Maturity - Page 2

Mermaid honestly i honestly don't think any of us are in a position to judge who is biased and who is not. I mean i could call you biased and that you're not truly rooting for shveta based on her dancing merits even if you swear you are..so why argue and banter, when truly people vote for whoever they want and that's their own personal preference, whether its for the dance, for the smile, for anything under the sun..does that make them anything less than human? does that make them an animal..I don't think so..its not right.and its not funny, and the sad part is that it was repetitive. you can't compare calling people cows to calling someone a politician (conveying your ability to debate, and argue) or whatever names or characteristics people have exchanged in the forum, and you also can not take things that have been said about Shveta in media articles personally, especially when people that are not her fans react to them, Mona fans do the same. The whole thing has been stretched far beyond its limits..and the same things are being said again and again in so many posts in different ways. if youd appreciate someone calling you a lazy cow for voting for shveta because you believe she's truly deserving or whatever reason it is then i cant argue with you, but once a statement is made you can't really differentiate and say i meant these people and not those. remember you were the one who said this is a public forum and your words are going to generate reactions. but beyond Shveta and Mona..this is a great show, lets try and keep this a friendly forum.

Originally posted by: xaneroyxx

Mermaid honestly i honestly don't think any of us are in a position to judge who is biased and who is not. I mean i could call you biased and that you're not truly rooting for shveta based on her dancing merits even if you swear you are..so why argue and banter, when truly people vote for whoever they want and that's their own personal preference, whether its for the dance, for the smile, for anything under the sun..does that make them anything less than human? does that make them an animal..I don't think so..its not right.and its not funny, and the sad part is that it was repetitive. you can't compare calling people cows to calling someone a politician (conveying your ability to debate, and argue) or whatever names or characteristics people have exchanged in the forum, and you also can not take things that have been said about Shveta in media articles personally, especially when people that are not her fans react to them, Mona fans do the same. The whole thing has been stretched far beyond its limits..and the same things are being said again and again in so many posts in different ways. if youd appreciate someone calling you a lazy cow for voting for shveta because you believe she's truly deserving or whatever reason it is then i cant argue with you, but once a statement is made you can't really differentiate and say i meant these people and not those. remember you were the one who said this is a public forum and your words are going to generate reactions. but beyond Shveta and Mona..this is a great show, lets try and keep this a friendly forum.

COWS are better than politicians.. anyone will agree 😆😆

I was never afraid of the reactions and still am not. @ ppl calling me immature, doesn;t make me that. I seriously don;t care. My accomplishments in the real world can speak for themselves.. 😆 Like I said, I am seeing a pattern her, PARTCULARLY WITH A PARTICULAR POSTER, to call others immature, nit pick every word they say and find sort of joy in that.. That my friend, is unacceptable. Once again, it is their life, their forum life and themselves. Cannot care any lesser.. BUT FORUM IS FOR ALL.. and one cannot call others IMMATURE cos they don;t blindly support ur choice. One has to be EINSTEIN or a person proven to have substance for me to worship him / her that much!
xane, well thanks and i am done for now, i have to cook. 😆😆😆 U enjoy the forum. see u later- alligator.. (this is once again not calling u animal 😆 just a saying) i love to be funny.. can;t help.

QT

Originally posted by: xaneroyxx

In reply to tina i completely agree with you that it was a smart strategy , I didn't vote and I have never watched Jassi, but contestants go all out to garner votes in all shows, if you check the Nach Baliye forum you'll find articles about contestants buying 150 sim cards to the public so that they can vote for them, that too is approved by the channel! People I think appeal to communalism more than anything, they appeal to what people like, and Mona kind of had the upper hand with a very successful show (god i didn't even know it was that successful..why was i so stuck on KYPH-the Iqbal effect i guess) but anyway it would have been completely valid for Shveta if roles were reversed. now that results are out and the show is over, we can only anticipate the next one and talk about something else..😃

hey xeno ,just ignore ,I dont think we have to waste our words for such mindless thoughts. I think the people are sensible enough to make their own choices and accept other peoples choices as well.

let the people bark the loudest but the FACT remains that Mona won and she has the JDJ championship for which these 8 contestants competed for the last 8 weeks............

as someone said empty vessels make more noise so simply ignore

no offense to anyone ...............

Originally posted by: tina59

hey xeno ,just ignore ,I dont think we have to waste our words for such mindless thoughts. I think the people are sensible enough to make their own choices and accept other peoples choices as well.

let the people bark the loudest but the FACT remains that Mona won and she has the JDJ championship for which these 8 contestants competed for the last 8 weeks............

as someone said empty vessels make more noise so simply ignore

no offense to anyone ...............

SO U r calling me a DOG / BITCH NOW??
U Cannot practize what u preach??
TCH TCH TCH..
just by saying no offense to anyon, doesn;t make it less offensive . If you are not a cow, then I am not a dog. I don;t bark, so mind ur language.

qt

Peace,please.The deed is done.The format was based on voting and viting gave us the result.Shveta has better things awaiting her.Mona won legitimately as per the rules.Even the few who didnt watch Jassi show knew who Mona was while very few knew Shveta.Now all JDJ viwers and people know Shveta.

Mermaid QT, the comment of Tina is merely a phrase in english, on who barks loudest. She has not implied anything of the kind, as you have posted there. Request you to please keep your cool and post decently.

Message for everyone.

Please do not make personal attacks. If someone likes Jassi, their choice. Someone does not like, again their choice. Bottom line, choice is subjective and nothing is perfectly right or perfectly wrong. The thin line dividing the perfect right and wrong is what is called LIFE.

So chill out and keep peace

thanks priya. i knew this all along and will act on it by IGNORING hurtful comments.
i am just tad bit irritated by the miss goody goody plastic attitude prevalent under the label of "maturity". sorry. when it comes to their dislikes, they will not even refrain from badmouthing JUDGES who have been invited on the show as authority. that is precisely what bothers me.
i will ignore such posters hence forth. i apologize for the trouble caused.

mqt

Originally posted by: tina59

first of all ,pls do not generalise by saying jassi fans,as far as I know ,there were many in this forum who havent watched jassi but liked Mona . the other fact is tht there are many who voted for Mona not jassi and if she did win having the jassi image ,whats wrong .She was jassi and lived like jassi so why not make use of it ,if she is able to garner votes ,why not ,thats a very smart strategy and I am sure if svetha had done jassi,she would have played the same card and she would have got many votes bcoz of that .

whats the big deal in that . I am happy that she was jassi and I am glad that she used it to her advantage to get votes . The format doesnt stop her from doing that and she worked hard for jassi so whats wrong in taking somethig or credit for jassi .

anyway , AS i said,Mona was the eprfect winner,she had the talent,the dancing skills, loved by the junta and charming personality to go with it . Its sad but svetha didnt have luck in that dept .Its not enough to be the best ,one should connect with the audience and after watching so many reality shows, its very very obvious

Aww!! I love you tina!!!!!!!!!😳😳

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

SO U r calling me a DOG / BITCH NOW??
U Cannot practize what u preach??
TCH TCH TCH..
just by saying no offense to anyon, doesn;t make it less offensive . If you are not a cow, then I am not a dog. I don;t bark, so mind ur language.

qt

this was the exact kind of reaction I expected from you and this just proves my point with ur post that people do get offended with ur post too and thats exactly what happened.

see i never meant anyof the things that u wrote above and U have taken it in a completely different context ,thats what happened with others too with ur post when they read them .

so chill and peace , I realise that its no use fighting and so I forward my apologies if i hurt you mermaid and lets just bury the htchet and just forget the whole thing and we'll never cross path again in this forum ............

I hope u will accept it and forget it ......ok

buffie.....u are a sweetheart and esp with ur final post in the "r u serious" thread and it made a lot of sense .....thanks

Originally posted by: vasamv

Peace,please.The deed is done.The format was based on voting and viting gave us the result.Shveta has better things awaiting her.Mona won legitimately as per the rules.Even the few who didnt watch Jassi show knew who Mona was while very few knew Shveta.Now all JDJ viwers and people know Shveta.

agree with you. Mona won by the rules. Whether she is perfect or not lies in the eyes of beholders. She was not the BEST of the show if you go by the scores. That too if you want to respect judges opinion.
People knew mona since her Jassi days and that woked in her favor and her popularity bridged the gap between her score and shveta's score.
Shveta has all the talent and she will go miles (provided she gets the right godfather at right time.)