Originally posted by: MayaFruitbae
I have a doubt girls ,
The mental depression Jhanak has is understood. At this young age she is constantly been under bad situations .Life threatening , insults ,loneliness , taunts everything ...I do get that well
But my thing is doesn't Anirudh too have this mental struggle , even if it is not in this category , wont he too be feeling sad and depressed . I dont know if it is depression or some other words , but wont he too be affected ???.
I am very much emotionally invested when it comes to relationships ..If a person whom I love hurts me , it affect me so much ..even for days . It remains with me I take time to even forget that .May be I dont forget also but forgive...And the pain it gives is irrespective of what my family is doing for me or other happiness .
So cant he be feeling the same hurt and sadness which effects his mind too...
Why is that not being considered any time ?
How can we compare Jhanak has gone through much tough state so her sadness is more ?
Anirudh is privileged and so his pian is less?
The pain and sadness is the same irrespective of the privileges naa., it all depends on your mind .
Just because he shuts everyone and is savage can he be more strong with mind than Jhanak.
Or is she more strong having faced tough situations ..
It is a confused day , so confusing everyone more ๐ค๐ค๐ป๐ค๐ป
This has nothing to do with Anirudh being my favourite , its a general question as its in my mind for long time
Thought of asking as I saw few posts on depression today..
They have shown him to be emotionally less intelligent due to the disconnect he feels with his immediate family! Heโs been living in a cocoon all the way and has learnt ( or forced to) keep all his feelings to himself!..
When heโs with Jhanak it comes out, he is shown to be very vulnerable .. as she is sensitive towards his feelings.. his calm demeanour is broken , becomes delirious erratic even and tends to go on a self destructive mode if he faces rejection or negativity from her!
Jhanak has lived in tougher situations and thus has been trained by situations or circumstances to be strong I guess! After her momโs passing sheโs lonely and ani stepped in! But what is she getting in bargain for that? Insults, hurt, and life threatening situations constantly ! I m surprised that sheโs still not broken down to be a total wreck!!
Being in love with each other has compounded their problems or mental sufferings rather.. and yet , they donโt want to let go of each other๐ฅบ poor things! I hope makers show a happy phase in their relationship..
So to answer your question both of them are sailing in.the same boat and this is what connects them to form a deep bond.. itโs quite sad.. ๐
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