TREE HUGGIES? - Page 3

Originally posted by: tina59

this is turning out to be another of those threads that we were tired of reading again and again.Anyway no more comments ,I have just one thing to say,time and maturity changes all and thats what is going to everybody till then write up and enjoy in ur own fool's paradise

Lord have mercy-u guyz are the most talented writers ever😉-the mind boggles i tell u to see such loooooong posts-come on ppl-lets call it a truce-lets spread lowe😉😛..i lowe u all despite the 'bashing'-yes im quoting it now😛..

Originally posted by: tina59

this is turning out to be another of those threads that we were tired of reading again and again.Anyway no more comments ,I have just one thing to say,time and maturity changes all and thats what is going to everybody till then write up and enjoy in ur own fool's paradise

😊🤗

Originally posted by: tina59

this is turning out to be another of those threads that we were tired of reading again and again.Anyway no more comments ,I have just one thing to say,time and maturity changes all and thats what is going to everybody till then write up and enjoy in ur own fool's paradise

so how could you blame us....

as you say,this happens most of the times...you never are convincing as to why I am wrong,and thus I dont realize the mistake(if i've made any)...

Now,without telling a person where he/she is wrong,you'll guys just accuse,and then when questioned,mouth the cliche"as you grow,you'll learn"......I mean,one learns only by getting convinced that one is wrong right,now i yet dont think talking about Mona's bollywood dreams or about her contradictions account to bashing...but every "aunty" feels so(hey,now the old,mature members can be called aunties,cant they😉😆)....Now,unless you convince me,how would it help....You only say that in your perception,mmona didnt contradict herself..similarly,this time,I say that in my perception,I have not bashed...how could you plaster me black,only because to you,every critique seems as bashing..I need an answer...scapegoating,and making a certain person bear the brunt ALWAYS is not fair

The fat is in the fire😛..either elucidate,orelse,take back your word😛

Originally posted by: Buffie

so how could you blame us....

as you say,this happens most of the times...you never are convincing as to why I am wrong,and thus I dont realize the mistake(if i've made any)...

Now,without telling a person where he/she is wrong,you'll guys just accuse,and then when questioned,mouth the cliche"as you grow,you'll learn"......I mean,one learns only by getting convinced that one is wrong right,now i yet dont think talking about Mona's bollywood dreams or about her contradictions account to bashing...but every "aunty" feels so(hey,now the old,mature members can be called aunties,cant they😉😆)....Now,unless you convince me,how would it help....You only say that in your perception,mmona didnt contradict herself..similarly,this time,I say that in my perception,I have not bashed...how could you plaster me black,only because to you,every critique seems as bashing..I need an answer...scapegoating,and making a certain person bear the brunt ALWAYS is not fair

The fat is in the fire😛..either elucidate,orelse,take back your word😛

c'mon buffie just chill ok ,theres no pint arguing and feeling offended by any of this. you are right, in my perception mOna didnt contradict herself and in ur perception she did and also all the things that u said abt her.

WE HAD A HEALTHY DEBATE AND THATS ABOUT IT .

if Mature ladies are called "aunties" then I would call all those immature childish ones " cry babies"

Just foregt it and enjoy life instead of finding points form articles to write bad abt someone .Why should we do that.I have always enjoyed ur posts and still do ,the only problem is ,it gets repetitive and in comes in every post abt someone .Thats a bit annoying .

this post was created for the tree huggies coz aishsh was somewhat depressed after reading many posts abt MS , so the members reaction was for that and nothing else but then again a post comes talking abt the same things (ur perspective)

see u can view ur opinion but not repeatedly again and again in each and every post and terming all those who have a different view from urs as being hypocrites ,bias etc etc ,isnt that unfair ,if u can stick to your point and say that what u perceived is what is right,dont u think others have the same right as well .

overall,why should we fight for these actors ,lets have a healthy debate and move on .period

buffie,I still adore you and ure posts and I am being very honest about it.so no hard feelings ok

lets forget this post and enjoy

Originally posted by: Buffie

I repeat,I dont think I have bashed mona,or called her names....if criticism generates negative energy,then would it be possible to stop all the journalists from mocking the stars,only because fans would get offended...NO!.....Not everyone see everything through tinted glasses,and because they dont,they arent generating any antipathetic vibes😕

I guess perhaps sometimes I would have crossed the very fine line that demarcates criticism and bashing😊😭....I.unfortunately dont know when,and where it has happend..so,I request you to kindly point out ,where I've gone wrong,rather than plainly deriding😭😭...That would perhaps help me to mature,help me to realize my fault(if I've made any)😊

do you think your criticism is the same as that of the journalist's? we have the option of not reading or not buying the magazine or newspaper which indulges in this type of reporting. here there is no competiton for the best critic, no competiton to get my article published, no competition for most viewership. here there is no competiton. full stop.

here we are on more personal terms. you are my friend and i care for you and for everyone else that writes. here every opinion is important and that is only because we care for each other. and i wish we could agree on some terms where we can meet.

nobody is viewing the world through tinted glasses. no body is saying that all those people we spend so much energy on are perfect. but then if they are not perfect then so what!?? nobody is!!

it not either white or black. lets stick to the shades of grey. or better still try to capure the whole spectrum....

😆😆..

Ok im really really really sorry for starting this post-throw andas at me and jhoothas but plz forgive me-i was hoping to bring about a bit of positivity but lolz i guess that backfired😕😆..

and yes mauritian i feel my post turned into your avataar😉..

Originally posted by: Mauritian

do you think your criticism is the same as that of the journalist's?

no..the journos are more ruthless😛

we have the option of not reading or not buying the magazine or newspaper which indulges in this type of reporting. here there is no competiton for the best critic, no competiton to get my article published, no competition for most viewership. here there is no competiton. full stop.

but,all articles relating to the star are posted in the forums right,so albeit I do get mid day in my city,I dont buy it,but I reads what it says at the forums....doesnt it work similarly with the comments too......When we can take scribes' words with a pinch of salt,why get so worked up about what a few members say😕

here we are on more personal terms. you are my friend

thank you😊

and i care for you and for everyone else that writes. here every opinion is important and that is only because we care for each other. and i wish we could agree on some terms where we can meet.

nobody is viewing the world through tinted glasses. no body is saying that all those people we spend so much energy on are perfect. but then if they are not perfect then so what!?? nobody is!!

Yes,and thus why does the pinpointing of the fact that the star isnt perfect garner so much indignation and ire😕..Afterall,I dont make brand new posts to malign anyone😕..If there's any article,or a picture posted,only then do me,sheen and prattz comment😕..and when repeated articles are posted,at times repeated comments are made...how does all the "comments" come under "bashing"😕..certain comments may be harsh,but how can they be tarred as "bashing" or as "vilification"😕

it not either white or black. lets stick to the shades of grey. or better still try to capure the whole spectrum....