Originally posted by: Dibya_C
This...this is the point! Ani had paid..he is paying..he will be paying for his delayed decisions and excessive sympathy and guilt for Arshi..He paid for prioritising Arshi's case over Jhanak's by losing Jhanak for life...He paid for not prioritising Jhanak over Arshi by being tied to Arshi and being constantly bullied, bashed and humiliated by his family, Jhanak and Arshi..but the two girls are not paying for their respective treatment of Ani..Jhanak is content with her man se pati stance..how man se pati is living, under what conditions, that doesn't matter to her...Arshi knew Ani doesn't love her and still went ahead with impregnation using unfair means to force him to be with her...and she fulfilled her plan..whatever she is getting is what she asked for ..Arshi not getting Ani in any form would have been her karma..she is not received her karma..so the point is Ani is the one who is at worst place when karmic considerations are compared among the three..
Irony is that he is being punished for having excessive empathy and guilt towards all the ungrateful leeches he is surrounded by....lol amazing, no? He is being punished for showing so much empathy towards someone he doesn't even have basic friendship and companionship with. Everyone keeps bringing up that he stopped Arshi from leaving....but then everyone forgets makers gave the reason for it that he did it out of pity for Arshi...he had a monologue next day saying he felt bad for Arshi so he stopped her from leaving...is sab mein Ani ko khud kahaan kuch milaa?
All the statements he's made about trying to move on with Arshi each time Jhanak has left his life either via faking her death or in some other disappearing manner, none of those statements have had anything for himself....uski khushi kahaan hoti hai? He shifts gears to trying to make others happy always and still gets relentlessly bullied, bashed and humiliated for it from all sides.....from people who will never take any personal responsibility for themselves but will be first in line to berate him for even trying to do anything for their happiness....lol
He talks about dil do hisso mein bantaa hai....that second hissa is always empathy and him TRYING to love others in order to make THEM happy....lol usmein iski khud ki khushi kahaan hoti hai? Jiske saath iski khushi hai, that also he's told everyone clearly but he is constantly shamed for that....because people want to gloat over keeping him as a personal slave who is not allowed to think about his own happiness at all. The sad part is that Ani ki sense of self-worth is so low that he doesn't even question this arrangement where his own personal happiness is made to feel like a paap constantly by everyone around him.
There is no one in Ani's life to tell him that he doesn't owe anyone SO much in guilt that apni puri life slave banke guzaar do with someone you don't even have basic friendship and compatibility with.
Instead the narrative is constantly kept focused on the two pathetic women who play dumb as if their lives are beholden to Ani's decisions. The excuse is always that Ani ne mujhe baandh ke rakha hai as if he has forced either of them to stay with him.....lol.....ek ko 1000 baar bol chuka hai you are welcome to leave if you want but woh jaati nahin.....dusri ko bas plead karta hai not to go but never stops her physically from leaving....so is sab mein Ani kaise ban gaya only culprit for the situation? lol it's all about willful blindness from all these people who want to pretend that a hollow shell existence is some normal way of living....jinko apne hi ghar ke bete ki eyes ki permanent sadness se koi farak nahin padta but are always busy bashing him for supposedly letting down someone....lol
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