Why does this always happen? - Page 2

Originally posted by: mahalaxmik

I am sorry to hear that you had a bad experience. But, as someone has already said in the forum, these things keep happening in life. Just consider it as a learning experience and don't let it stop you from being happy. Anyone who is only using you is not worth being your friend and is not worth you time.

As time passes, you will make more friends. Also, this is a process of maturing as these are lessons in life. The next time, chose the people you want to help more carefully and don't do anything more than the necessary. Free advice, free help is not appreciated.

One thing i would say again and again is chin up. I am proud of you. You do not have to expose yourself to look sexy and good. It is in your body language and your dressing style. The other girls, they are just one of those wo don't know what to do with their mnew found freedom.

aww thanx and ur rite...but it does hurt alot

Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

Don't worry Sonu, these things are part of your life. You will see this kind of people every once in a while and sooner you learn not to care what they are upto, better it is for you. My own family misused ma and now they are so jealous that I am more friendly with rest of the family and no body give adamn about her becaus eshe has no ethics.
Just try to ignore them as much as you can and try to show that you are more happier now than when you had their company.
Lots of love,
🤗
Neelam

aww thanx di but why does dis happen to me? i just dont get anything

Originally posted by: blyton

Sonia, first of all, stop wasting your precious tears on those who don't deserve them. Then remind yourself that one day, you will have your courage of conviction, and the assurance that you DID help someone unselfishly. What will those people have? Resentment, frustration, and no premanent self-image.

Believe me, i'v had such kind of experiences many a time. So many times i cried and questioned myself whether i had any real friends at all. But with time, i realised it was better that i didnt make those people my friends, and i also found true, lasting companions. Slowly, you too will find them. Don't worry....and remember we are all there for you. 🤗

thanx bylton and ur rite i will find a true friend someday that i can trust thanx alot for a great compliment🤗

Originally posted by: laddoo598

Sonu these kind of things will happen in life
U knw what sonu,its really good that those girls are out of ur way 😊
They were never ur true freind and its really good that u now knw that. 😛
True freinds are hard to find,but I am sure u atleast have one true freind and we r always thr for u no matter what 😳
So just cheer up and smile because those girls r not worthy of ur precious tears 😃

awww thanx my ladooo

k today things gotten worse and on sunday b4 i called that gurl who i have a ride to skool i called my other friend n ask3ed her what i should say to the gurl about da ride n i was just not in my sense that day and by accidently i said that our other friend is that gurls chamchi and she goes n tells the gurl who i called a chamchi n tells her dat i said she acts like a chamchi n everyone of my friends r mad n they treated me like dirt today and just ignored me all lunch and were not talkin to me at all...and i asked that gurl who i called a chamchi y r they bein different n she goes its ur attitude n wwhy the hell did u call me a chamchi and u know dat hurt me n i said sorry to her and still i am treated like dirt and she said i am actinmg weird n rude n i am givin attitude to everyone and that they all hate me for dis n r mad at me...k i know i shouldnt call my friend a chamchi but i was pissed off but why r they actin like dis over a damn ride..n that gurl who told this gurl i called her a chamchi she used to call her a chamchio too but bnever opened my mouth..am i that rude..am i bein a bitch?

sonu, these things happen in life where u feel used and cheated . Just remember one thing that the people who give u tears dont deserve ur friendship and they arent ur true friends. Just be cool and act normal and dont mid their attitude and behave normally , thats it , rest the situation and time will take care of everything. Make more friends and I am sure there would be a true friend or genuine friends around so dont lose hope and pls dont cry and feel disheartened as they are not worth it and pls concentrate on ur studies as thats the most important thing in life .The rest will follow

Originally posted by: tina59

sonu, these things happen in life where u feel used and cheated . Just remember one thing that the people who give u tears dont deserve ur friendship and they arent ur true friends. Just be cool and act normal and dont mid their attitude and behave normally , thats it , rest the situation and time will take care of everything. Make more friends and I am sure there would be a true friend or genuine friends around so dont lose hope and pls dont cry and feel disheartened as they are not worth it and pls concentrate on ur studies as thats the most important thing in life .The rest will follow

thanx tina ur such a sweet heart n thanx everyone

Originally posted by: ~Taheera~

Hey Sonia...

Those girls aren't worth your time. You're an amazing person who deserves
better friends.

Move on, jaan. I know it's not easy, but it's worth it in the end. Don't bother
about those stupid girls. You'll find better friends. You HAVE better friends
on here, don't you? We all love you, hun. *hugz*

tiki thanx alot u actually read my post n ur rite i have better friends den them n those ppl r u!!!they could screw but kiya karron mein unlogon ka

hey soni,as everybody said those freinds are not worth your tears...they don't deserve you...you are an amazing person and be that way always!!you'll get betrayed many times in ur life but believe me those who betray you,will definitely get their due(very-very harsh one) as KARMA rules...and it is not like it happens to you only...It happens to everybody...This is difficult test in life which everyone needs to pass to achieve something in their lifes....so be brave and optimistic...

and one more important thing...never try to change yourselves according to other people...be yourself and unique!!

last but not the least...we are always here for you 🤗

love you tons