same thing... ).

6. The DEK scene, he did not question Aziza's love for Mazhar. Nor did he say anything to suggest that she was having an affair...To him, her crime was that she hid facts from Mazhar. That is why he did not punish her. She lost the man she loves ( though he said the opposite )...and that's her biggest punishment.

Now for someone who doesn't have a lot a expectations from his other loved ones ( they can be accused of bigger crimes), why is he so resless and almost falling apart for Jodha hiding something from him. For those familiar with the cause and effect theory in psychology will understand that the effect( he looks like a zombie) is disproportionate to the cause( she hid a fact and probably for a good reason). ...a normal reaction would be confront her and punish her . We are all wondering why he is not confronting her( will finally happen tomorrow but is delayed by a week) ...of course the fear that she'll MU him. But this and the extreme disappointment stem from another reason as well...subconsciously he has accepted her as his soulmate. For those of us who have been in love understand what a beautiful feeling it is to realize that you have found your soulmate. In the initial stages of this realization, there is an expectation that, this will be a perfect relationship...no fights, lies or hurt...complete trust and transparency...life gradually teaches you that this is not always the case. Soulmates fight too. But Jalal is still in that initial delicate stage when the smallest blow can completely shatter that beautiful feeling . That is what is happening with Jalal...he feels lost and the sense of loss is over the fact that he was wrong ...his relationship with Jodha is not perfect ...therefore, he does not have a soulmate...and will probably never will . That is earth shattering for him.

Originally posted by: skanda12

See, it is so significant that Jalal did not tell Mazhar "OK go and marry Ruksana". He said "You go now and make whatever decision you want!" Isn't that very significant that he did not actually endorse Ruksana?