Originally posted by: sanfan
Yeh hum nahin keh rahe hain
Leena keh rahe hain AY… if they believe in that rishta they have to stake it isn’t it? Ristedaar won’t cut it right! Personally I care a hang about labels - love is love for me!!
I don’t know if you referring to the part of yeh rishta kya Kehlata hain in my post but what I meant was about what these two feel about it!!
Yeh rishte waali baat is a topic diversion in my opinion. And no, I wasn’t referring to your post regarding this.
Nina and I were discussing two basic points:
a) Jhanak’s ungrateful bratty attitude which is consistent regardless of any situation. The fact that she is ready to run away to Mumbai even when Ani isn’t doing anything other than trying to give her general support in a crisis situation and here also her need to insult even his basic humanity is bigger than everything else.
b) The excuse that is made each time that J’s insults of Ani are justified cuz he asked Arshi to stay one time when he thought J was dead. The eagerness to kill all context regarding Ani’s actions even when Leena is clearly showing them in the story for once is remarkable lol and meanwhile on the other hand, there is no context or basis for J’s pathetic behavior but people are rushing to justify it with flimsy excuses as if she herself doesn’t threaten Ani to stay with Arshi. Memory loss problem bas Arshi didi ko nahin hai yahan 
We weren’t even discussing this from the POV of Runak ka kya rishta hai. That excuse was randomly brought in to again divert the discussion from calling out J’s pathetic behavior. Lol jab kuch bacha hi na ho to defend toh direct bol do ki koi rishta hai hi nahin so J is right in how she talks to Ani 🤷♀️😂
I don’t even care about Runak ki shaadi or reunion or whatever. I was simply discussing her pathetic behavior with Ani even on a general humanity level and no, I don’t feel in this situation this is looking anything like “pati patni ki nok jhonk”. Jhanak talks to Ani like he’s some dog she can kick around. Starting to trend into Arshi didi territory then if makers don’t check how they are portraying Jhanak 🤷♀️
It’s so funny how much people outraged when Ani talked crap to Jhanak during her pregnancy track but when J treats Ani like some he’s some naukar of hers, people are like oh it’s totally justified cuz there is no relationship only? lol ok 🤷♀️
And I have never personally understood why people cry so much over J going to BH. Why even root for Runak if you can’t deal with the BH mess? Ani can’t magically be separated from that so easily. And J who otherwise mouths off to people so easily suddenly acting so chicken about going to BH even for a bit looks so lame. But people start justifying her cowardice over that also. If you love someone, you have to deal with their family also. Jhanak’s fundas of disjointed love ki bas bolne ko bol do I love this person but his problems are not my problems and I’m not impacted by him in any way - ismein kaunsa love hai? 🤷♀️
This visual of Ani always fighting BH vampires alone to either defend Jhanak or try to help her and Jhanak always acting so indifferent to his pain and struggles, or dismissing his help in an ungrateful manner is not a good look for the so called heroine of this show.
Edited by AreYaar - 12 months ago
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