Yes, but you see Abhi, as was made clear during the Smiley phase, it is Jalal who always says he hates the word
mohabbat, and is glad that their relationship is not based on that. At that time, it was shown that Ruqaiya loves Jalal, but is afraid to let him know it and very likely put him off. Since then, the character of Ruqaiya has changed, but this basic premise should still stand.
For me the problem is not with this, but with the nature of the Jalal-Jodha relationship. After you read this post, I have revised the last part as follows. See how much you like it, or do not like it.
I am glad you are with me on the trust vs proof issue.
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If that happens, folks, you can heave a sigh of relief, for I am out of here.
I was prepared for this amar prem being unbalanced, with Jalal as the lover and Jodha as the beloved. Good for her, and I never thought her capable of any great romantic passion any way. For Jodha, no man will come ahead of her Ameri parivaar.
But a man of straw, a Shahenshah who is prepared to stand insaaf on its head because he cannot see Jodha weep, would turn me off for good. I despise men who become like poodles when they fall in love.
Moreover, as Sandhya pointed out elsewhere, Jalal's grey cells might have functi0ned this once, but only because it concerned Jodha, like the time when he spotted the dirt under the murdered Hakima's nails. They do not seem to work in any other context, and Sharifuddin in the kaal kotri is better informed about the dangers threatening Jalal than he is.
Moreover, this yoyo exercise, with one of the two leads alternating as the idiot in residence, is beginning to be tiring. And an anaemic, oscillating relationship, that seems to anchored in the man's weakness, not his strength, and the woman's blindness, does not seem, at least to me, to be the stuff of epic romance.
This will very likely sound sacrilegious to the 98% here who are now in ecstasies over The Look (everything about Jalal and Jodha seems to need capitalisation these days: The Shove, The Handhold, and now The Look!) that a tearful, departing Jodha, and a Jalal trying hard to look ruthless and ending up looking as it he was made of soft marzipan, exchanged last night.
But give me Viraf Patel's Mrityunjay in Ek Boond Ishq, and his Tara any day! The screen is literally lit up by their deep, total emotional dependence on each other, and their desperate caring for each other. No one else exists for either of them. That is le grand amour, not this amar prem that is forever in the making. Alas, Viraf is reportedly quitting that show soon for Bollywood. Good things, it seems, never last!
Shyamala B.Cowsik
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Originally posted by: abhi786
Shyamala.. Yes it was not blind trust Jalaal has on Jodha, but the evidence showed him, that Jodha is innocent & doesn't know anything about Shivani love...
Yes Ruqu questions are right, even Jalaal knows that, he is chasing jodha, that's why he didn't answer her..
But will Ruqu able to answer Jalaal questions ?
Ruqu allways gave importance to the Jalaal - Shahansha. not the husband Jalaal ? Will she love him & care for him only leaving her auda ? He still doesn't have that emotional connect with Ruqu, who is his best friend & spend more than 10 years together ..
Now Ruqu started seeing JJ relationship particularly from Jalaal's side. Waiting to see will jalaal bring back shivani-tejvir and what BM punishment...
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