Why Oh Why :( - Page 3

Originally posted by: shijhu

c guys when we c a man doing illegal behr n keeping a mistress or so we always blame da man for dat but for a change if we sit n analyse wot cud be da reason shailu betrayed his wife ..........point num 1 may be aradhna is too much a family oriented person like we saw them in da restaurant she kept on talking abt family which by shailus expressions were quite clear dat he wants da topic to be chnaged

just my view ki jab koi bhi partner xtra marital affair me involve hota hai he or she is not always on fault may be he or she wants more from dat relationship

What shorta logic is that ?!?! NO reason on this earth can justify infidelity of a husband to his wife🤢

It does take two to tango.

Originally posted by: nibbles

It does take two to tango.

Aradhana is shown as the homey, loving type. i.e. the perfect bahu, sister-in-law, chachi, wife etc. etc.

But maybe not 'interesting' enough for Shaelin?

But we'll never know if his attraction to Natasha is because she's more appealing than Aradhana [he's a guy: mini skirts Vs. Salwar Kameez?] or simply because of the forbidden fruit?🤔

Marriage is not about ' Interesting to each other or not ' 😕This doesnt define such pure relationshipIf Shailendra doesnt find her Interesting he can go and divorce her🤢But this doesnt support EMA🤢

^The way I see it, marriage is about compromise....and as much as I'd like to believe otherwise, physical attraction also has to exist.

Originally posted by: nibbles

^The way I see it, marriage is about compromise....and as much as I'd like to believe otherwise, physical attraction also has to exist.

Can you imagine the uproar it would cause if Shaelin decided to divorce her? Vrinda would probably be the only smug one.

Why should he go through the headache of Aradhana's tears, the family's questions and society gossip when he can have a loving wife AND mistresses to warm his bed?

I'm not even sure what point I'm trying to make at the moment.😕😆

Urh, probably why he's still with Aradhana.🤔

Dont mind but i feel u are saying this forcibly to support Shailendra😆Otherwise when u will read ur own post twice u will feel LOL too I bet😆

U are lost becoz u are not getting why Shaitan is doing this to such beautiful wife😆😆I am also in search of that reason...but the reason i found is Shaitan is Kamina😆😆U too get tht😆

Lol; I know he's a Kamina😆......Stupid man doesn't know that Natasha is a lot better than Aradhana.😡

Originally posted by: nibbles

Lol; I know he's a Kamina😆......Stupid man doesn't know that Natasha is a lot better than Aradhana.😡

But I always try to get in to a characters head and dissect what they do and why they do it [nope, I'm not hung up on soaps: I'm just a writer😃]......in this case, Shaelin is finding comfort in a homely wife and a racy mistress; I can identify why but no way do I approve of it. Euw.😵

Oh wow, are we the only ones discussing here?😕 Guess my weird analysing drove everyone away.😆

Originally posted by: nibbles

Lol; I know he's a Kamina😆......Stupid man doesn't know that Natasha is a lot better than Aradhana.😡

But I always try to get in to a characters head and dissect what they do and why they do it [nope, I'm not hung up on soaps: I'm just a writer😃]......in this case, Shaelin is finding comfort in a homely wife and a racy mistress; I can identify why but no way do I approve of it. Euw.😵

Oh wow, are we the only ones discussing here?😕 Guess my weird analysing drove everyone away.😆

😆😆 No others are doing too...but I guess they fall in short of words describing how beautiful tht Kamina's kaminapan is😆 we are bold enough to write😆

And mmmm....Aradhana was romantic with her Shailuji😡😡I cant see her like this😭😭This faaltoo creature needs a slap😡😡and to be kicked off😡😡 how dare he hurts my Aru😭😭 Aru was saying -- Mai aapki sir dabaa deti hoon.....I was like -- No no Uska galaa daba de 😡

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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Aru was saying -- Mai aapki sir dabaa deti hoon.....I was like -- No no Uska galaa daba de 😡

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Hello Nibbles, good to see you at this forum too.

I can see your point of view as it takes 2 people to make or break a relationship. If Aradhana's husband sees something lacking in her then he should communicate with her about it rather than finding solace somewhere else. The most important thing about a relationship is communication and compromises. I don't think her husband ever did that or wants to do that. Some men are Kaminas no matter which woman they have for a wife, they will still cheat. Just plain and simple. They should never get married to begin with.

Aradhana does not look like an unreasonable woman or wife and to top it all she is gorgeous. Like some one said ealier about her husband "Bhoosa bhara hai" poor brainless ediot. I can't sympathies with men like that no matter what. Marriage is a sacred vow and people should work at it rather than find happiness in some one else's arms. Aradhana would be in the right if she divorced him after finding out about his infidelities. I hope she does as he does not deserve her.