Originally posted by: hansini_78
no one in the world is flawless.......and when u love someone u accept him/her with all her faults......love is something which caannot be explained.......u just fall in love, u dont plan it or think that u should start loving someone coz she has this and this qualities.........it just happens........and no one can be considered the best in this world
agreed here😊...no comments whatsoever...you have said everything
true, after marriage,u know ur partner better and if u truly love her u accept her as she is......many people in love may not know what they are getting themselves into when they plan to marry.......however this cant be true in case of aa as he is a mature person and had been in a relationship.......i believe that he is intelligent enough to choose a wife for himself.......he is not a teenager boy who can be besotted with a preety face and decide to marry her on impulse just like that..........moreover he is in an industry where he is surrounded with preety faces all the time........so marrying someone just coz of looks does not make any sense........he must have felt something special for her
well, again some points are valid here......but i dont concur with some others......i believe that initially, apu just went for looks..true, he's surrounded all around with pretty faces but not all those "PRETTY FACES" are really pretty😕....lolz, i am confusing myself😆., what i mean is that not everyone in the entertainment business and modelling are beautiful......i dont think that priyanka chopra is beautiful....similarly, shilpa shetty,diana hayden, mahima chaudhary, udita goswami, mallika sherawat, ayesha takia etc are not exactly pretty or "BEAUTIFUL"🤢...they are above average looking, with great bodies.... SS was charming(i do believe that she's really pretty except for her teeth lol) ...and i remember apu saying in one of his interviews that when he met ss for the first time, he just wanted to marry her and it was love at first sight(and i dont believe in the love at first sight nonsense...at first glance, its just attraction ..not love....just my belief )....and he ran behind SS and convinced her to marry him.............perhaps rK had told him about SS' idea of getting married early and ss completely fitted the bill as apu didnt want an ambitious girl as he broke up with his ex as she wanted to pursue a career in direction and film making and he wanted to get married.........so cant really say he fell head over heels in love with her ....perhaps it was a crush and she fitted the bill perfectly.......everything was perfect, she wanted to marry early, he wanted an unambitious girl, both are above average looking, same profession...it couldnt perhaps have got better😛
and coming to ss, i dont think why aa wud be regretting his decision to marry her and falling in love with her........we may not like her simply coz she does not look humble......but isnt she a very humble wife who is always says that she is very lucky to have apurva......she has said in an interview that aa is a star and better looking than her.......now which husband wud not be pleased with that......and to think that she is herself very preety and talented and has a gr8 fan following.....still she thinks that she is less than apu.........she is prepared to leave her carrer for her family......so i think that she is a very devoted wife.........not every girl puts her family and husband above everything else......i think that quality of hers is really commendable......and it also shows that she can compromise and determined to make her marriage work..........of course, she can get a guy after apu leaves her but she wants to stay with him only coz she really loves him......
again, very well said....apu must not be having any complaints whatsoever....for the normal viewers like you and me, the continual bragging might get irksome but he must not be having any problems ( he at the most must only feel embarrassed that she so openly calls him the most good looking guy and stuff)...i mean, husbands like to be pampered.(errm, do they?????).....😆....she is awesome when it comes to him but she is also the worst when it comes to him lol......i really am not in a position to bebate it out as i have never tried to understand a man's psyche😕.......so here's an open question...do men like it when their GF's/wife brag?????? Do men like the adulation showered by the wife????? Do men like it when the wife gets obsessive and insecure????do men like it when the wives continually goes on glorifying them?????? If the answer to all the above questions is yes, then apu musnt be having any complaints
so, my point is ,apu has no reason to not love her after marriage.........and also i dont think she is such a person whom most of the people dislike......how come she has made so many freinds in the industry if she were so meean and no one cud stand her....
its not like everybody likes shilpa...yes, her friends include ritu, reva, maninie, archana, rakshandha, all the NB wives etc etc but then, we have to also see that she has many cameos, and has played sidekicks in many soaps and thus her friends' circle is definitely larger than mona's...and ofcourse, she works for balaji and balaji is like one hugeeeeeeeee family.....she is nice otherwise, no denying that, but when it comes to bragging about her husband and throwing attitude, she becomes the worst....what was the need to brag on KF...what was the need to say that abhi is dark😡....what's irritating is that she finds her husband to be the best( nothing wrong about that..perfectly fine) but when she tries to justify that he's the best, on national tv, it gets annoying......trying to show abhi in AN inferior manner and lower thn apurva (coz he's dark) was just too STUPID....sorry yaar, but no comparison between abhi and apu....she always goes overboard which is irritating(and dont i have the right to get irritated😳)
as it is,i remember an article where it said it was mona who actually snubbed ss....not vice versa......doesnt it throw a bad light on mona.....she is hitting on a married man and snubbing his wife.....if ss can get along well with so many people in the industry,why cant she with mona......she cant be so childish to hate mona just coz she is acting with her hubby..........and if she were so much posessive and insecure,how come aa wud have cheered for mona at award function in her presence...even ss hugged mona warmly at award function..........wasent that a nice gesture from her side
we fans dont know much about ss or mona so we cant judge wat they are really like.....but from what i can see ss cant be such a bad wife or for that matter a bad person.........true she has some flaws but then who in the world hasent
couldnt have disagreed more........firstly, if apu clearly is NOT INTO mona, she wouldnt hug him in the first place.....mona is not a cheapo..she is dignified.....so perhaps apu too reciprocates........secondly, shilpa's other friends are NOT ASSOCIATED to apu.....but the mona and apu have shot many scenes and over and above that, the flirting goes on all the time(or at least after goa)......so obviously she has no reasons to be antipathetic towards her other friends......and note,only apu cheered for mona, not ss😉....well, i think that that was an impromptu outburst...unexpected as both mm and aa sprung up and started clapping and it was sooo hilarious😆😆😆..and at the tellies, well, duh, they HAD to hug..........otherwise, the media would have gone beserk and would have started digging into more details....and tellies was weird....for the following reasons....1) apu never thanked mona when he received his award..he even thanked people like MM who he hardly worked with but not mona whom he has been working with from day 1..fishy.....2) mona hugged apu when he went to collect his award but he didnt hug her back..stood there like an electrocuted tree........3)if there was nothing brewing, manda MUST have thanked each other first..........apu never thanked mona, and mona named apu somewhere in the middle after thanking rashandha, garuav, TnD,rajesh, etc etc.....4) yesterday's eppy said it all.....that one part where AA asks"nahin, show ki baat nahin kar rahaa hoom..meri(or hamaari)...that was intriguing ............5)MandA are definitely more than friends but always avoid each other at parties etc...mona never even says apu..she always says armaan(ok, that she does even to gaurav..she calls him nandu)......manda will always be a mystery
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