MELONCHOLIC ADIEU....MY FINAL UPDATE - Page 11

Originally posted by: krangara

I don't blame Mona if she has feelings for Apurva AS LONG AS SHE DOESN'T ACT UPON THEM...

well, so how can we bame apu if he has feelings or mona.... just an afterthought.....the human heart is difficult to enslave.......so when we say that its not wrong on mona's part to have feelings for a married man as long as she doesnt act upon them, then similarly, it also not wrong that apu has feelings for mona as long as he doesnt act upon them......he is loyal to ss, is a dutiful husband,is not cheating on her by having an affiar with someone else but does have feelings( an infatuation, a passing crush, is in besots, or perhaps something more fervent and deep) for mona which he tries to suprress , but its quite hard as the human heart is not one which readily comes into servitude..human mind is a wonderful servant once you get the better of it, but a terrible master once it gets the better of you

buffy i like ur updates at times its funny at times crazy but sad now that no more jjkn

wat u goin to do nowbuffy
and thanks for entertaining us dear 😃

Originally posted by: Buffie

so are you ok with the fact that abhi is dark and one needs a tochlight to see hij at night😡

sarcasm apart, abhi JUST ROCKSSSSSSSSSSSSS

awe i am totally ok with getting torchlight at night 😡 he just rocksssssssssssssssssss he is so cute yaar... far better than ahem ahem....ummm...someone's hubby!!! 😳 😉

Originally posted by: hansini_78

yes, buffie i agree with u.Its not wrong to have feelings for someone simply coz its not in our hands....its human nature to get attracted towards someone and nothing can be done about it.....u just cant help it even though u know that its wrong......

so as long as aa does not act upon his feelings its ok coz he is not hurting anyone

its only natural for two people to get attracted towards each other when they are spending so much time together and enacting romantic scenes but thats it (plain attraction) and nothing else...

i cant consider it anything deeper than this and i think aawould have felt like that for any other actress too in mona's place.........mona was in his life b4 ss came.....in fact they got married one year after jjkn first started......so if he had to fall in love with mona he would have done long before.........true they didnt have ant romantic or passionate scenes b4 that but do u need that to fall in love with someone or get attracted to her.................did he need to act with ss to fall in love with her............and if thats the case then how can anyone be sure that he wont fall in love with another actress again while enacting passionate scenes with her

now, physical attraction is possible between actors but being proffesionals i think they know where to draw the line ......it might be more difficult for mona coz she was a newcomer but for aa ,it was not the case....

so i think that whatever aa feels for mona certainlly cannot be called love..........attraction is possible but then every man feels attracted towards beautiful girls and he may feel like that for other girls also......if he really admired her for her qualities, he wud have fallen for her long b4...........if he looks besotted with her then its certainly coz of her looks now and he is behaving like any other man....he certainly didnt look besotted with her when she was in jassi garb ....altough he must have known that mona certainly didnt look like that and was a model...............one year is a long time to know a person and ralize that u feel something for her.......how long did it take him to realize that he wanted to spend his life with ss........just 6 months.........

now ss cant become a totally different person after marriage.........that his love for her wud vanish just in short period.....in a marriage probs do occur but it doesnt mean that u stop loving ur spouse bvut try to solve the probs

if aa is running away from his probs and going to another girl then it only shows that he is not a mature man and he really cant be trusted..........

having said that i wud like to say that i like both mona and apurva a lot and respect them......and partly this is coz there is nothing going on between them.......they come across as dignified people who value relationship.

you do have many valid points👏........yeah, it cannot be called love .....that's why i came up with the term frivolous flirting😃.......mona is not even ready to get into a safe secure relationship as she says that she's too ambitious and wants to pursue a career in films........so the question of getting into a risky dangerous relationship is ruled out ....she wouldnt want to be in a dicey precarious situation..........Apurva's career would be doomed if he cheats on SS as the entire industry is with shilpa ..........maninie, parmeet etc etc are more close to ss than to mona.... ...and i really dont think that apu would ever be as successful as aamir khan or saif that he will muster up the courage to take the plunge...........and the society isnt forgiving or understanding.....society is the biggest hypocrite and is very biased and prejudiced........the blue blooded are always favoured.....in short, SandA forever😆

a small correction:..jjkn shooting started sometimes in june/july 2003....and sanda met in august 2003.....and it was a courtship of 11 months ( that's what ss said on popkorn)....so i guess almost a year of courtship was long enough....😕and a golden throry...when one starts dating, the partner seems to be impeccable, matchless, flawless...one just likes everything about the partner......but after marriage its different.....why do you think so many marriages end up in a divorce😉

ahhh thanks for the update buffie! i love the episode a LOT! 😭

I know it was soooo cute, I am already missin JJKN 😭 😭 😭