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but the gift idea was really good. I loved the depth and effort put by Jalal in thinking of that gift which meant so much for Jodha. đđź for this.
The only moment that stood out for me was when he gifted Jodha the box and waited to see how she reacted and when he asked her gingerly about the gift whether she liked it or not later in the court.
I have major problems with Jodha's attitude, she has no idea about the concept of "gratitude". She put up a lot of argument in accepting a gift, ok I will give her that. She was not interested in the gift just seeing the gift box, she judged the book by its cover, still I will let it go. But I couldn't stop myself from applauding Jalal when he told her even if one doesn't like a gift people accept it because of the thought and feelings that lies behind it. All I expected from her was a mere 'thank you' even if she didn't mean it.
And even after she looked at the gift and went and sat in the celebration in the court why did Jalal have to ask her whether she liked it or not? Why couldn't she volunteer herself in showing her gratitude? CV's do something about this, she was not a commoner from the road who doesn't know the etiquette of civil or royal society. She was a princess for heaven's sake and the least she can do is show her gratitude on her own without being probed.
I liked her expressing her gratitude so genuinely and warmly from her heart when asked by Jalal. At least she was generous in returning her thanks.
Rest as I have always felt and said I am not watching a show of Jalal vs. Jodha. For me they are one team, 2 sides of the same coin. Today I am disappointed with both of them. I know under the circumstances it is inevitable to think of the other as the culprit or one to be blamed but I somehow, after all that they have gone through, couldn't fathom the mistrust they heaped on each other in one second.
Jodha immediately jumped to the conclusion that Jalal has invaded her 'izzat, maan, lajja' without her permission and even lied about it to her when asked knowing how and every time he has always kept him promise and word no matter when, where or under what circumstances. I understand her dilemma here and the feel of humiliation and mortification she felt for her self respect. But nevertheless it hurts to see how little she understands him.
And I am more disappointed with Jalal today. Its a bigger insult to a woman whether she is a commoner or a queen when fingers are pointed at her character without any justification. Yes he didn't point a finger at her in public or in front of his family but he immediately jumped to the conclusion to himself that she is having someone else's child. Again Jalal, you know how upright, righteous, straight forward and rigid Jodha is about her principles, honor and character...then how could you think that she can have an illicit relationship with some one else? Yes the doctor can be wrong, they are not gods but knowing Jodha that insinuation even in his mind was a big slap on his own character and perception.
Sorry both went down in my eyes today. CV's this is what you do every time, you built up a couple to unattainable affection and popularity and then you just pull the ground from under our feet in one instant by defaming them and showing they can go to unthinkable low with their thoughts, actions and reactions.
Anyway will just wait and watch without commenting much till you turn them around for better. Just hope after this twist both Jalal and Jodha will know to trust one another and will have that unshakable faith that no matter what they will never stoop low with their promise, character and honor and will have that deserving respect for each other.
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