Originally posted by: mikagurl23
hi kali,
I was JUST like you! Anyone remember mine and i think peaches fight for Purab's freedom. And then how longer can be fight? And plus, after that discussion, i haven't really been seeing any negative thoughts. I mean, this is a show. I used to be very possesive about whatever was being said about Purab. But now, I just dont simply care but in real life, I don't really think things like that would ever happen. If purab is being said bad in this serial, he will have many other positive things said in another serial. I understand that you are someone like me, who is attracted to Purab as I am! I love Purab indeed alot, and another crowd out there as well. In this forum, everyone is likely to post their viewpoints, although it is true that if you have nothing nice to say, then don't say. But when I entered this forum, I was very angered and high-tempered then, this forum has taught me to go with the flow. If there are many bad things talked about purab, there are the equal amounts about armaan. So basically it is balanced, although it is true that there are more apurva fans out there than samir. But Samir deserves to quit the show, not becuz he is bad, becuz he deserves better. I mean how longer can he stay just for idioT and iDiot for higher TRPS? I mean, how selfish can idioT and iDiot be? Purab is my dream and everything. He is one person I admire and will say good things about, if I hear bad things, then one day or the other, their favorites will be said bad. It is balanced in this forum, it might be late but it is still balanced.
That was very beautifully said mikagurl 👏.
Dear Kali, this is a discussion forum and primarily people come to post what they think about the characters in a show and the serial in general. It can be good and it can be bad. What matters is not what you are saying, but how you are saying it. As Daisy so beautifully put, one cannot change the opinion of the world.
If this was just a place where everyone would post fan mail, then this would not be JJKN discussion forum, rather a fan mail forum. And if the intention of coming here is saying all goody goody things about the characters and convey how much you love them, then I am sorry, India Forums is not the right place to do it because in such a scenario, I don't see any scope for any discussion.
JJKN is not about Purab. Now why you choose to see it is entirely your prerogative. However, when you come here, it is expected that you take part in the discussions for the srial as a whole and not fragmentise it. Also, beleive me, if you would contribute about the serial as a whole and not concentrate on just one actor, it would help you lessen a lot of tension.
So please do not post fanmail centric posts. I repeat, this is JJKN, the serial discussion forum. So all the characters are subject to both appreciation and criticism. And as long as the criticism is not in form of personal attack, it is more than welcome, shall always be welcome.
This is a make beleive world. I know the fictional characters can become big in our pscyche, but remember, don't mix reel with real. And it will pay to learn to take criticism and more importantly, reply to it without offending.