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Originally posted by: myviewprem
Jalal never realizes that ruqaiah has not married him o be his best friend. There is a huge difference between best friends and husband. Some one like hoshiyar and salima or later on jodha are rquaiah's best friends. Woman usually have women only as best friends a man and woman usually do not become best friends even in 21st century they can just be friends not best friends. Because the way men and women think are different.Jalal cannot be best friend he is only an husband. If jalal had told her before he wanted only best friend not wife ruqaiah may have found a better HUSBAND. Just playing shatranj, paheli, consoling her when angry, giving her lavish gifts and palace etc does not make anyone an husband or best friend. Jalal has not taken time to understand how she feels when he has so many women in his life after her. Has he ever asked her do i have permission to marry anoher wife? etc nooo. So he is neither doing duty of best friend or husband both.
Ruqaiyya really is an interesting character both in history and in this show. Pity she has to be sidelined for a while during the love story. But if they stick to history, she will in the end be rewarded for her loyalty to Jalal no matter what.
Ruqs was unfortunately a sorry figure both in reel life and in history. Pick up the history books, her description hardly goes beyond her being the first wife of Akbar. Mostly mentioned only for the sake of it. It is only Salima and Jodha who are highlighted. Whatever myviewprem has written is right. She was isolated and lonely. She didn't even want to be buried in Agra where she spent almost all her life.
Originally posted by: myviewprem
She was but so what in those days boys stayed with their mothers/gaurdian only till age of 12 and then they stayed in mens quarters. There were seperate men's quarters where by stayed after 12 and also they went to war etc so they were not like modern times where sons stay till 23-25 with parents till studies is over.
I'm not arguing the point. Am just asking. At least she was given some recognition in that set up and was trusted with an heir. But I agree that she has lots of reasons to feel alone.
Originally posted by: myviewprem
Yes but here is another tragedy and wrong decision by AkbarKhurram was only child of Jodha Bai of Jodhpur. How would Jodha Bai have felt? imagineHer only baby born after 10 years marriage to Salim with so many manat's snatched within 10 days of birth from her and given to ruqaiah?How will jehangir feel his son (whom he later on loved the most may be because he was taken away from him and his wife as a baby) cannot stay with father and mother in his house?I read somewhere Ruqaiah allowed Jodha and Jehangir to meet Khurram only 2-3 hours in a week under supervision. May be insecurity that Khurram will get close to his parents?When Jehangir went in rebellion as a measure of appeasment of jehangir, Akbar told Ruqaiah to allow jodha to meet him more often and without supervision.So ruqaiah was anyways childless for many years but he made jodha bai also childless for life. How heartbroken and devastating that must have been for a mother?
I'm not arguing the point. Am just asking. At least she was given some recognition in that set up and was trusted with an heir. But I agree that she has lots of reasons to feel alone.