Why I respect Baichung & Sonia

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Kasturilover

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Posted: 16 years ago

This is not to offend anyone. I am expressing my opinion, and well within the IF codes of conduct. So please, if you do not agree, feel free to ignore me.

Whether people agree with me or not I want to say this. I am not canvassing for votes for Baichung. He and Sonia do not need that. Because they have won already.👏👏 All through the past weeks.

Whether a TRP or a few voters agree or not is besides the point.

My point is that somewhere as individuals, we must not forget the effort, the dignity and the character of someone, only coz we want a stupid gimmick filled dance show to show us more of such gimmicks!!!!

It does not matter whether Baichung got 2 or 3 or 29 or 30. What matters is that every episode he arrives quitely, does what he is paid to do , that is Dance to the best of his ability, and leaves.

No maa ki laadli, dostana, aanso bhari aankhen, mein ek sant naari hun, mujshe parathe bananey sikhao, mara jaadoo chal gaya stuff!!!!😆.

Its very convenient for people to make fun of him and be downright rude. Perhaps because Bhaichung is the only contestant to have not relied on any of his personal story to sell himself.

And more importantly same goes for Sonia, no teddy bears, fights, frustration stuff, bad words filled language. When perhaps Sonia has the biggest reason to be disgruntled and hateful towards the world😭😭😭. This woman was raped. Get It. Some guy tore her phisically and mentally. Sonia did not create issues and blamed the world or come everyday with a handkerchief. She comes, does her job and goes.

She did not voluntarily go and stay with a gangster who almost blew half of Mumbai in the bomb blasts and if he was not caught then right now would have done much more damage. There are tapes with the Indian CBI playing their lovey dovey conversation, even when they were in jail. If anyone here wants to challenge this fact and is in doubt, first try searching Google.

And while we are at it, I have seen many people get agitated and write about their loveeeee for their country.😆😆, especially India After every terror attack people go and light candles. GREAT👏👏

And then what do they do to a "a boy living in Far East India' village who then made it as a top league sportperson, a national Arjuna award winner, an Asean award winner, an icon as far as Indian football is concerned"

Fry him on coals, and loose no opportunity to say he is a nobody compared to the chocolates around.😭😭 All this just because he didnt practice and hang around with the others to see cheap gimmicks and fights.😭😭

I think people should stop angling the wrong fish. And shooting a cardboard target like Baichung, who does not retaliate in return.

The fault if any for Baichung being in Calcutta and not Mumbai is Sony Entertainment Television'. Not Baichung'

Baichung and Sonia is what is called CLASS, DIGNITY, IDOLS and pride of India👏👏

The rest of them, leaving apart Mohinderji, can float in the ivory tower made up of channel, media and fan bubble.😆

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LabRat34

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Posted: 16 years ago

I really appreciate your respect for Sonia and Baichung and I certainly have a tremendous amount of it myself.

I haven't myself come across such posts but if there are any making fun of his character or personailty than that is rather unfair I agree.

As far as I can see, we reserve the right to have our opinions on his Dancing ability but his personal life is his business.

BUT, I would like to say that the unfairness you're pointing out towards Baichung and Sonia is the same unfairness you have shown towards Monica and the other's you've mentioned above (I think we all know who you're referring to.) Do they not deserve the same respect you're asking for Baichung and Sonia?

A positive post about Baichung and Sonia will always be welcomed by me but not at the expense of other contestants.

Thank you.

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Kasturilover

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Posted: 16 years ago

Labrat34

Please read my post again. I have not advocated Baichung is the best dancer. And by all means comment on his dancing which needs improvement.

But to call him unfair at the cost of others is not fair either. I am sure you have been on this forum long enough to have read those entries.

As far as Monica is concerned. I am all for redemption. BUT true redemption. Which is why I said first read the India news reports. You will know why and who voted largely for her in Big Boss. NAd who was watching her performances where

As for her past, and its relation to one of the persons who has cost a lot for India, then I want to say its very easy to comment in third person. You have not lost a child, a father or a friend in a bomb blast. My prayer is you never do. If you did, you would know that terrorists and gangsters are the worst bane on India.

Again I am not commenting on her dance. She is a good dancer. Period.

But if she is shown compassion, then I think, honest innocent and hardworking Indians should also be shown the same amount of kindness.

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LabRat34

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Kasturilover
Labrat34

Please read my post again. I have not advocated he is the best dancer. And by all means comment on hs dancing.I think you should read mine again...that point was actually to supoort your post not in retaliation. I have nothing against Baichung and I dont want controversy...like you I was just stating what I felt.

But to call him unfair at the cost of others is not fair either.I agree with you completely there as I've mentioned in my post.😊I meant to compare him to others is unfair...I wasn't calling him (the person) unfair.

As far as Monica is concerned. I am all for redemption. But true redemption. Which is why I said first read the India news reports. You will know why and who voted largely for her in Big Boss.

And you have not lost a child, a father or a friend in a bomb blast. My prayer is you never do. If you did, you would know what terrorists and gangsters are the worst bane on India. My point here was...if the post was about Baichung alone with dragging others into it...it would be better appreciated. Here you've set yourself up for fights and the like and that DETRACTS from your original point which I believe was to give Baichung and Sonia their due respect was it not?

Again I am not commenting on her dance. She is a good dancer. Period.You have full right to comment on her dance...but judging her like this I felt was wrong.

But if she is shown compassion, then I think, honest innocent and hardworking Indians should also be shown the same amount of kindness.Like I said...personally (on the show too) I haven't come across them portraying Baichung or Sonia in a bad light until now...

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Kasturilover

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: LabRat34

Thanks Labrat. I appreciate the maturity you have shown.😳

My intention is not to start fights. I wrote back to you, because you had a valid point which I felt deserved a respectful answer.😳

And I am not judging Monica's dance or even her personality. I am trying to show a comparison, that in popular perception on this forum, Monica has more nicer posts describing her bechari status, as compared to Baichung who is called a non entity at times.

Also Sony leaves no stone unturned to show how much she has suffered, well. good enough. I am happy for her. And maybe she really is a bechari. If Sony could show her pain, could they not have shown Hard Kaur's pain in the same sensitivy. Hard Kaur's father got killed in riots when she was a kid. So is she not a real bechari😳. But Hard Kaur is often relegated to a joke category.

As for people fighting with me, well what can one do. If people are going to come after me based on fan following. So be it.

It kind of validates my anguish isnt it. 😳

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Natkat

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Posted: 16 years ago

Well kasturi i am so with you in this. agree baichung is one guy you dances and leaves the rest to the viewers. as for monica when i saw her in bigboss though i hated the fact that she was given a chance to make a comeback in bigboss when so many people did not even get a second chance in life that made me angry . but she put up her sympathy trump card there also cried and got votes. who voted for her well we know that but when she made a comeback on the wild card in the same show.it was shock for me to see that she was totally a different person. the bitching and accusations she made on another girls character in the show was shocking and of course people voted her out. now the same thing on this show .
WHY i dont like her as i have a friend back in india whose family was affected in the 1992 mumbai blasts and till today they did not get justice for it and my friend was telling that the same killers girlfriend gets to even come back on a show and now wants to go films. disgusting is what i can say. yes her dance is good but more than that really she is nothing else for me.
But what happened with sonia is a tragedy and she has come out of it and wish her the best as for baichung he deserves to be in finale . this is strictly my opinion.

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Lovish

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Posted: 16 years ago

Exactly, this is wht m trying to say in my post. She must not have liked sharing her past with public but creative so interfere in the lives of contestent

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Kasturilover

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: riti04

I absolutely agree with you. Baichung is the man of Honour!

I respect him for the standard and self-dignity he has maintained of himself, in this show, wher some others r loosing it

Baichung is the best participant of this show, he has truly defined that its not always needed to flirt or do dotana acts to become popular or TRP gaining machine. Competition should be done with simplicity and honesty...hats off to him👏👏👏👏

Thanks Riti, You wrote it so well😳. I dont know whether he will win. But I want him to acknowlegle him for his efforts.

Thanks again

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Wrackspurt

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Posted: 16 years ago

I agree with your topic......i have loads of respect for Baichung and Sonia......Sonia is a very strong and courageous person.......i liked her in JDJ 1 and now also i like her......my respect for her has increased tremendously👍🏼........as for Monica she says she was innocent and got trapped in the mess......but well there are many proof against her "innocense" so i better not say anything 😉

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Kasturilover

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: Natkat
Well kasturi i am so with you in this. agree baichung is one guy you dances and leaves the rest to the viewers. as for monica when i saw her in bigboss though i hated the fact that she was given a chance to make a comeback in bigboss when so many people did not even get a second chance in life that made me angry . but she put up her sympathy trump card there also cried and got votes. who voted for her well we know that but when she made a comeback on the wild card in the same show.it was shock for me to see that she was totally a different person. the bitching and accusations she made on another girls character in the show was shocking and of course people voted her out. now the same thing on this show .
WHY i dont like her as i have a friend back in india whose family was affected in the 1992 mumbai blasts and till today they did not get justice for it and my friend was telling that the same killers girlfriend gets to even come back on a show and now wants to go films. disgusting is what i can say. yes her dance is good but more than that really she is nothing else for me.
But what happened with sonia is a tragedy and she has come out of it and wish her the best as for baichung he deserves to be in finale . this is strictly my opinion.

Firstly appreciate you writing. Thanks so much and sorry if I made the bitter memories come to mind.

So sorry for your friends family.

Well my parents lost two colleagues, coz the blast took place in day time ner offices. Some years later the nightmare struck back when one friend got killed in train blasts.

And whats happened to the 1992-93 culprits. Some have fled, some are on bail!!!!!

Vernacular channels cried themselves hoarse that what kind of level this Sony channel is stooping to for TRP. But who knows may be the channel was pressurised.

Anyways, I hope Monica is good. I pray Monica is good. But every time those names associated with her come up, its hard to forget the blood behind it.

Anyway we are digressing. My point is Baichung is a soft cardboard target. He does not retaliate to anyone who says anything about him.

I dont know whethet they will reach the finals but I feel they work hard and thats the only thing that matters to me.

Natkat, deeply appreciate your reply.😳

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