Conjecture about Shabnam's 'Jaali Jiju's motive

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi All!

First of all, I sincerely apologize for barging into this forum and making a post. Being a Mr Dubey fan, I finally couldn't stop myself. Very few actors get to play a character like 'Siddharth Khurana'. His personality gives ample scope to the actor to showcase his talent. Ravi, I feel is truly blessed, to be able to enact two truly multi-faceted characters like Siddharth and Raghu. He has done full justice in portraying their strikingly opposite personalities.

After reading many of the other topics posted by various members of this forum, based on the precap, I was driven to think that maybe Sid is impersonating Raghu because he had promised a dying Raghu to leave his previous life and take care of 'maai' (Raghu's mother) by taking her son's place in her life. All loyal viewer's of the show know how IDEALISTIC Sid is - in fact it is this trait of his personality that attracts and enthralls both young and old audiences alike. If Sid promised a dying man, he will surely keep his promise, no matter what it costs him. After all Sid is a gentleman. This reason to some extent justifies all Sid/Raghu's efforts to keep himself emotionally unavailable to Roshni and to make her believe that he is RAGHU and NOT SID, so that Roshni does not get her hopes high and tomorrow when he has to leave, Roshni does not feel broken again. Even now he is protecting his Roshni from being hurt in future by repeating again and again that he is Raghu. [I don't want the creatives of the show to read this and get ideas though.]

I saw many forum-members predicting Roshni's reaction on learning about Sid's lies - many believe that she would be justified in being angry with him as his actions would have hurt her. I just see the other side of the coin - where I see a man (Sid) who had to give up his identity completely for a greater cause. Identity is what makes us what we are, without it we are nothing. I get goosebumps thinking of losing my identity even for a second. I cannot begin to imagine the pain a man must go through and the immense mental strength he must have, in order to willingly give up his identity and thereby lose all touch with the people he loves (supposing there is no real memory loss).

I apologize for the long post. Hope you all have some views to share. Even disagreements are welcome. Eagerly awaiting your reply.

with warm regards

Priya

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Posted: 9 years ago
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welcome to forum😛

Him acting as Raghu for some reason is okay...but forever is impossible😆But we can predict anything only if we get to know the backstory of raghu😛..


Roshni's reaction can be in anyway..she can get angry to extent that there can be chance of separation or she can understand him and support him...it depends on cvs how they planned it😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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no problem!!
first of all welcome to our forum and you can make so many topics as your wish!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChandzLoveSidNi

welcome to forum😛

Him acting as Raghu for some reason is okay...but forever is impossible😆But we can predict anything only if we get to know the backstory of raghu😛..


Roshni's reaction can be in anyway..she can get angry to extent that there can be chance of separation or she can understand him and support him...it depends on cvs how they planned it😉




Thank you.

Since 'Jamai Raja' is about a jamai's responsibilities towards his 'sasural' and Siddharth not Raghu is the son-in-law, of course, the CVs cannot show Raghu forever.

I wrote the third paragraph of my earlier post maybe because I wanted to look at Sid's perspective and not Roshni's.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mybelovedsidni

no problem!!
first of all welcome to our forum and you can make so many topics as your wish!!!





Thank you for your encouragement.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hi
welcome to the forum!

Nice insight to his character! After going through so much, and promising roshni that he will return to clear his name and make her TRUST on him win... i really doubt he is going to keep the facade of being Raghu just coz a dying man asked him. He maybe idealistic and do things out of his way most of the times, but mostly for his sasural and their relationships. Agreeing to a stranger's request, losing his own identity and taking care of mai - when he knows how broken roshni is, his sasumom is in jail, his parents left - i just dont see him doing that! 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Welcome to the forum 😊

Now you scaring me with your post 🥱 Seriously Sid can't be Raghu forever be it.. He is the Jamai Raja so obviously he has to return to his family. Even if he saved Raghu and took a promise that he will look after his family... It's not good to deceive someone specially to a mother that her son died. You have to reveal it or the truth always comes out later or sooner.

He is Sid pretending to be Raghu but atleast he can tell Roshni; why keep her in the dark. Whats her fault in this. I am eagerly waiting for Saturday and his revelation. Hopefully CVS don't disappoint us.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very good logic yaar!! Let's see how all plays out...we are in for a lot of shocks and surprises...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: skinnypal

hi

welcome to the forum!

Nice insight to his character! After going through so much, and promising roshni that he will return to clear his name and make her TRUST on him win... i really doubt he is going to keep the facade of being Raghu just coz a dying man asked him. He maybe idealistic and do things out of his way most of the times, but mostly for his sasural and their relationships. Agreeing to a stranger's request, losing his own identity and taking care of mai - when he knows how broken roshni is, his sasumom is in jail, his parents left - i just dont see him doing that! 😛





Thank you.

My theory (as bizarre as it sounds right now) hinges on the assumption that Raghu died in order to save Sid (very improbable and perhaps quite illogical in real life, I know!), as is suspected by many forum-members after watching the precap for the next episode.

However, I did take into consideration that there may be other contributing reasons (personal motive) for Sid to deceive the world and lie to Roshni by claiming to be Raghu.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: paru10

Welcome to the forum 😊

Now you scaring me with your post 🥱 Seriously Sid can't be Raghu forever be it.. He is the Jamai Raja so obviously he has to return to his family. Even if he saved Raghu and took a promise that he will look after his family... It's not good to deceive someone specially to a mother that her son died. You have to reveal it or the truth always comes out later or sooner.

He is Sid pretending to be Raghu but atleast he can tell Roshni; why keep her in the dark. Whats her fault in this. I am eagerly waiting for Saturday and his revelation. Hopefully CVS don't disappoint us.

Be active in the forum!





Thank you.

Firstly, I am sorry for raising the idea (with this thread) in this forum that there was a possibility of Sid forever impersonating Raghu. My intention was to imply that Sid at that moment of Raghu's death (especially if the latter gave his life in order to save Sid) might have promised a dying man and being an idealist (at least that's how I always perceive his character) might just have been intending to keep his words. Of course sooner or later circumstances would have led Sid back to his wife's loving arms (as is happening nowadays).😊

Knowing Sid, he would have found a way to re-enter Roshni's life in order to solve her's problems and clear his sasumom's name, even if Roshni had not sought his help.

About deceiving Raghu's mother, I don't know. It can be seen in two ways. If Raghu was Sid's lookalike, Sid could be deceiving her, though he has a good intention behind doing it. However, while writing my original post, I imagined/took it that Raghu's mother knew about her own son's death and accepted Sid as her son (gave Sid Raghu's place in her heart) after knowing about Sid's circumstances. Any of the two possibilities can fit the situation (as it stands right now), though I personally think it's the latter possibility, because of the way Raghu's mother acted towards Roshni and Kritika.



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