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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sandhya, Ruqu's is good in her own way(till some point) and Jalal and Ruqu's are friends but husband and wife as well. Even though no love from Jalal's side, he cares for her, he is very close to her and as a husband he has done all duties and for him to have physical relationship, he did not require love, if he did then he wouldn't have had so many women in his harem, intact lot of kings at that time didn't marry only because of love, so I really don't think that he loved Ruqu's, but yes Ruqu's loves him, but she loves her status more, probably b'coz she always had all powers, Jalal never said no to her, and her decisions could influence him, so she was never negative, and was grey. But when her status, her love all are getting affected, she is unable to accept it.
Smiley was replaced due to her health issues.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: Sandhya.A

Joja,

Undoubtedly Ruqaiya would have drunk the sewaiyan. Or atleast forced it down the throat of some baandhi, ghulaam or cat or dog. She would have saved Jalal at all costs.
Ruqaiya may be selfish when it comes to anyone, but not to Jalal. As she stated in her letter to Jannat-Aashiyani-Humayun sahib, she has neither known nor cared for anyone other than Jalal.



i like to add one point here

ruqaiyya hates jodha from the first day

still she injured her hand in saving her when jalal attacked her with sword during MC track

but here she loves jalal ,she could have eaten the savviyan
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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My comments on Sandhya's post about Ruqs:

This is the problem with Jalal having too many begums, and we start feeling sorry about the underdog (Ruqs) and favoritism becomes a contest. Chocolate bar can be shared by splitting the pieces equally, but can you share the love equally with all begums like the chocolate bar? This is not technically possible because dynamics of each begum and the degree of loving cannot be quantified and measured equally. In this serial, Jodha and Jalal are true soulmates and Cvs want to show us their love story and even in the Bollywood movie other begums were not even shown to avoid this polygamous issue. Maybe if Cvs makes an serial on Ruqaiya, we will get to see her in better light. I thought that Smiley was out because she looked too young in the casting with Rajat and Karijat location did not suit her needs according to the old news article. I prefer Lavina portraying Ruqs character, and thank god we live in an era where we mostly are monogamous and have one life partner and have no competition.
Edited by jojal - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#95
Loved it Trips
If lashy is a perfect occlumens of Jalal, you are of Ruqaiya.😃 This is what she will exactly feel.
Abdul and Smiley Ruqaiya..they added a distinct flavour and spice to the Mughal Agra. Those Ruqaiya - Jalal episodes were magical. I don't see them any different from Friday's Jodha-Jalal scenes. There was that tease, camaraderie, genuine affection plus a distinct style. Only that made me wonder what went wrong.
But I don't think Jalal is going to be sensitive here Trips and that is the saddest part. Ruqaiya will be made to commit blunder after blunder till we ourselves feel that Jalal is justified in dumping her. They can't churn out their epic romance otherwise.
(Why is that when single-minded friendship was weighed over romance in Kuch kuch hota hai and is treated so lightly here.😕)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: happygolucky099



i like to add one point here

ruqaiyya hates jodha from the first day

still she injured her hand in saving her when jalal attacked her with sword during MC track

but here she loves jalal ,she could have eaten the savviyan

I too really like Ruq. I very much liked her initially. Maybe now it's a bit reduced because of her screaming , joining hands with MA plot and being not grateful to Jodha for saving her from divorcing Jalal.

But I also understand, no one can leave your husband to someone no matter what. Ruq is good at heart, its just her auda stuff which makes her grey at times.

I might have used a wrong scenario. But what I wanted to convey was in comparison to Jodha's love. Both Ruq-Jodha are very different and can't compare.

Well, the more I talk now I am confused and thinking whats different betwwen Jodha's love for Jalal and Ruq's love for Jalal.

Aunty can you please explain this?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: adianasr


The problem is the other woman factor which actually shd not apply. Whether hindu or muslim - till the law was passed both religions did let multiple wives for men and this was not something new especially in a royal household. Ruqu or Jodha neither can claim exclusive rights on Jalal and nor can Jalal give either exclusive rights. This has a 3 point perspective - How Ruqu accepts Jodha and yet maintains her space? - How Jodha makes her space and yet does not interfere in Ruqu's space? And how Jalal ensures that both his wives have their space with him? Abb yahan all 3 need to make the effort - and neither Ruqu nor Jodha shd impinge on what the other has. And Jalal needs to ensure that one will not loose her space becoz of the space he has given to the other. Abhi tak Jalal has ensured this and I do believe that he will do so in the future. But if Ruqu does impinge on Jodha's space with he will move swiftly just as he did with the hojra issue.


Adi it's not about space, it's Love that ruku yearns for and in return only gets some place, some title just like luring a child with lollipop makes the crying babyc calm, Jalal lures her with this power and audha stuff to keep her calm..

I know in future Jalal would not spurn a relationship for the other, but the thing is he always said that he has no heart and can't love anyone, and ruqu believed it blindly, where in future when she would come to know that she, all her life believed a lie and that so from her beloved one, she will be totally devastated.. But one can't help as Jalal can't generate the feelings own whichfor ruku he has for Jodha..


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi003


Adi it's not about space, it's Love that ruku yearns for and in return only gets some place, some title just like luring a child with lollipop makes the crying babyc calm, Jalal lures her with this power and audha stuff to keep her calm..

I know in future Jalal would not spurn a relationship for the other, but the thing is he always said that he has no heart and can't love anyone, and ruqu believed it blindly, where in future when she would come to know that she, all her life believed a lie and that so from her beloved one, she will be totally devastated.. But one can't help as Jalal can't generate the feelings own whichfor ruku he has for Jodha..


Pallavi, But Jalal didnt lie that he dont have heart right, tahts what he believed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Joja

Pallavi, But Jalal didnt lie that he dont have heart right, tahts what he believed.


I am saying from ruku's POV, she would think that Jalal lied to her all her life..
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Posted: 11 years ago
Sandhya look at the reverse situation in the case of Draupadi in Mahabharat. There she was wedded to Arjun and having given him her heart too and ended up marrying all the 5 brothers and having to treat them equally!!! Is it even possible for humans???

Even Krishna, despite his being God, in his human avatar could not do it!!! Yet he did treat all his wives with equal favor - who did he love or love more??? When He spent time with Satya did that mean he loved her more??? And when He spent time with Rukmini did that mean he loved her more???? Satya did want all of Krishna and her grouse was Rukmini all along since 'in her mind' Krishna loved Rukmini more!!! Abb jab Bhagwan hi nahin bach paaye aurat ki soch se toh Jalal toh insaan hai uski kya majaal!!!
Edited by adianasr - 11 years ago

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