Maturity - Page 3

well vasam & vishakha, i agree with u 😊 and wud love to let u know that this post wasn't created abt either jassi / shveta.. peace is indeed the right thing to focus on. who wants to dwell on the results of their reality and popularity , SMS capacity show ?

as someone said, who cares about people barking loudly?.. empty vessels make bigger noise, so the lesson for me & other shveta fans is to learn here is IGNORING the barking.

qt

Originally posted by: tina59

this was the exact kind of reaction I expected from you and this just proves my point with ur post that people do get offended with ur post too and thats exactly what happened.

see i never meant anyof the things that u wrote above and U have taken it in a completely different context ,thats what happened with others too with ur post when they read them .

so chill and peace , I realise that its no use fighting and so I forward my apologies if i hurt you mermaid and lets just bury the htchet and just forget the whole thing and we'll never cross path again in this forum ............

I hope u will accept it and forget it ......ok

buffie.....u are a sweetheart and esp with ur final post in the "r u serious" thread and it made a lot of sense .....thanks

stay cool tina. i also made a big deal out of ur bark post just bcos u jumped at my moo post. seriously, even if u called me a bitch, i cannot care lesser. 😆😆i was also making a point that ppl use animal terms when angry and they r not to be taken seriously based on history of the poster.. anyway, let us ignore each other.
and yes, buffie is a sweetheart. The post got locked b4 i cud thank her.

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

stay cool tina. i also made a big deal out of ur bark post just bcos u jumped at my moo post. seriously, even if u called me a bitch, i cannot care lesser. 😆😆i was also making a point that ppl use animal terms when angry and they r not to be taken seriously based on history of the poster.. anyway, let us ignore each other.
and yes, buffie is a sweetheart. The post got locked b4 i cud thank her.

cool, you know what ,I wouldnt even think abt calling anyone anything offensive or an any animal for that matter,Thats not the way I am and thats not the way I want to debate either . so forget it .

I know you wouldnt care but I ceratainly did when i read that post of urs ....and it did offend me if it wasnt intended for me ........

but then thats the best thing to do,ignore each others post and just be cordial but still I am sad tht the bond we had is broken and I am entitled to feel bad abt it

hi tina! well i dunno about feeling bad.

if u knew me, u wouldn;t have judged me. I don;t feel sorry a bit. i don;t feel sorry about having said what i said. it was not hurled at u/ hippi and the ppl it was hurled at, seriously needed to hear that, even if it got me banned forget a warning!

ppl who know me and bonded with me don;t question me to the extent both of u did. for hippi, i even had to pull the post of the ABUSIVE FAN she apparently accused me of having imagined. "Does this fan have a name?" was her remark. I pulled a thread showing he/she got banned.
that remark did it for me. that is the reason i am really not a bit sorry our bond is broken. well, we both have abundant friends. i appreciate ur feelings though. heartfelt thnx for that.
ONE REQUEST. please continue to ignore me as i am not political. i am very straight forward and just to back someone, i dont support them in everything. i call them bad when they do bad things. i don;t intend to, but may hurt u again by misunderstanding.. for any such unintentional future posts, i apologize to u and hence request u to ignore me for good . Good luck and enjoy the forums! I want to be the same JOVIAL self on the forum and that will be good for everyone
mermaid_QT

qt 😃

Originally posted by: tina59

cool, you know what ,I wouldnt even think abt calling anyone anything offensive or an any animal for that matter,Thats not the way I am and thats not the way I want to debate either . so forget it .

I know you wouldnt care but I ceratainly did when i read that post of urs ....and it did offend me if it wasnt intended for me ........

but then thats the best thing to do,ignore each others post and just be cordial but still I am sad tht the bond we had is broken and I am entitled to feel bad abt it

you know what,the main problem is that Indians per se lack sense of humour...someone called me a pig too😆,I just didnt care....Its better to be a nice sweet little dirty pig rather than being a conniving shrewd fake human😃..Animals are cute😳,much better than human beings😃.....Like I could have made a huge hue and cry about it,bashed more,called in the mods etc...But,why all that trouble,if someone feels satisfied by calling me a pig,I allow them to have that satisfaction....because I wouldnt become a pig only because someone called me that😆....and actually,ever since that,Me and my sister have been playing the "oink oink moo moo" game😆....Certain things are humourous to some,offensive to others...I find humour in most of the things(except when it gets a bit too personal and too derogatory),even if someone calls me "pathetic",I laugh it off...I mean,I dont care about things,and its much easier when we harbour this dont care attitude,it leads to less fights,less heartburns

QT is a person with an amazing sense of humour,and this can be seen form her very old posts too....As I said,certain things are humourous to some,offensive to others..Its all in the perception,and the full purpose of forgiving is achieved only when one tries to forget about the incident...I would have fought with so many people,now If I keep all those grouses in my mind,I wouldnt have anyone at IF to talk to,or debate with.....Lets forgive and forget,its better for everyone...WHy let a reality show and our views about it ruin friendships,so LETS FORGIVE...Because,if no one is unyielding,then we all shoudl have antagonized each other,let the bad blood get the better of the maturity....LET SOME WATER FLOW UNDER THE BRIDGE.,.....

MORE WATER FLOWS UNDER THE BRIDGE

MORE WATER FLOWS UNDER THE BRIDGE

TRUCE!...FRIENDS AGAIN.....NO HARD FEELINGS.....🤗...LEts all move on,enough of bickering and quibbling,even I've gotton over my profuse grief,high time looking forward to dhoom,and QT,abhi ash forever,Ash is the lovliest angel in the universe,😆😉😆

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

hi tina! well i dunno about feeling bad.

if u knew me, u wouldn;t have judged me. I don;t feel sorry a bit. i don;t feel sorry about having said what i said. it was not hurled at u/ hippi and the ppl it was hurled at, seriously needed to hear that, even if it got me banned forget a warning!

ppl who know me and bonded with me don;t question me to the extent both of u did. for hippi, i even had to pull the post of the ABUSIVE FAN she apparently accused me of having imagined. "Does this fan have a name?" was her remark. I pulled a thread showing he/she got banned.
that remark did it for me. that is the reason i am really not a bit sorry our bond is broken. well, we both have abundant friends. i appreciate ur feelings though. heartfelt thnx for that.
ONE REQUEST. please continue to ignore me as i am not political. i am very straight forward and just to back someone, i dont support them in everything. i call them bad when they do bad things. i don;t intend to, but may hurt u again by misunderstanding.. for any such unintentional future posts, i apologize to u and hence request u to ignore me for good . Good luck and enjoy the forums! I want to be the same JOVIAL self on the forum and that will be good for everyone
mermaid_QT

qt 😃

fine, I respect ur views and will do that

nad yes continue to be jovial ........

lastly, the mere fact that myself and hippi replied and felt bad abt ur post was that we knew you for a year and it was shocking for us to read ur post with such hurtful words ,even if it wasnt intended for us.

as i said ,the people who know you well would def be surprised and shocked (in a negative way) with ur response .and thats exactly what happened .

I think we arent in the same page,U write things bcoz they did the same to you and I dont do it coz my conscience doesnt allow me to use any harsh language towards anyone and if I did ,I apologise with my heart and regret doing so .

yeah its better that we be cordial and not cross paths with regards to post in this forum . I would think,we would be a lot more better in the JJKN forum 😃

OH MY SWEET BUFFIE!! there u r again! this time, i get to thank u b4 the thread is locked..

For u, i can hug even ASH 😡 cos i love u so much 😃 😃
🤗 🤗 pardon the fish stink everyone..😆 😆

peace is fine with me. mermaids are supposed to sing and swim.. so i am moving back into calm waters.. i will surely find u there.
i watched KANK last night .. i totally LOWED abhi.. sooooooo much! i was so surprised, that i even liked the movie JUST BECOS of abhi. i felt like slapping my super favorite rani for not loving him 😆 😆

also HR is looking super hot in dhoom2. just enjoying this break with all these movies . my hubby hates HINDI tv and movies.. good that i have company, but i can barely drool sitting in between my folks. 😳 they will question my marriage nah.. 😆 😆 😆
ok, now this is spamming, so on a loving note.. tata bye bye c ya all . thanks for support and sorry for commotion.

qt didi

Tina aap bahuti samajadar hoon ..really 👏 we've all been trying to point out that a reality show is just a money making scheme and fighting won't make the results any different but people continued on relentlessly. But its good to see that everyone has come to terms with it. and since everyone does agree on being cordial and that this is a public forum, everyone that felt the urge to say something because according to them it had to be said, or someone was going out of line, or they needed to clarify something thats fine. lets draw the line here and remember that this is a global forum and there are doctors &politicians / indians and people who are not remotely related even to the south asian sub continent but are mesmerized by its culture. so for future posts lets keep that in mind i will personally do that. 😃 -PEACE

That's right XANE. i know that there are ppl from differennt walks of life and continents. IN fact, one of the threads where each one of u in this thread had laughed and joked and commented and supported NEGATIVE COMMENTS about shilpa shetty.. taken the things to an EXTREME of calling shilpa a DUMB BLONDE for her judging ability / lack of it.. my sister in law, who happens to be a blonde, and a very accomplished scientist working on alzheimers read it and we discussed whether all indians were narrow minded / just few..
Ponder on what u write and peace will be sought easily. it doesn;t end by patting someone's back.. their RESPONSES and POSTS remain in the forum for others to judge.

😆 😆 😆
anyway, for buffie, and for the warning, i have stopped this. UR SAMAJDAREE post reminded me of all of u guys' dumb blonde post. like i said, either jump at me , or just PONDER in peace.. 😆 c ya xane..

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

That's right XANE. i know that there are ppl from differennt walks of life and continents. IN fact, one of the threads where each one of u in this thread had laughed and joked and commented and supported NEGATIVE COMMENTS about shilpa shetty.. taken the things to an EXTREME of calling shilpa a DUMB BLONDE for her judging ability / lack of it.. my sister in law, who happens to be a blonde, and a very accomplished scientist working on alzheimers read it and we discussed whether all indians were narrow minded / just few..
Ponder on what u write and peace will be sought easily. it doesn;t end by patting someone's back.. their RESPONSES and POSTS remain in the forum for others to judge.

😆 😆 😆
anyway, for buffie, and for the warning, i have stopped this. UR SAMAJDAREE post reminded me of all of u guys' dumb blonde post. like i said, either jump at me , or just PONDER in peace.. 😆 c ya xane..

😆😆are you serious..this is why i tell you that u and ur friends never stop..and to think that someone "as accomplished as you are" with so much to do would actually have some reasoning and logic ..mind you humor doesnt always work with people who aren't at all interested in knowing you. the dumb blonde post wasnt posted by me..I didn't support that i remember quite well what i wrote..that she didnt pronounce rumba right and she probably doesnt know how to dance it..the bimbette etc was commented by someone else..this is why i say if you invested your animosity , energy, and time in some medical research you could be the next marie curie and make india proud..so before bolstering how about you ponder and check IF JDK forum and ull find that most conflictual posts were started either by you or one of your friends..so nip picking..don't think so. and btw cows and politicians are not in the same pedestial maybe in your eyes..train to dance on that.