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Posted: 19 years ago
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I could not search out the thread which i am replying to. let me

Well this is a nice post. I segregate it in two categories i.e old married couple and newly married couple

Amongst of the list couple majority is newly wedded couple.

Archana and Parmeet

- Married long back and they seem really happy couple and made for each other. I do like them also. I think they are the best Jodi

Manshi and Rohit

- is also same. Good couple. They looks happy together.

Sachin and Supriya

- I think most elderly couple. They are very lovely

Rajiv and Delnaaz

- 10 years old married couple. Yes they prove their compatibility

Mandira Bedi & Raj Kaushal

- Married at a matured age and they have succeeded 8 years. Pretty long time and before that they had romance. So we can call their marriage is succesful.

Mini Mathur & Kabir Khan

- Old married couple.

Only above are old couples and I thing they have a real understanding and so bonding between are quite strong. Also they have not acted together as a couple or any other. But their bonding with each other appreciable.

Rest of above all are newly married. They are yet to prove their marriage successful and I wish them all the best.

Gouri and Hiten

- Good Couple and my favourite. They have worked together for a long time, they got the chance to judge each other. Acting with each other for a long time is really an advantage for the couples and its help to increase the mutual understanding between them.

Varun & Rajeshwari

are aged and very matured. When I see them I feel both of them are very intelligent and matured.

Manav and Sweta

work together in Kkusum also as friends. May be the romance bell started ringing form them.

Poonam and Manish

and they have worked together as a couple 4 years back. But married newly and recently have child. They looks happy together..

Mihir and Manini

- Newly married. Manini had a child from her old marriage. They have not yet completed their honeymoon

Tahnaaz & Bhaktiyar Irani

- Very recently married. They looked happy as usually all the newly married couples look

Amit & Neeru

- Newly married . They had affairs for a long time. May be they took time to get married b'coz testing each other for future prospect.

Shakti and Sai

- Newly wedded and also even a very short span of introduction

Kiran Karmarkar & Rinku Dhawan

- Have been worked together for 5 longs years. They got scope enough scope to each otherach chances to judge each other

Kirti Gaekwad & Sharad Kelkar

-very recently married and it happened suddenly

Apoorva Agnihotri & Shilpa Saklani

- They got married after six months dating. Three year passed after their marriage.

Also the few name which I have not mentioned are also newly wedded couple or newly engaged pair.

Now amongst of the total couple list how many wives made propaganda that "Main Mr X ki biwi hun", "I am Mrs X" etc. I don't know how many etcs. or how many being chipko to their husband. Does it mean that they are not happy together. Did we find any insecurities in their action. They are also doing shows, attending award ceremony but in normal manner. When ever I have seen this couple comfortable together. Except AA. He just looks like robot and formal. His face used to be expressionless, no spontaneousnes whenever I saw him with his life partner. I know I am back to he square. But when I saw or see him with Mona, AA completely looks like a different person. His action, his laugh, his glittering eyes says he is in comfort.

If you recall Manish & Poonam in award ceremony. How much happy he looked and it was from heart when Poonam got the award for best Sister. Same way if you recall other couple also the same thing happened. But when SS was on stage AA was shown happy but formally not convincing. Similarly if you compare the same thing with Mona the real happiness came up in AA's face when Mona got awards. But when Smriti (Tulsi), Sweta (Prerna), got Award Ronit Roy was normal, when Shakshi (Parvati) god award Kiran was happy but normal, same Ammna & Rajiv. But is it same for MandA. NO. whenever both of them gets any award, do a show their every action comes from their hurt. I feel I need not to more elaborate.

Dr Sachchidanand is right. Two actors work together for years and years as couple. They have put their heartiest and mental strength to bring its originality. Thus slowly they become close and close. Most of the time they stay together just like apu said she missed mona if there is not shooting.

Now I have some question. When marriage calls successful? I think two people spend together atleast 8-10 years together, they got kids, when they fulfil the responsibilities towards their family, both of them can depend on themselves. As newly married couple used to be in woolgather state of mind.

I don't want to say the other couple who are newly married are not perfect. I wish them all the best and pray for their togetherness always.

But when relationship becomes burden its better to split if you recall

SHEFALI CHHAYA & HARSH CHHAYA they were really a lovely couple.

I also enjoyed Nach Baliye it was great. All the couple did their best.

And there should not be any comparison between bollywood & telewood couples. There status are not same. Bollywood couple change their mate like every day dress change. Also I never heard about Gobinda Rani Pair.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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is this an article 😕 ..so here we go again with the Manda mystery[LOL}
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Posted: 19 years ago
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wow i really excited when i read ur thread about couple i 100% agree with u.........ur thoyghts and my are similar ...........
Mona and Apu forever.......(armaan and Jassi)made foreachother 😳
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Posted: 19 years ago
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such, has made some analyses 😉 ,well i will still say and wish sanda marriage to be successful, no matter how much i love manda, 😳
maybe aa so called discomfort is because when he is with ss, he playing the role of a real husband, who has got some responsibilities as well as tensions 😕 i am also confused 😕 badly
but when it comes to mona, he is only a co actor and having fun and enjoying while working 😕

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Posted: 19 years ago
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when did Amit and Neeru get married?
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Posted: 19 years ago
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aah...the MandA mystery!!! i actually missed these kind of analysis...good to see your brains are still working on this...though i have to say, despite the convincing arguments...i don't think there's anything going on between MandA!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think this in reference to the article posted 2 days back.
I like your analysis. Personally, i agree that Apu looks mechanical when he is with SS, whereas with Mona he is completely relaxed and enjoying himself like a little boy.
I don't completely agree with JS's explanation; every husband feels a sense of responsibility towards his wife, but that does not mean he always behave like a straitjacketed being in public!
At least on festive occasions, they can relax and enjoy themselves with their spouses. But that rarely happens with SandA.
The only exception was the SPA where AA let himself go; but here again it was a purely carnal display without any glimmering of real affection.

I was really taken by delighted surprise when i saw AA spring up like that when Mona won the award. I never thought he would be so uninhibited with SS sitting right next to him.

That does not prove MandA are in love or that AA does not love SS. Whatever i may personally feel, the truth is known only to AA's own heart.

I also agree with the example of Harsh and Shefali Chhaya--they were the hottest TV couple of their time, and their split was a shock. When i see them today, both remarried, i feel they ar much happier with thier second spouses than they were with each other.
But we cannot class sanda in the same category. Maybe the parallel fits, maybe it doesn't.

i disagree with one statement of Fan's. I don't think a "successful marriage" is one where the couple stays together for years and has children. There are couples who stay married for decades without having any genuine affection for each other. Why do we hear of couples splitting in their 40s and 50s? It is because, in their youth, even if they felt something was amiss in their marriage, they stayed on because of socail pressure and shared responsibilties, not to mention physical satisfaction. But in their declining years, they start feeling cheated and want to break free and pursue all those dreams that were blighted because of a not-so-happy match.

Even the perfect couple needs to work on their marriage and give it their best. The question is, is the marriage worth giving its best to? If the couple is fundamentally mismatched , i think one should give the relationship a serious rethink.
True marriage is one in which both partners share a soul connection, mental synchronity, and heartfelt affection. If these ingredients are lacking, then no matter how "successful" the marriage may seem to be on the surface, the insides are hollow.

That is why when i hear of so-called "hot couples", be they sanda or any other, i take the hype with a pinch of salt. I prefer to trust my own instinct than the media's stilted, gushing depictions.

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