Message for Ms Walia and Mr. Mehra. - Page 2

Kshreya,cool down.I don't think what Jammy said was a personal attack.

Jammy,we are still saying that what Jassi did was not wrong9going to meet Armaan,just unorthodox).Even her coming clean is comendable.But at least Purab could have shown more emotions.He is so tepid.Seems to have white blood running in his body.There is no passion.For such an eligible man he pathetically looks desperate.

As for moderators Kshreya,I'm sure they try to be level best to be fair.However,here I must point out that ALL the moderators are Purab fans and they tend to be a lot more lenient towards Purab fans.But most of the time they do their jobs well ( except for a few times,like when they let Rain get away for her vicious attacks but jumped on Princess immediately; don't spare Armaan fans anything.Recently too I noticed she was not given any kind of reprimand for labelling your praising of Deadly 'attack'.Just a gentle nudge😡).I think they can definitely improve on that.

Originally posted by: Ashwirya Shetty

<SPAN>Purab is treating Jassi the way she wants to be treated. From where I see, Jassi is a headstrong, stubborn, and aggressive woman. She will say what is on her mind when she is ready, and not when someone propels her. I think Purab is giving her space and yes, he is on cloud nine because he cannot believe Jassi agreed to marry him. This was something that he was too scared to even dream about. He is treating this whole relationship with kid glove. I am sure he wants to be 'romantic' and not just talk about work, but he probably knows that Jassi is not ready for it yet. Remember they are still friends…very close friends. Friends, but not like Jassi and Nandu friendship like Jassi herself said. Probably he is waiting for her to take the first step towards being romantic, which I think is a good thing.<?:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><O:P></O:P></SPAN>

<SPAN>There are times when he cannot control his emotions especially when he knows that Jassi loved Armaan in the past (maybe still loves). Hence, he got upset when he sees both of them having 'chai' in the middle of the night. Next day, he waits all day for her call, knowing that she will tell him about her meeting with Armaan. When later, she wants to tell him, he is nervous about hearing the worse (in my opinion the dialogues did not do justice here). When she tells him what really (???) happened, he is relieved. He believes her completely. <O:P></O:P></SPAN>

<SPAN>Now, isn't Jassi a person who always tells the truth. So, why should Purab think otherwise? Even Jassi believes she has gotten over Armaan and is telling Purab the truth - that she has gotten over Armaan. <O:P></O:P></SPAN>

<SPAN>In my opinion, Purab is the one getting the raw deal in this relationship. Jassi is the one with THE problem. She really needs to do some serious introspection before getting into any relationship. Right now, to me she is coming across as a cunning person- when she realized that though Armaan has professed his love to her, but cannot let the whole world know because Puru will divide the company blah blah blah, she says 'yes' to the next eligible guy who likes her. </SPAN>

well explained!!! also, I must say Jassi is one hard girl to deal with....till now I was thinking I am the only hard one to deal with but Jassi makes me relieved 😉 ...I guess she need some time to get over with her past before getting into any relationship....thats teh reason she is taking this much time to be that close to Purab romance wise...overall she has a "dry persobality" i mean she is not that romantic anyways..

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

another of ur round of personal attacks. anyways im not surprised that once again no moderator has said anything.
coming to the rest of ur post. i only said purab should have let jassi
complete what she says instead of butting in w/ his 'i trust u, jassi'.
he wud have saved himself lots of agony. purab's biggest fault is he
thinks he knows everything and everyone.
jassi meeting armaan was no big deal from armaan's pov. he gave a
choice b/w meeting him b4 or after the party. why did jassi choose to
meet him after? no explaination was given in the serial.
what sort of 'understanding' is purab destroying. most normal women wud
prefer a man who is more possessive than purab mehra. most women i know
do so. its a woman's pov. also ive NEVER seen a hubby being so tolerant
as purab mehra. makes me think he is totally weird. only thing he seems
to want it get a wife. come what may. he doesnt care if she loves him
or not. for a supposedly goodlooking business tycoon he acts pretty
desperate.
in purab's place any normal man wud have been upset. in jassi place i
wud spare my fiancee of the sordid details. and thats all i said.
coming to pj relationship..is it a relationship? for jassi its a compromise. for purab desperation.

Please Kshreya...I am not concerned about yours adn Jammy but wanted to comment on when you said- normal women wud
prefer a man who is more possessive than purab mehra.. .why would any woman want that...I am also a woman and I would want my husband to be just like Purab...I mean I dont want my hubby to be possesive with every man I talk with. Husband and Wife has to have trust adn everything and there should be space in any relationship I think. Otherwise it just starts to get suffocated.... every human being needs their own space be it MAN or WOMAN!!

Being a woman myself I dont want a hubby like the type depicted by Nana Patekar in 'Agnisakshi'. But yes a lil bit of possessiveness..a lil bit of jealousy adds spice to life. it wud be so boring if i ALWAYS knew how he will react. Most women i know say that they enjoy it when their hubbies get jealous. mind you..i know these guys and none of them are mcps or anything.

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Well, said, Kshreya!!!

Purab Mehra, with all his good intentions, does manage to look almost INDIFFERENT instead of being UNDERSTANDING with Jassi as far as Armaan is concerned. There is a limit to how much you can UNDERSTAND!!! 😕

I know I am going to be wildly jealous/hurt/disgusted/frustrated if my fianc suddenly declares that he has "suddenly/innocently🤗" said I Love You to another girl; he was attracted to in the past, just a FEW days prior to our marriage.

In my case THERE WOULD BE NO 😡MARRIAGE till the time he sorts out HIS own feelings/emotions.

Originally posted by: tamanna

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Well, said, Kshreya!!!

Purab Mehra, with all his good intentions, does manage to look almost INDIFFERENT instead of being UNDERSTANDING with Jassi as far as Armaan is concerned. There is a limit to how much you can UNDERSTAND!!! 😕

I know I am going to be wildly jealous/hurt/disgusted/frustrated if my fianc suddenly declares that he has "suddenly/innocently🤗" said I Love You to another girl; he was attracted to in the past, just a FEW days prior to our marriage.

In my case THERE WOULD BE NO 😡MARRIAGE till the time he sorts out HIS own feelings/emotions.

Nail hit bang on the head Tamanna👏👏.I completely agree with you.I too don't like suffocating possessiveness,no way.But a little jealousy and anger on my husbans's part delights me to no end.He seemed more concerned with the fact that Jassi wanted cto talk ( Purab makes for an awful listener ) then what she actually wanted to talk about.Sometimes if almost feels that if Jassi doesn't scream to him,he probably won't give her a chance to speak ever.It's like the moment Jassi get 3 words out,he takes over and finishes the sentence for her😆.

A liitle more feeling on his part regarding the whole matter woundn't have gone amiss.

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

Being a woman myself I dont want a hubby like the type depicted by Nana Patekar in 'Agnisakshi'. But yes a lil bit of possessiveness..a lil bit of jealousy adds spice to life. it wud be so boring if i ALWAYS knew how he will react. Most women i know say that they enjoy it when their hubbies get jealous. mind you..i know these guys and none of them are mcps or anything.

though in principle i agree with you...but with the position jassi is in(she is ceo and her last crush is chairman working in rival company), purab has to keep an open mind otherwise the relationship will never work.he did get jealous but he rationalized...which i think was very mature.

yeah,along with being a bit uncleish and quite indiffrent....

Bang on pj.... I think Purab being mature is the keyword for all his behaviour..... very well said..... 👏

If mature is the key word for Purab,then he certainly didn't exibit this particular trait when he decided to fall for Ms Jassi.He certainely doesn't look mature by the company he keeps!!!!!!!!!!!!!